Queens of a Feather

Episode 11: Have a "Pepsi Wide" Merry Christmas

Dela*Nique

Merry Christmas from Queens of a Feather! In this episode we talk all things holiday! What do we want for Christmas? Is food a gift? Do single parents feel lonely during the holidays? Have you ever given your partner a music playlist? We also talk about being bored in a relationship. Would you leave your partner because you are bored? What are ways to spice up a "boring" relationship? Is the honeymoon phase ever really over?

We discuss all of this and so much more in our new episode of “Queens of a Feather” podcast available on YouTube and any major podcast platform. 

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Speaker 1
*Music*

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Speaker 2
You know what it is.

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Speaker 3
* Music* 
Welcome. Welcome. Welcome back.

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Speaker 4
Welcome. Welcome. Have you guys been? How you been?

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Speaker 2
How you been? Happy holidays.

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Speaker 5
Yes. Welcome to the.

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Speaker 3
Podcast. Yes. If you're new here, welcome. Welcome.

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Speaker 2
If you've been here for a.

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Speaker 3
While, still welcome. Welcome, Mike.

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Speaker 5
Check Mike. Check one.

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Speaker 2
21.

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Speaker 4
two. Hey, hey.

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Speaker 2
Thank you for coming back. Thank you, guys. OK. How has your holiday season been so far?

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Speaker 5
Yes, this holiday season.

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Speaker 2
You know what? If I was hoping that it would rain a little bit more? I got to be honest.

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Speaker 5
Trying to show my little shirt.

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Speaker 2
Oh my goodness.

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Speaker 5
What does it say? Let me see what's best in snow. OK, not really me, but.

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Speaker 4
It's festive, do you.

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Speaker 2
Think it works, it works, it's red.

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Speaker 5
For what we're doing.

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Speaker 2
Basically. Mm-Hmm. So every day on the docket. You got a few things. What for you? Really great thing. Are you ready? I don't know.

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Speaker 4
Yes, yes. So guys.

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Speaker 2
I kind of wanted to talk about Christmas things. Yeah, it's my favorite holiday.

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Speaker 5
It's it's mine too, actually. Is it? Yeah, I mean, yeah, yeah. I never thought about it. I was like, You know.

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Speaker 4
Yeah.

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Speaker 5
I thought about it, but it definitely is my favorite.

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Speaker 2
I absolutely adore if I could keep my Christmas tree up all year, I would.

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Speaker 5
I don't know about all that, but.

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Speaker 2
I really would. I swear to you right now, I.

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Speaker 5
Don't even know if I want to put up my Christmas tree.

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Speaker 4
Oh.

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Speaker 5
I know, because. OK, so last year I flocked it.

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Speaker 4
Mm hmm.

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Speaker 5
You know, and it hopefully you know what that means is when you put like fixed snow.

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Speaker 4
Yeah.

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Speaker 5
So I have a very big tree and I flock to it and it was fun. But it's a lot of flux fake snow that would be in your house. Yeah. So now I'm like, Man, I kind of want to just go back to what I had before, but I can't.

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Speaker 5
So I'm thinking, should I buy a new tree? But trees are so.

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Speaker 2
Expensive, are they? How much?

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Speaker 5
Well, it's the artificial mine is artificial. Oh yeah. And it's like seven.

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Speaker 2
Yeah.

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Speaker 5
seven or eight feet. I can't remember. And is prelate so good Christmas tree? Yeah, I'm looking at like $400.

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Speaker 2
Yeah, that can cost you a pretty penny.

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Speaker 5
I know some like let me pull this already flocked tree because it looks amazing. It's just.

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Speaker 2
It's everywhere.

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Speaker 4
It's everywhere.

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Speaker 2
It's worth it.

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Speaker 4
Oh my goodness, it is.

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Speaker 5
Yes, it is worth it.

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Speaker 2
Yes. Yes, yes. So I cannot wait to see it.

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Speaker 5
Are you going to put up a tree?

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Speaker 2
You know what I want to. My son is still he's too. So, yeah, this would be a good lesson to be like, Don't touch it.

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Speaker 4
Don't touch it. You know.

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Speaker 5
He is going to touch it, though he's totally going to touch it. He's going to touch the tree.

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Speaker 2
I was thinking about getting like a a real one, but like a small one and putting it like on the dining room table kind of in the back.

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Speaker 5
Oh, you see, and that's my mind was like, maybe I should get a small tree to. Yeah, but I feel like a small tree is going to look odd. I like putting the presents underneath the tree.

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Speaker 4
Yes, that whole.

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Speaker 2
Feels.

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Speaker 4
Just, oh, a lot of work.

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Speaker 2
It is a lot of work. I mean, now you're right, and.

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Speaker 5
It's like my trees, like three sections. I think three or four sections is huge.

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Speaker 2
Are you? Are you putting lights up or are you going to put lights?

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Speaker 5
No, I don't. No one do that.

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Speaker 2
You don't do the lights.

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Speaker 3
No. Oh, the lights don't. Don't, don't, don't, don't, don't, don't, don't. Don't do that. I just don't think it does.

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Speaker 5
So I know I don't put on no lights. I won this whole and put up, you mean, I'll say, Yeah.

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Speaker 2
You know, you hire people. They come and they do it. But I know you don't want people around.

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Speaker 4
I don't want no one around by myself. Yes. Yes, I get it.

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Speaker 5
So we get it. I don't put up no lights. My son loves so see lights. Yeah, like we. We drive in. He's like.

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Speaker 4
Oh my god.

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Speaker 5
He lights. He loves them. Yeah. And when I pull into my garage, he's like, I need to see more lights.

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Speaker 4
Oh, see, see.

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Speaker 5
Yeah, no.

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Speaker 2
Now that's a that's a that's a fun thing. That's a fun thing to do. But yeah, you know, to each his own. When I get my mansion, I will.

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Speaker 4
Be putting up place.

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Speaker 5
You're really going.

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Speaker 4
To.

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Speaker 5
Yes, I mean, you'll hire someone. Yeah. OK, OK. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yes. On top of no.

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Speaker 4
Roof, don't go.

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Speaker 2
I'm not. I'm just somebody. But um, so Christmas movies?

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Speaker 4
Oh yeah.

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Speaker 2
Do you have any faves? Because I do. Shall I share?

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Speaker 5
Yes, you.

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Speaker 2
Can share your OK. So I like Charlie Brown. A Christmas story. Love love. I got that from my mom because she loves Charlie Brown. Everything OK, OK, so like that was that was like growing up. That was like our thing that we watched together, you know?

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Speaker 2
And then.

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Speaker 4
Else.

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Speaker 2
Mm hmm. I love that movie so much.

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Speaker 5
I feel I have watched these. I just can't remember.

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Speaker 2
Oh my gosh, you remember that one? Home alone.

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Speaker 5
I've watched that.

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Speaker 2
I've watched. I love Home Alone. And you know what? I I love those movies more so because of like the soundtrack. Like, they play all the good songs.

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Speaker 5
I remember Home Alone that there's multiple, right? Yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2
Yeah, yeah. I think there's like three, I think just like three of them, but the first two are the only ones that matter.

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Speaker 5
Oh, OK.

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Speaker 2
Because Macaulay Culkin is in the first two. He's on in the third when there's a little boys in the third one.

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Speaker 5
And have that little boy.

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Speaker 4
You remember that little boy is.

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Speaker 2
The first to, yeah, OK. OK. Mm hmm. That's one of my faves. What other? one of my things. And by the way, I watched. That movie all year round.

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Speaker 5
I really probably only watched it once.

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Speaker 2
Oh my goodness, so are you cooking?

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Speaker 5
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. For now that I can.

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Speaker 2
But you're going to.

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Speaker 5
Make and do I always do Caribbean stuff?

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Speaker 2
Well, tell me. Tell me.

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Speaker 5
Tell me I love chicken wings. It's not Caribbean, but I bake jerk chicken wings, macaroni pie. I've been loving oxtail, so I do like, make do with a whole bunch of vegetables in it, girl. And then I do my recipes and you know, I like my potato salad coleslaw.

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Speaker 5
I've been loving like sauteed zucchinis and all that type of stuff. And then I have to do some type of dessert. People know me. No, I like the sweets. I like the things. I don't care. I don't care.

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Speaker 4
Don't judge me. Don't don't, don't judge her a Hey, I love the sweet a little sweets, so I'm.

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Speaker 2
With it.

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Speaker 5
So I got a, you know, I got to make something.

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Speaker 2
Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 5
My son's birthday is close to Christmas, so it's kind of late. I have to do a cake because I've been baking cakes. I don't buy his cakes anymore. I bake it like I think last year I did a chocolate and strawberry.

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Speaker 4
Yeah.

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Speaker 2
I remember that cake looked really, really good. Delicious. Good job, man.

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Speaker 5
I cakes be good. It's not even dry. Like, you know, people only make a game from their.

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Speaker 4
Dry like.

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Speaker 5
This and all.

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Speaker 4
Of that. But why would a young.

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Speaker 2
Smacking.

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Speaker 4
Like, 00.

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Speaker 2
00, that's. Speaking of.

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Speaker 4
Yes.

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Speaker 2
Queens of a feather.

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Speaker 5
So I'm baking a cake for his birthday. He told me he wants an apple cake. Oh, it's like an apple cake. OK, but when I went on Pinterest, they actually have some, some nice ones. I believe the frosting has like a little bit of hints of Apple.

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Speaker 2
Oh, it's almost like an apple pie, but it's a cake.

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Speaker 5
Yeah, yeah. Yeah. So I'm going to ask again because I feel like that's what he just said, that they.

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Speaker 4
Really want an.

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Speaker 2
Apple cake.

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Speaker 4
No.

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Speaker 5
No. Like, this is my cake, too, because I see his birthday like my birthday, right? Because I gave birth to him.

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Speaker 2
It's a special day for moms, too.

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Speaker 5
Exactly. It's my birthday because I gave birth. Yeah, yeah. So absolutely, you know.

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Speaker 2
You know, I believe that.

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Speaker 5
What about Christmas songs?

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Speaker 2
We, you know, how come you ain't asked me if I was cookin?

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Speaker 4
Oh, because you know, I'm not. But but no, no. Let's rewind, rewind.

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Speaker 5
Are you cooking this Christmas?

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Speaker 4
No, I said, I'm not yo. But that is.

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Speaker 5
Crazy.

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Speaker 2
But I'm going to be at my parents' house for that, you know, and they love to host like they cooked phenomenal meals.

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Speaker 5
What do they.

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Speaker 4
Cook.

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Speaker 2
For Christmas? Let me see what what did we even do for last Christmas? I feel like my mind is all over the place with that, but they'll do, Oh my God, they'll do so many different things. My, my stepdad is really good on the grill, so who knows?

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Speaker 2
My mom is the one that does the side dishes. So who knows? I didn't. I didn't ask her what she was going to make this year. I need to. Oh man.

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Speaker 5
I'm I have in my menu. You know?

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Speaker 2
I know. Ready, I'm not. That's right.

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Speaker 5
Maybe you ready, ready, ready.

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Speaker 2
I made a menu for my house one time because I was tired one time.

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Speaker 4
No, no, no. Look, look what I typed.

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Speaker 2
Up this menu, right? And I stuck it on the fridge writer. And so every time my husband would get home, I would be like, You know, you pick what you want to eat.

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Speaker 4
From the menu. OK, OK. Yeah, girl.

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Speaker 2
I mean, you know, mostly it was like, Oh, so you did it.

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Speaker 5
So you made sure it was things that you liked.

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Speaker 4
Obviously, it was.

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Speaker 2
Things that that.

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Speaker 5
We both you both.

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Speaker 2
We both.

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Speaker 4
Got.

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Speaker 5
Yeah, that's actually very romantic.

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Speaker 2
It's very romantic couple.

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Speaker 5
Romantic girl.

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Speaker 4
Something like that.

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Speaker 2
We actually still have it. And I made that like years ago and I found it actually in a drawer the other day.

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Speaker 5
You got to do another menu.

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Speaker 2
I know I need to upgrade.

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Speaker 3
Let me upgrade you up. Up, up, up. Others do. Look, let's upgrade.

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Speaker 2
To Achin.

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Speaker 5
Let me handle. Let me upgrade.

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Speaker 2
Oh my god. Remember that video?

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Speaker 5
Yes.

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Speaker 2
She looked amazing. Gold. I love.

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Speaker 5
Beautiful.

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Speaker 2
Oh my god. That was a really good one. But so, yeah, I'm not cooking. I'm going to make sense. And that should be fun.

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Speaker 4
Oh yes, that should be really good.

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Speaker 5
So it will be fun. You know, I was on Instagram. Yeah, my phone because I want to pull it up. Yeah. And Iggy Azalea mentioned something about the holidays and I was like, Hmm.

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Speaker 4
Interesting.

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Speaker 2
Do you what, though?

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Speaker 4
What? one more.

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Speaker 5
Question. Yeah, I.

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Speaker 2
Got one request, Clemmie question. Do you have any favorite Christmas songs?

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Speaker 5
Oh, yeah, we did talk. Oh yeah. I didn't ask you that, and I don't even think.

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Speaker 3
Christmas songs.

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Speaker 5
The only one I could think of is Mariah Carey.

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Speaker 2
Oh yeah.

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Speaker 5
You know, are the Destiny's Child.

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Speaker 3
La la la la la. And then if you like Christmas, it feels a little like Christmas. So Christmas, like Christmas. Is it? Hey, I also fell in love the love total.

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Speaker 2
I love that Mariah Carey's done in an inning and then.

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Speaker 3
And then and then in and and and and then and then does that love Christmas? There is just one thing, honey, that. The presence.

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Speaker 5
I believe.

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Speaker 2
The missiles.

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Speaker 4
Christmas tree and the the Christmas tree.

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Speaker 5
Why did I miss those trees when it's a mistletoe?

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Speaker 2
You know what.

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Speaker 4
Missile tree?

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Speaker 2
It works. I was going to roll with this.

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Speaker 4
Even roll window.

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Speaker 5
But she was a roll over. She corrected Beetle. I was going to roll it forever.

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Speaker 4
You did it. OK? Rewind, rewind.

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Speaker 5
Yeah, no, those are the only ones I can.

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Speaker 2
I like. I'm Nat King Cole's.

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Speaker 3
Chestnuts roasting on an open fire.

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Speaker 2
I love that song so much. Jack Frost nipping at your nose. That's a good one. Or or what's that one by that one lady? Is it Eartha KITT?

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Speaker 3
Santa Baby sends a baby. Usually for.

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Speaker 4
Me.

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Speaker 3
Being something.

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Speaker 5
I've been an awful bad girl, I've been.

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Speaker 3
In a full bad girl.

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Speaker 5
I think.

00:12:40:26 - 00:12:41:28
Speaker 2
That's a baby.

00:12:42:03 - 00:12:45:08
Speaker 3
So hurry down the chimney tonight.

00:12:48:08 - 00:12:50:20
Speaker 4
But hey.

00:12:50:21 - 00:12:51:26
Speaker 2
Hey, we nailed that.

00:12:52:14 - 00:12:53:07
Speaker 4
We did that.

00:12:54:17 - 00:12:57:03
Speaker 2
But yeah, so Christmas songs.

00:12:57:08 - 00:13:03:07
Speaker 5
We recorded a Christmas song for y'all. We did insert it here. Okay.

00:13:05:15 - 00:13:10:12
Speaker 4
Yes. Yes. Drop it, you know? Yes.

00:13:10:26 - 00:13:12:15
Speaker 2
We did. We did it.

00:13:12:15 - 00:13:14:09
Speaker 5
And it was fun. It was fun.

00:13:14:10 - 00:13:26:20
Speaker 2
You know what? I have to say that I we love singing, you know, and it's just a different vibe when we get together and we do it. And I think you guys are going to really like.

00:13:26:21 - 00:13:30:01
Speaker 5
I hope you do the song. It's a present from Delany.

00:13:30:04 - 00:13:44:08
Speaker 2
Yes, it is. Merry Christmas America, OK? I think that's all of my Christmas joy news that I have. OK, OK. Have you ever kissed anybody under mistletoe?

00:13:44:28 - 00:13:45:10
Speaker 4
Oh.

00:13:46:12 - 00:13:47:16
Speaker 5
Not that I can think of.

00:13:47:25 - 00:13:51:03
Speaker 2
Me, either. How does that even become a thing? But I guess I know.

00:13:51:14 - 00:13:56:09
Speaker 5
You know, but isn't it like when you pass through it, whoever, whoever standing underneath it with you kiss them?

00:13:56:18 - 00:13:58:28
Speaker 2
I think so. That's an interesting one.

00:13:58:28 - 00:13:59:26
Speaker 5
I want to kiss someone.

00:13:59:27 - 00:14:00:11
Speaker 4
Under the.

00:14:00:11 - 00:14:01:01
Speaker 5
Mistletoe.

00:14:01:17 - 00:14:01:28
Speaker 4
Yeah.

00:14:03:00 - 00:14:05:27
Speaker 5
That's my goal for next year. And it's not going to happen this year.

00:14:06:03 - 00:14:07:05
Speaker 4
Yes. Yeah. Well, this.

00:14:07:07 - 00:14:10:08
Speaker 2
You know, damn near over. That's what I'm saying is, you know, it's not going.

00:14:10:08 - 00:14:10:29
Speaker 5
To happen this year.

00:14:10:29 - 00:14:13:21
Speaker 2
So next year, watch out next year, it's your lips ready.

00:14:14:24 - 00:14:17:15
Speaker 4
Pucker up, pucker up. Pucker up, pucker up.

00:14:19:15 - 00:14:22:07
Speaker 2
So on to other news.

00:14:22:08 - 00:14:25:04
Speaker 5
Yeah, no, I won't. But I wanted to touch on the Iggy Azalea.

00:14:25:06 - 00:14:26:13
Speaker 2
Yeah, yeah.

00:14:26:14 - 00:14:41:28
Speaker 5
Just because she mentioned something about the holidays. So she said sending love to all the single parents this holiday season. I know it's stressful trying to make it perfect, and sometimes this time of the year comes of sadness about not having that traditional family unit.

00:14:42:17 - 00:14:46:04
Speaker 5
But you got this. You know what you bring to the table is enough.

00:14:46:19 - 00:15:02:02
Speaker 2
Yeah. What did you think about that? I mean, you got to do what you got to do for sure. You know, you have to make the best of your situations. Yes. And if you happen to be a single parent, it could still be amazing.

00:15:02:03 - 00:15:04:13
Speaker 2
It can still be lovely, you know?

00:15:04:15 - 00:15:16:15
Speaker 5
Yeah. You know, I like I. I read it and I was like, I don't even feel like I really I can relate, but I can, because obviously I'm a single parent. I just haven't felt that way, which is awesome.

00:15:16:15 - 00:15:27:20
Speaker 5
But obviously other people have. Yeah, but man, yeah, like, I get it, especially spending the holidays alone. I get I get how that could be. Yeah, hard.

00:15:27:24 - 00:15:33:22
Speaker 2
But it's probably hard. But you're alive. Yeah, driving, absolutely. You know.

00:15:33:22 - 00:15:34:08
Speaker 5
And that's.

00:15:34:08 - 00:15:36:26
Speaker 2
Amazing. You got to be amazing. Optimistic.

00:15:37:06 - 00:15:37:18
Speaker 4
Oh yeah.

00:15:37:29 - 00:15:40:14
Speaker 5
I know it's hard sometimes to be. It is. That's an issue.

00:15:40:14 - 00:15:41:00
Speaker 2
That is.

00:15:41:00 - 00:15:41:12
Speaker 5
There, right?

00:15:41:12 - 00:15:43:04
Speaker 2
But it's easier than done.

00:15:43:04 - 00:15:47:10
Speaker 5
Yeah, for sure. It is hard. But man of ice cream?

00:15:48:00 - 00:15:50:10
Speaker 2
Yeah, I like tacos. Make me feel.

00:15:50:10 - 00:15:50:22
Speaker 4
Good.

00:15:50:29 - 00:15:57:28
Speaker 2
Ice cream tacos, ice cream tacos. What? Ice cream tacos? Yeah. Yeah. You will feel better.

00:15:57:28 - 00:16:00:00
Speaker 5
And you know what's a nice movie?

00:16:00:09 - 00:16:01:11
Speaker 2
Listen to the Spice Girls.

00:16:01:19 - 00:16:05:18
Speaker 5
To the Spice Girls. I mean, your life. Yeah. Ah, listen to our podcast!

00:16:05:27 - 00:16:11:24
Speaker 4
Oh yes. Yes.

00:16:12:24 - 00:16:14:05
Speaker 2
We'll show you right on it. Okay.

00:16:14:11 - 00:16:19:29
Speaker 5
Yes, I understood what she said. But I'm like, You know, I'm happy that I feel I don't feel that way.

00:16:20:10 - 00:16:20:16
Speaker 4
Yes.

00:16:20:21 - 00:16:24:22
Speaker 5
OK, good. Let's see. Holiday season, it is time to just do nothing.

00:16:24:29 - 00:16:29:00
Speaker 4
Yeah, and eat happy. eight.

00:16:29:02 - 00:16:30:16
Speaker 2
Have you been ice skating before?

00:16:31:24 - 00:16:33:20
Speaker 4
I can't escape. That's right.

00:16:34:00 - 00:16:46:01
Speaker 5
You did. I'm not good. No. I remember one time in London because we used to go skiing a lot. Mm hmm. And I just was never good at it. And for some reason, my jeans. I don't know if my mom bought cheap jeans or what.

00:16:46:19 - 00:16:49:06
Speaker 5
But every time I dropped on the ice that you would.

00:16:49:06 - 00:16:51:26
Speaker 4
See the diamonds. Oh.

00:16:55:11 - 00:16:57:20
Speaker 5
I'm I'm I'm the ice everywhere.

00:16:57:20 - 00:17:03:26
Speaker 4
Like, Okay, but you left a trail. That's hilarious. That is the way it is.

00:17:03:26 - 00:17:08:23
Speaker 5
But yeah, no, I'm not good. OK? But the boys thought it was, you know, fun. Oh, she go for.

00:17:08:24 - 00:17:09:23
Speaker 4
Let me help pick her up.

00:17:10:25 - 00:17:15:20
Speaker 5
Oh, but it was, you know, it was cute bonding. But no, I can't I?

00:17:16:04 - 00:17:28:01
Speaker 2
They call me Kristi Yamaguchi. I'm just kidding. That's a figure skater. But no, you know what? I think I've been maybe a few times when I was younger.

00:17:28:02 - 00:17:29:20
Speaker 5
Yeah, yeah. But I go again.

00:17:30:20 - 00:17:44:02
Speaker 2
I mean, now that I have my son, maybe when he gets a little bit older, I might take him, you know, but you know, I don't. I like being cold when I'm in my house. Like, I like the temperature to be cold, but I don't really like to be in the cold, cold, you know?

00:17:44:18 - 00:17:49:17
Speaker 5
Yeah. So I don't really do a lot of stuff in the snow. Well, we don't have snow.

00:17:49:17 - 00:17:50:00
Speaker 2
Yeah, we.

00:17:50:00 - 00:17:50:11
Speaker 4
Don't.

00:17:51:02 - 00:17:51:21
Speaker 2
We do not.

00:17:51:21 - 00:17:52:05
Speaker 5
We don't have.

00:17:52:05 - 00:18:05:13
Speaker 2
Snow. We don't have snow. But I did live in another state that does have snow, and I remember what that was like. And yeah, the only time I liked that was when we had a snow day and I didn't have to go to school.

00:18:05:16 - 00:18:08:19
Speaker 5
Oh, I must say in London, I did like the snow.

00:18:08:19 - 00:18:10:03
Speaker 2
Sometimes, sometimes, yeah.

00:18:10:04 - 00:18:20:25
Speaker 5
Sometimes I used to do like snow angels. And yeah, that stuff is fun. But then when you're walking in it and you're like skidding all around and it's like dirty, because once it starts to melt is that you see all the dirt.

00:18:20:29 - 00:18:21:12
Speaker 2
I know.

00:18:21:21 - 00:18:22:02
Speaker 5
All this.

00:18:22:08 - 00:18:25:22
Speaker 2
And when you're driving, you know, it's so dangerous. That's all that stuff.

00:18:25:23 - 00:18:26:26
Speaker 5
Yes. Yes.

00:18:27:03 - 00:18:31:23
Speaker 2
Yeah. Don't drink and drive this holiday season. No, please don't. Don't do it.

00:18:32:11 - 00:18:33:05
Speaker 5
It's not worth it.

00:18:33:21 - 00:18:38:20
Speaker 2
It's really not. It's not worth it to make it home and enjoy what you have built.

00:18:39:03 - 00:18:43:19
Speaker 5
Please. It's very responsible. Advice from Dominique, Yes.

00:18:44:13 - 00:18:45:05
Speaker 2
Noted.

00:18:45:09 - 00:18:45:23
Speaker 4
Yes.

00:18:46:13 - 00:18:47:22
Speaker 2
Write that down. OK.

00:18:49:10 - 00:18:56:09
Speaker 5
So yeah, that you know, I hope you all have an amazing holiday season and that you get good gifts. Yeah, I love gifts.

00:18:56:27 - 00:18:57:24
Speaker 2
What do you want for Christmas?

00:18:59:19 - 00:19:00:27
Speaker 5
What do you get the girl that has.

00:19:00:27 - 00:19:02:16
Speaker 4
Everything already got you? Some, like.

00:19:02:18 - 00:19:03:13
Speaker 2
Already got you something.

00:19:03:13 - 00:19:10:26
Speaker 4
For Christmas for Thanksgiving. Oh, well, yeah, that was what it was like.

00:19:10:27 - 00:19:11:19
Speaker 2
To give someone.

00:19:11:27 - 00:19:15:12
Speaker 5
You know, even for my son, I'm not really doing many gifts.

00:19:15:23 - 00:19:16:03
Speaker 2
OK.

00:19:16:09 - 00:19:17:29
Speaker 5
He has so many things.

00:19:18:00 - 00:19:18:09
Speaker 4
Mm hmm.

00:19:19:01 - 00:19:21:05
Speaker 5
And I'm like, You don't really need anything else.

00:19:21:06 - 00:19:22:21
Speaker 4
Yeah, yeah.

00:19:22:26 - 00:19:30:21
Speaker 5
So I don't really think I'm doing many gifts or anything this year. I don't. I don't think I need anything. Pay a bill.

00:19:33:28 - 00:19:36:18
Speaker 4
Wow. They pay a bill. OK, to keep.

00:19:36:18 - 00:19:37:02
Speaker 2
It all the.

00:19:37:02 - 00:19:38:14
Speaker 4
Way. Well, you know what I mean?

00:19:38:19 - 00:19:39:10
Speaker 5
Those are the type of.

00:19:39:10 - 00:19:40:12
Speaker 4
Gifts I want.

00:19:40:18 - 00:19:42:26
Speaker 2
She likes. She likes it. And she means.

00:19:42:26 - 00:19:43:17
Speaker 4
That, right?

00:19:43:25 - 00:19:44:05
Speaker 2
OK.

00:19:44:24 - 00:19:47:00
Speaker 5
Send me a bill. I'll send you a bill.

00:19:47:00 - 00:19:47:10
Speaker 4
Sorry.

00:19:48:18 - 00:19:53:09
Speaker 2
I don't. Yeah, I don't really think I have anything in particular that you want.

00:19:53:28 - 00:19:55:08
Speaker 5
Yeah, I can't think of anything.

00:19:55:13 - 00:20:01:05
Speaker 2
Maybe. I mean, I love candles, stuff like that. You know, just simple.

00:20:01:15 - 00:20:13:00
Speaker 5
Simple thing just seems like my future man. Give me a nice camera like, I want a really, really good camera that I can take good pictures like the one that you have. Like the things that you.

00:20:13:09 - 00:20:14:26
Speaker 2
Yeah. Yeah.

00:20:15:14 - 00:20:17:02
Speaker 5
You turn it the legit one.

00:20:17:02 - 00:20:17:18
Speaker 2
Legit.

00:20:18:12 - 00:20:19:18
Speaker 5
Over 1000 and up.

00:20:19:28 - 00:20:30:25
Speaker 2
Wow. Yeah. They can be very expensive. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, totally. But you know what? You get a lot of you said of that. So gifts like that feel like a great for people who are really going to use them, you know?

00:20:31:00 - 00:20:39:13
Speaker 2
Yes. Like, for instance, my mom, she would get me all kind of stuff, and I never used it like shoes.

00:20:39:18 - 00:20:40:16
Speaker 4
So yeah, I.

00:20:40:16 - 00:20:43:14
Speaker 2
Mean, I still have some, you know? Yeah. So it.

00:20:43:14 - 00:20:45:25
Speaker 5
Depends. See, that's why I pay a bill. It's easy.

00:20:47:10 - 00:20:50:24
Speaker 4
Like, do they do that? Do that that.

00:20:51:05 - 00:20:51:29
Speaker 2
I want you to.

00:20:52:01 - 00:20:52:14
Speaker 5
Like that?

00:20:52:18 - 00:20:53:00
Speaker 4
You can.

00:20:53:01 - 00:21:02:07
Speaker 2
Always. You can always. I think a good gift is something like a plate of something like a plate of tacos or no.

00:21:02:09 - 00:21:03:09
Speaker 4
Yeah, no.

00:21:03:13 - 00:21:04:10
Speaker 5
It's not a gift.

00:21:04:12 - 00:21:08:12
Speaker 2
It is for me to mean that.

00:21:08:22 - 00:21:10:16
Speaker 5
Look, no, we're in a good space.

00:21:11:21 - 00:21:13:14
Speaker 4
That's not a gift. It's does.

00:21:13:14 - 00:21:21:17
Speaker 5
Yeah. OK. Ideal gifts. Yeah, even though I don't think I need anything but ideal gifts. I love perfume. You love perfume, OK?

00:21:22:21 - 00:21:23:13
Speaker 2
Oh yeah.

00:21:23:13 - 00:21:32:16
Speaker 5
I love jewelry. Yeah, that was one thing I hated about someone I was with. Yeah, like I could tell when someone gave me fake jury. Don't give me fake stuff.

00:21:32:16 - 00:21:33:02
Speaker 2
Don't do that.

00:21:33:10 - 00:21:33:20
Speaker 5
Don't do.

00:21:33:20 - 00:21:34:20
Speaker 2
That. Don't do that.

00:21:34:20 - 00:21:36:02
Speaker 5
If you're going to buy jewelry late.

00:21:36:24 - 00:21:38:14
Speaker 2
Yeah. Or just save it.

00:21:38:21 - 00:21:39:02
Speaker 5
Just.

00:21:39:19 - 00:21:41:18
Speaker 4
To get, you know, that's a mess.

00:21:42:06 - 00:21:48:06
Speaker 5
Don't get me no fake stuff. Gate fakes. I was a teenager, but you go to clippers or something.

00:21:48:24 - 00:21:50:10
Speaker 4
Make it clear.

00:21:51:03 - 00:21:51:13
Speaker 5
Yes.

00:21:51:28 - 00:21:54:19
Speaker 2
No. I think a government that clears.

00:21:54:20 - 00:22:01:01
Speaker 5
I did, too. I got one of my piercings. I have a couple. Yeah, clears. Yeah, but yeah, don't play around anymore.

00:22:01:11 - 00:22:02:01
Speaker 4
I'm sure.

00:22:02:28 - 00:22:05:25
Speaker 2
I wonder. I am sure that they haven't seen éclairs in a minute.

00:22:05:25 - 00:22:08:14
Speaker 5
I want to get another person. I think I'm a hit it up.

00:22:08:23 - 00:22:09:07
Speaker 2
Really?

00:22:09:13 - 00:22:10:18
Speaker 5
Yeah, I think I want to get another one.

00:22:11:19 - 00:22:14:20
Speaker 2
That's what's up. I kind of, yeah, but yeah, piercings.

00:22:14:26 - 00:22:19:29
Speaker 5
So ideal gifts for sure. Jewelry. I love leggings. You know, if you want to get me.

00:22:19:29 - 00:22:21:18
Speaker 4
Like you said, this.

00:22:21:18 - 00:22:22:28
Speaker 2
Lady from pink.

00:22:23:00 - 00:22:24:17
Speaker 5
Victoria's Secret, I love leggings.

00:22:24:17 - 00:22:28:23
Speaker 2
OK. It wasn't about some T-shirts. Casanova. Hello again.

00:22:28:25 - 00:22:30:08
Speaker 5
Yeah. Give me some T-shirts.

00:22:30:09 - 00:22:31:23
Speaker 4
Mm hmm. See?

00:22:32:11 - 00:22:34:15
Speaker 5
You know what? As I think about, I got a lot of stuff.

00:22:35:26 - 00:22:36:09
Speaker 2
She said.

00:22:36:09 - 00:22:38:29
Speaker 4
Actually, actually my list.

00:22:38:29 - 00:22:42:10
Speaker 2
Just got a little bit longer. Yeah. I mean.

00:22:42:22 - 00:22:45:00
Speaker 5
What about you? What are like some ideal gifts.

00:22:45:00 - 00:22:56:02
Speaker 2
That ideal gifts, ideal gifts for me would probably be definitely T-shirts because I can. I mean, I wear T-shirts all day, all night, you know? Anyway, when I.

00:22:56:02 - 00:22:57:22
Speaker 5
Was younger, I hardly wore a T-shirt.

00:22:57:24 - 00:22:58:18
Speaker 4
Yeah, me too.

00:22:59:15 - 00:23:00:17
Speaker 5
I mean, I was like, Yeah.

00:23:00:22 - 00:23:01:14
Speaker 2
That's all I got.

00:23:02:00 - 00:23:03:21
Speaker 5
T-shirts and leggings and some sneakers.

00:23:03:27 - 00:23:05:17
Speaker 4
Yes, that is.

00:23:05:23 - 00:23:08:20
Speaker 2
That's the attire. Yeah. Yeah, it's very fashionable.

00:23:08:20 - 00:23:10:16
Speaker 5
So that's what you want them. Some T-shirts, some.

00:23:10:21 - 00:23:29:07
Speaker 2
Probably some T-shirts. Or if I really put my mind to it, what's something that I would really, really like? Ideal. Hmm. I want to say something that involves anything with music, but I can't think of it because nobody like buys you like CDs anymore.

00:23:29:07 - 00:23:29:27
Speaker 5
So yeah.

00:23:29:28 - 00:23:34:16
Speaker 2
No, I don't know. Like, I really I'm I'm I'm pretty chill with that.

00:23:34:17 - 00:23:42:00
Speaker 5
Remember back in the day, people, when you know you, if you're blue and you used to create like playlists, yes. Put it on a blank CD.

00:23:42:06 - 00:23:43:17
Speaker 2
Oh my gosh, yes.

00:23:43:23 - 00:23:44:17
Speaker 5
Have you ever done that?

00:23:44:17 - 00:23:47:05
Speaker 2
Yes, fingers have. Of course.

00:23:47:06 - 00:23:47:21
Speaker 3
Like this.

00:23:47:21 - 00:23:49:08
Speaker 5
Is how I feel about, you.

00:23:49:08 - 00:23:52:26
Speaker 4
Know, I remember totally doing that, actually.

00:23:53:06 - 00:23:56:14
Speaker 2
And I remember some of the songs that were on it. one of them was like Olivia.

00:23:56:20 - 00:23:57:17
Speaker 4
Which was 25.

00:23:57:18 - 00:23:58:26
Speaker 5
Oh my, oh.

00:23:59:01 - 00:24:04:12
Speaker 2
You know, I 1:25 reasons why I'm still in love with you. And like India, Ari, I'll give you.

00:24:04:12 - 00:24:08:10
Speaker 3
25 reasons why I'm still in love with you.

00:24:08:24 - 00:24:17:05
Speaker 2
00, I like that song or India.Arie because he is a true said. He is so real. I like that song.

00:24:17:09 - 00:24:20:07
Speaker 5
You know what song? I remember that was online. Ego by Beyonce.

00:24:20:07 - 00:24:24:28
Speaker 4
Say, Oh doo doo doo doo doo doo doo doo doo doo would be a.

00:24:25:01 - 00:24:25:18
Speaker 5
He got a.

00:24:25:18 - 00:24:27:20
Speaker 2
Big. Wait a minute. Wait a minute. Wait a.

00:24:27:20 - 00:24:37:00
Speaker 4
Minute. Pause. What was that doing on this? Yo, we. That's how when.

00:24:37:00 - 00:24:42:06
Speaker 2
I when I look back that I was singing that song and I sang with such confidence, you know what I mean?

00:24:42:29 - 00:24:44:16
Speaker 3
Oh my gosh.

00:24:44:26 - 00:24:49:11
Speaker 2
Yeah, that was a good song, though. Doomed doo doo doo doo.

00:24:49:18 - 00:24:50:00
Speaker 4
Yeah.

00:24:50:02 - 00:24:51:10
Speaker 5
So that was all my dear.

00:24:51:10 - 00:24:56:01
Speaker 4
Don't don't. Yes. How that song. How did it start?

00:24:56:12 - 00:25:06:24
Speaker 5
I can't remember a think about her hair was amazing. The video I wanted that here. That was. I used to have big. I used to love the big, curly afro type of hair.

00:25:06:25 - 00:25:08:10
Speaker 2
What year did that come out?

00:25:08:20 - 00:25:11:01
Speaker 4
Wow, I wonder. And you know what? You know.

00:25:11:01 - 00:25:14:18
Speaker 2
Why. Because I feel like I remember you saying, like, I love her hair.

00:25:15:02 - 00:25:16:11
Speaker 5
Ego. Let me see.

00:25:17:01 - 00:25:28:24
Speaker 3
Something else, girls. You ain't got a call about the real. I'm gonna show you how I feel. I consider myself lucky. That's a big deal.

00:25:30:01 - 00:25:30:29
Speaker 2
Yeah, I like that.

00:25:31:17 - 00:25:42:15
Speaker 3
To my heart. But you know, I mean it. I really love my body. And show me because I know, since I know need to, and I still think it's too.

00:25:43:12 - 00:25:50:14
Speaker 4
It's too strong. It will be won't fit my share of lyrics.

00:25:50:14 - 00:26:01:22
Speaker 3
You talk like this because he can back it up. He got a big ego, huge ego bubble. His big ego.

00:26:02:08 - 00:26:03:18
Speaker 5
May you know the.

00:26:03:18 - 00:26:04:00
Speaker 2
End.

00:26:04:16 - 00:26:11:13
Speaker 3
I love ego so big, he must admit. I got every reason to feel that I'm that bitch.

00:26:11:15 - 00:26:12:20
Speaker 4
Oh my goodness.

00:26:12:24 - 00:26:14:09
Speaker 5
He got so strong.

00:26:14:13 - 00:26:16:08
Speaker 2
You know what? Well, yeah.

00:26:16:17 - 00:26:17:11
Speaker 5
50,000 in.

00:26:17:22 - 00:26:18:14
Speaker 2
2008.

00:26:19:20 - 00:26:20:09
Speaker 4
Dang.

00:26:20:23 - 00:26:23:01
Speaker 5
Oh, wow. That was a boy.

00:26:23:02 - 00:26:23:20
Speaker 2
It was a good year.

00:26:24:09 - 00:26:26:20
Speaker 5
I'm pretty sure I was a teenager, so that was a good song.

00:26:26:22 - 00:26:32:08
Speaker 2
It was a really good song. Schism had some bangers. Yeah, so but I'm like, Are you talking about Jay-Z?

00:26:32:09 - 00:26:33:05
Speaker 5
Of course I.

00:26:33:05 - 00:26:33:25
Speaker 2
Know.

00:26:33:26 - 00:26:44:18
Speaker 5
Of course she was interesting. I can see her saying that about Jay-Z. Yeah. I mean, he not. Well, I meant like the ego because he seems like a very confident type of man.

00:26:44:19 - 00:26:49:24
Speaker 2
I think he has both. She said it.

00:26:50:20 - 00:26:50:25
Speaker 4
I.

00:26:50:25 - 00:26:53:17
Speaker 2
Didn't I didn't make the song OK. Yes, but it's true.

00:26:54:00 - 00:27:07:17
Speaker 5
That was, you know, back in the day when they had message boards and stuff. I remember there was a blind item and this woman as she slept with, I think she said Jay-Z, I was a rapper, whatever. She said he had a Pepsi sites.

00:27:08:23 - 00:27:09:02
Speaker 4
Yes.

00:27:11:07 - 00:27:16:23
Speaker 2
You know how I feel about that? Because then like you're left with like.

00:27:17:16 - 00:27:18:14
Speaker 5
A Pepsi wave.

00:27:20:06 - 00:27:22:12
Speaker 4
No Pepsi wide leg.

00:27:22:12 - 00:27:29:19
Speaker 5
No, no, don't come to me with that. I don't know that I'm going to keep that. No, thank you.

00:27:29:25 - 00:27:30:28
Speaker 2
That is hilarious, though.

00:27:30:28 - 00:27:31:27
Speaker 5
That's way too.

00:27:32:05 - 00:27:32:25
Speaker 2
It's too much.

00:27:33:01 - 00:27:33:26
Speaker 5
Too much for me.

00:27:34:15 - 00:27:36:21
Speaker 2
But he talks like this because he can back it up. Yeah.

00:27:37:01 - 00:27:39:15
Speaker 3
He got a big ego.

00:27:39:21 - 00:27:42:02
Speaker 5
Oh, love that song. I know it's so beautiful.

00:27:42:07 - 00:27:46:02
Speaker 2
You have to bump that. I will. Before I go, Oh, but um.

00:27:46:19 - 00:27:50:09
Speaker 4
So you know, but ticket to.

00:27:50:09 - 00:27:53:02
Speaker 2
Boom. We got to use more of our sound effects.

00:27:53:03 - 00:27:54:03
Speaker 5
We got to figure it out.

00:27:54:16 - 00:28:00:01
Speaker 4
Nope. Wah wah wah wah. Oh yeah. Okay. Yeah, I.

00:28:00:01 - 00:28:04:08
Speaker 2
Like that one. You know I like that one. Yeah. I was literally doing that with my mouth.

00:28:05:26 - 00:28:08:04
Speaker 4
You did good. You did good. Yeah, OK.

00:28:08:05 - 00:28:10:05
Speaker 2
All right. All right. All right. I'll I'll take it. I'll take it.

00:28:11:07 - 00:28:26:17
Speaker 5
So, so I was on social media again. And this thing, this video was like it says this man left his wife after five years because he was bored. And then when I listen to it, I felt as though he said more than that.

00:28:26:17 - 00:28:29:08
Speaker 5
It wasn't just because he was bored, because when I first, I was like.

00:28:29:17 - 00:28:30:22
Speaker 2
Yeah, the title was not.

00:28:30:26 - 00:28:31:27
Speaker 5
A nice reason.

00:28:31:28 - 00:28:34:05
Speaker 2
Yes. How rude. How dare you?

00:28:34:08 - 00:28:35:04
Speaker 5
Yeah, like.

00:28:36:10 - 00:28:36:16
Speaker 4
That.

00:28:37:22 - 00:28:44:14
Speaker 5
And then he kind of was saying that he felt as though he needed more out of life. Yeah, he said it wasn't any like particular type of.

00:28:44:20 - 00:28:46:29
Speaker 2
Oh my god, no more to Life by Stacy Errico.

00:28:47:03 - 00:29:09:05
Speaker 3
Gotta be more to love. I've been chasing a very temporary high to satisfy me, cause I'm open decision making them, but that's not life. Well, there's less, but I'm sure there's to be more.

00:29:09:09 - 00:29:10:27
Speaker 2
Oh my god, I loved that album.

00:29:11:03 - 00:29:12:16
Speaker 5
I love that videos are so cute.

00:29:12:26 - 00:29:14:22
Speaker 4
I know you won't go to.

00:29:14:22 - 00:29:16:02
Speaker 2
Stacey, a recall.

00:29:16:10 - 00:29:17:20
Speaker 4
Saying I.

00:29:17:20 - 00:29:22:04
Speaker 2
Liked her so much. They said, Oh, beautiful. It was really beautiful, actually.

00:29:22:12 - 00:29:24:27
Speaker 5
Another song, but I can't remember the name. We digress.

00:29:25:08 - 00:29:26:19
Speaker 4
Yeah, yeah. Yeah.

00:29:26:19 - 00:29:34:22
Speaker 5
So when I was watching the video, he basically was saying that he wanted more and there wasn't anything in particular. He just wanted more. So Mike.

00:29:34:22 - 00:29:35:10
Speaker 2
Decided.

00:29:36:10 - 00:29:38:07
Speaker 5
Is that a good reason to leave someone?

00:29:38:20 - 00:29:39:07
Speaker 2
Absolutely.

00:29:39:19 - 00:29:49:18
Speaker 5
Because you want more? Mm hmm. But what? I feel like you need to explain that. Why? Is that really late? Someone comes up to you, you're married and you're like, I want more.

00:29:51:15 - 00:29:51:27
Speaker 4
And I'm.

00:29:51:27 - 00:29:52:27
Speaker 5
Going to divorce you.

00:29:53:09 - 00:30:04:17
Speaker 2
That is. But you know what, if that person wants to explain it, they'll explain it. If they don't, then you don't want to be with. Look, I'm not. I'm not begging anybody.

00:30:04:27 - 00:30:07:07
Speaker 5
No, but I mean, is that a nice? A good?

00:30:07:14 - 00:30:15:02
Speaker 2
I mean, I don't know if it's that person's personal reason, if that's the reason, that's the reason. So it's good enough for him to leave.

00:30:15:25 - 00:30:21:25
Speaker 5
But what do you have already decided that you wanted more before you got married? No, no.

00:30:22:06 - 00:30:22:26
Speaker 4
I don't know.

00:30:23:25 - 00:30:26:00
Speaker 2
Maybe, but that guy, obviously.

00:30:26:00 - 00:30:27:14
Speaker 4
He's got a reason.

00:30:28:05 - 00:30:34:05
Speaker 2
So it's possible because he did it. OK. You know, and some his reason was he doesn't want to settle.

00:30:34:26 - 00:30:46:06
Speaker 5
He and that's I think that's a good reason. Yeah. So I think there's more that he's not telling us, which is right, but I don't think you should settle. But I kind of feel like those are things you should figure out before you get married.

00:30:46:07 - 00:30:47:02
Speaker 2
Absolutely.

00:30:47:13 - 00:30:52:19
Speaker 5
I just feel like that reason like he had to have known before. Yeah. I don't know, man.

00:30:52:21 - 00:30:56:06
Speaker 2
I know. I know. But you know what? Get your goofy self out of here if.

00:30:56:06 - 00:31:04:08
Speaker 4
That's going to be the case because like, what is it? What is a terrible reason? Like, I want more.

00:31:04:19 - 00:31:05:05
Speaker 2
I want more.

00:31:05:06 - 00:31:05:11
Speaker 5
Now.

00:31:05:21 - 00:31:09:23
Speaker 3
Gimme, gimme, gimme, gimme gimme.

00:31:09:25 - 00:31:16:23
Speaker 4
Oh my god. Think Britney, do you see him? Come on, Britney. Britney, I'm just.

00:31:16:24 - 00:31:18:08
Speaker 2
Start yelling people's name that I really.

00:31:18:09 - 00:31:25:04
Speaker 4
Like. I'm just going to yell it. Yeah. Come on. Joe de Croce ROCE Yeah.

00:31:25:07 - 00:31:26:23
Speaker 5
He really thought he was going to get back.

00:31:26:26 - 00:31:31:08
Speaker 2
Remember that guy that was eating those Patti LaBelle pies? And he was like, Come on, Patti.

00:31:31:08 - 00:31:33:08
Speaker 4
He left. Did you ever see that?

00:31:33:09 - 00:31:34:13
Speaker 5
I probably did. I forgot.

00:31:34:14 - 00:31:35:03
Speaker 2
Oh my god, it was.

00:31:35:03 - 00:31:43:03
Speaker 5
So much content it's hard to keep. It is a piece. Every single thing he's tape marks, but their friends. Their friends. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:31:43:04 - 00:31:43:27
Speaker 2
Same James.

00:31:44:09 - 00:31:47:18
Speaker 5
James. He can sing. He's been singing backup sometimes for Tamara.

00:31:47:24 - 00:31:51:10
Speaker 2
Oh, OK, OK, that's what's up. I like I like him.

00:31:51:11 - 00:31:53:04
Speaker 5
I like him too. I like him too.

00:31:53:04 - 00:31:54:20
Speaker 2
But so, so yeah.

00:31:55:02 - 00:32:04:06
Speaker 5
Relationships and and so I guess we already answered if we would just leave someone. Have we would you leave someone because you were bored? You said, Yeah, I wouldn't.

00:32:04:10 - 00:32:16:08
Speaker 2
Oh, no, no. But what I'm saying is, if somebody tells you that, then I mean, there's nothing you can do is nothing you can do. You know what I mean? Is it a good reason? I wouldn't say it was a good reason, but if that's your reason, and that's what it is, right?

00:32:16:08 - 00:32:18:00
Speaker 2
I would not do that. I don't know.

00:32:18:09 - 00:32:26:29
Speaker 5
No, I wouldn't do that, either. But do you think he could have maybe communicated with her how they could not be in a boring state?

00:32:27:02 - 00:32:27:08
Speaker 4
Hmm.

00:32:27:27 - 00:32:31:16
Speaker 5
And, you know, maybe that they could have figured out ways to spice it up?

00:32:32:01 - 00:32:32:11
Speaker 2
Yeah.

00:32:32:20 - 00:32:48:23
Speaker 5
Yeah, I would. I would have a lot of questions. OK, well, what you're saying that you want more? What exactly is more? Like what, because I mean. Hmm. You know, yeah, you got a whole beautiful situation over here.

00:32:48:23 - 00:32:49:05
Speaker 4
Like what?

00:32:49:10 - 00:32:50:00
Speaker 2
And you want more?

00:32:50:20 - 00:32:51:04
Speaker 4
What do.

00:32:51:04 - 00:32:51:21
Speaker 2
You think you're going.

00:32:51:21 - 00:32:53:21
Speaker 4
To get? I know, you know.

00:32:54:22 - 00:32:57:14
Speaker 2
Yeah, I can't wait to see where you, where you, where you land.

00:32:57:15 - 00:32:59:27
Speaker 5
People always think the grass is greener.

00:32:59:27 - 00:33:02:19
Speaker 2
Sometimes it's it's sometimes it's not dull. Sometimes it's.

00:33:02:19 - 00:33:07:14
Speaker 4
Brown, sometimes it's fake. Sometimes it's fake artificial.

00:33:08:15 - 00:33:10:22
Speaker 2
It just looks all nice. And you know what I mean?

00:33:11:00 - 00:33:22:02
Speaker 5
Yeah. But you know, everyone, of course, has the opportunity to make their own decisions. And if he chose to leave, he chose to leave. And yeah, and I'm sure she probably is like, Well, I'm gonna get more to that.

00:33:22:03 - 00:33:29:21
Speaker 2
Yeah, I would hope so, because you know what? The best thing you can do is just communicate. And if that's how you feel, then let me know.

00:33:30:12 - 00:33:41:12
Speaker 5
So I wonder, like because he's said, five years old when you were married, well, you went when? When you're married. But when you were first married, did you feel as though you guys had a honeymoon phase II? Is that a thing?

00:33:42:06 - 00:33:42:29
Speaker 2
Absolutely.

00:33:43:05 - 00:33:43:17
Speaker 5
OK.

00:33:43:21 - 00:33:44:05
Speaker 2
Yes.

00:33:44:06 - 00:33:44:17
Speaker 5
OK.

00:33:44:23 - 00:33:46:13
Speaker 2
You mean like when? After you're married.

00:33:46:14 - 00:33:55:14
Speaker 5
After you're married? Because I feel like there's a honeymoon phase when you first sit with someone? Yeah. And then after you're married, I think there's another honeymoon phase.

00:33:55:22 - 00:34:08:07
Speaker 2
Yeah, you know, I never really thought about it like that. I think I would say so. Absolutely. You just really in a really super, super happy space place. Maybe. And so I would I would definitely say so. Yes.

00:34:08:08 - 00:34:15:11
Speaker 5
Yeah. I felt as though I had a honeymoon phase when I first got married. Yeah, I'm trying to think how long I felt it lasted.

00:34:15:12 - 00:34:16:19
Speaker 4
Hmm.

00:34:17:01 - 00:34:17:27
Speaker 2
Maybe the first year.

00:34:18:03 - 00:34:21:17
Speaker 5
The first year my mind was telling me, maybe like the first two, three.

00:34:22:03 - 00:34:22:25
Speaker 2
To three years.

00:34:23:05 - 00:34:24:07
Speaker 4
I feel.

00:34:25:23 - 00:34:33:01
Speaker 5
Yeah, maybe, but maybe it was long, maybe a little shorter than I than I thought, but I'll say two years, maybe Max.

00:34:33:02 - 00:34:33:14
Speaker 2
OK.

00:34:33:18 - 00:34:40:15
Speaker 5
At least two years. OK, yeah. I felt the honeymoon phase was definitely a thing. You'll be just, you know, jumping all the time.

00:34:42:14 - 00:34:48:03
Speaker 4
Let me jump in around, you know, go get it. See.

00:34:49:12 - 00:34:52:01
Speaker 2
The dance is your chance to.

00:34:52:01 - 00:34:55:23
Speaker 4
Do the hump. Hey, hey. Oh, do they have it?

00:34:56:09 - 00:35:01:29
Speaker 5
Yeah, I don't think I do know that song. OK, yeah. Yeah, go. So definitely there is a.

00:35:02:02 - 00:35:19:08
Speaker 2
There's a honeymoon phase is a thing, you know? But I think that once you get out of that phase and you are. In it, in it like real life, for sure, start, you know, yeah, I think that that's, you know, it shouldn't be such a drastic change.

00:35:19:09 - 00:35:22:24
Speaker 2
I agree your honeymoon phase. I agree. You know, it should still be pretty.

00:35:23:12 - 00:35:30:16
Speaker 5
Pretty cool. We'll just have, you know, you guys have to be more intentional. Yeah. With it, you know, one more things.

00:35:30:19 - 00:35:31:02
Speaker 3
Mm hmm.

00:35:31:09 - 00:35:40:08
Speaker 5
Some people tend to like do a lot of work and stuff, and then they forget about who their spouse, whoever they are with. You got to be really intentional if your schedule.

00:35:40:09 - 00:35:40:26
Speaker 2
Absolutely.

00:35:40:26 - 00:35:58:20
Speaker 5
And schedule things. Yeah. You know, I need again, quality time is my thing. Mm hmm. I need to be seeing you. I need to be here. And you often. Yeah, because if that dies down. It's hard sometimes to get me back.

00:35:58:25 - 00:36:06:01
Speaker 5
Yeah, it's very hard sometimes. OK, get me back. Yeah, I don't want to be sitting down at a table and I am not talking like, we're just not eating.

00:36:06:15 - 00:36:14:18
Speaker 2
Oh my gosh, I've been to restaurants before and like, you know, you look around and you see couples just like sitting there, like staring at each other. It's like.

00:36:15:14 - 00:36:18:23
Speaker 5
I'm sure that are moments that happens, but that shouldn't be.

00:36:19:09 - 00:36:20:26
Speaker 2
A thing thing forever.

00:36:20:27 - 00:36:21:21
Speaker 5
A constant.

00:36:21:21 - 00:36:25:16
Speaker 2
A constant thing. Yeah, engage me. That's kind of funny.

00:36:25:18 - 00:36:26:03
Speaker 4
Talk to me.

00:36:27:07 - 00:36:29:20
Speaker 2
I don't have a staring contest every time we go.

00:36:29:20 - 00:36:33:03
Speaker 5
To dinner unless, you know, we kind of set in the mood like.

00:36:33:14 - 00:36:36:21
Speaker 4
Oh. Mm hmm.

00:36:37:03 - 00:36:37:20
Speaker 5
As we said in.

00:36:38:02 - 00:36:39:04
Speaker 2
The kiss, looking now.

00:36:39:11 - 00:36:39:23
Speaker 5
Suck.

00:36:40:25 - 00:36:41:23
Speaker 4
Yeah. Yes.

00:36:42:16 - 00:36:48:00
Speaker 2
So it's down this thing, OK? But I think effort is very important all the way through.

00:36:48:01 - 00:36:51:10
Speaker 5
Yeah, for sure. What are ways to spice it up? What do you see?

00:36:51:20 - 00:36:59:26
Speaker 2
Oh, I feel like ways to spice it. There's so many different ways, really. You just traveling with your partner just like, you know, and it.

00:36:59:26 - 00:37:02:08
Speaker 5
Can be local. You don't have to like, go, Yeah.

00:37:02:19 - 00:37:09:18
Speaker 2
Yeah, I mean, just trying new things with that person. New experiences in prizes. Yeah.

00:37:09:18 - 00:37:23:23
Speaker 5
Surprises, I like to be. I feel as though there really is a thing where people say how you treat other people is usually how you also want to be to be treated like the things that you do. Because I feel like in past relationships, I would do a lot of surprises.

00:37:24:04 - 00:37:27:05
Speaker 5
Really? Oh yeah. I'm like the queen of surprises.

00:37:27:05 - 00:37:27:22
Speaker 4
Oh, how so?

00:37:27:24 - 00:37:31:20
Speaker 5
I'll give you a surprise trip. I'll pop up on you.

00:37:32:14 - 00:37:40:03
Speaker 4
Surprise, surprise. I'm in the bushes here. What kind of books are you popping now? She says. Surprise.

00:37:41:17 - 00:37:45:25
Speaker 5
Yeah. No, but I am. And then when I think about it, I think I want that.

00:37:45:27 - 00:37:46:08
Speaker 4
Mm hmm.

00:37:46:15 - 00:37:58:08
Speaker 5
Because the surprises for me shows that you sat down and you thought of something for weeks or, you know, days or whatever you put this whole plan, he orchestrated this entire thing for me.

00:37:58:11 - 00:37:58:28
Speaker 2
Yeah.

00:37:58:29 - 00:38:08:21
Speaker 5
And I think that that that's a big thing and I am the queen that like you, make sure you take this time off from work and you don't even know where we going.

00:38:08:29 - 00:38:09:29
Speaker 2
That is too.

00:38:10:04 - 00:38:11:20
Speaker 5
Cute. I know, I know.

00:38:11:20 - 00:38:13:26
Speaker 2
So that is too cute. She said. I know.

00:38:15:02 - 00:38:16:18
Speaker 4
I know. Yes.

00:38:17:00 - 00:38:22:04
Speaker 2
That's why they call her that Dan data. I mean, they don't. But I just said, that's it. But still, we can't.

00:38:22:04 - 00:38:23:03
Speaker 5
We can't make it a thing.

00:38:23:04 - 00:38:30:23
Speaker 4
It sounds good, doesn't it? Janet and I know something now.

00:38:31:12 - 00:38:39:01
Speaker 5
So, you know, I think I think there is an importance of keeping things spicy, but I'm still OK with things being boring here and there.

00:38:39:07 - 00:38:45:14
Speaker 2
Yeah. So would you? Would you? You wouldn't leave if something was boring? For how long can they be boring for you forever?

00:38:45:27 - 00:38:47:05
Speaker 4
No. OK.

00:38:47:18 - 00:38:59:07
Speaker 5
So because. You got to show me that you're planning things and trying to try new things with me. And it doesn't have to be like expensive. It could just be simple things a picnic.

00:38:59:18 - 00:39:00:07
Speaker 2
Yeah.

00:39:00:15 - 00:39:11:19
Speaker 5
For me, you bring me breakfast in bed. That's cute. Like, all that stuff is super cute. That is not boring to me. Yeah, boring to me. Is you not talking to me? Boring to me is just us sitting on watching TV all the time.

00:39:12:13 - 00:39:17:20
Speaker 5
That's bored. Yeah, yeah. There's moments where we should have those rights moments.

00:39:17:21 - 00:39:19:12
Speaker 2
Right? There's a time and place for everything.

00:39:19:13 - 00:39:21:16
Speaker 5
Yeah, but not like all the time.

00:39:21:17 - 00:39:32:22
Speaker 2
Right, right, right. I get that what I say around, if something was boring. Probably. I mean, you listen, both of you guys can bounce back and forth. Think it's boring?

00:39:32:23 - 00:39:33:07
Speaker 5
Yes.

00:39:33:07 - 00:39:35:24
Speaker 2
You know, that's what that's what takes two to tango.

00:39:35:25 - 00:39:36:10
Speaker 5
I know.

00:39:36:13 - 00:39:37:18
Speaker 2
Can tango by myself?

00:39:39:00 - 00:39:39:09
Speaker 4
You could.

00:39:39:09 - 00:39:39:23
Speaker 5
Try.

00:39:40:02 - 00:39:41:03
Speaker 4
I could totally try.

00:39:41:15 - 00:39:41:27
Speaker 5
Yes.

00:39:42:06 - 00:39:49:12
Speaker 2
No. I don't want to. So I feel like if if each person is like passing the ball back and forth and.

00:39:49:12 - 00:39:50:08
Speaker 5
Effort on both.

00:39:50:09 - 00:39:50:19
Speaker 2
Sides.

00:39:50:20 - 00:40:06:19
Speaker 5
Yeah, yeah. But I don't I don't want someone to feel as though they have to like, do so many things to just keep things spicy. I feel like that becomes hard work. It shouldn't be work. Yes, it should be effortless and it should make you feel good, like when you do things for who you're with, you know

00:40:06:26 - 00:40:08:10
Speaker 2
? Yeah, absolutely.

00:40:08:11 - 00:40:18:23
Speaker 5
You know, even though there is a honeymoon phase, I feel like relationships go in and out of honeymoon phases. So yes, I don't think there's just a honeymoon phase in the beginning and then you're just done.

00:40:18:25 - 00:40:19:04
Speaker 4
Mm hmm.

00:40:19:16 - 00:40:21:25
Speaker 5
I think you're just going to have like, you know, roller coaster.

00:40:21:25 - 00:40:25:10
Speaker 2
You and sometimes make you happy. Oh, I like that.

00:40:25:13 - 00:40:26:00
Speaker 5
Yeah, yeah.

00:40:26:03 - 00:40:27:14
Speaker 2
I definitely like that. I agree.

00:40:27:20 - 00:40:28:13
Speaker 5
I agree, too.

00:40:28:13 - 00:40:32:27
Speaker 2
I totally agree with that. Yes. Good advice for advice, Jen dantata.

00:40:34:06 - 00:40:36:17
Speaker 5
And I like that.

00:40:38:21 - 00:40:49:25
Speaker 2
If you are in a relationship and you don't feel satisfied or you don't feel whatever you know, I would try to provide somebody with an explanation on why I want to depart.

00:40:49:25 - 00:40:52:05
Speaker 5
But well, I don't think you should first depart.

00:40:52:14 - 00:40:53:16
Speaker 2
You don't think you either.

00:40:53:16 - 00:40:57:18
Speaker 5
Yeah, you got to communicate. Yes. And give that person time.

00:40:57:21 - 00:40:58:21
Speaker 2
Yes.

00:40:58:22 - 00:41:07:07
Speaker 5
You know, because sometimes we expect we think people understand us before us actually voicing it, right? But no one can read your mind.

00:41:07:11 - 00:41:11:06
Speaker 2
We can't read your mind. OK, I'm not a mind reader.

00:41:11:06 - 00:41:19:28
Speaker 5
Okay? No one carry Germaine. So voice it and let that give that person time to change. And you also do things too. It's not just on them.

00:41:20:06 - 00:41:25:11
Speaker 2
Hey, hey, I got a I got a random question for you. If you are nervous.

00:41:27:05 - 00:41:27:26
Speaker 4
If you could.

00:41:27:26 - 00:41:30:07
Speaker 2
Have any superpower, what would it be?

00:41:30:20 - 00:41:41:03
Speaker 5
A superpower? Mm hmm. Wow. I feel like this superpower would be. To. Bring back people.

00:41:41:15 - 00:41:43:26
Speaker 4
Oh, yeah.

00:41:44:07 - 00:41:51:20
Speaker 5
Like give give someone they if if if I could have a couple saves, you know, like bring back this person.

00:41:52:20 - 00:41:52:28
Speaker 4
Like.

00:41:52:28 - 00:41:55:11
Speaker 5
That, that's probably what I would. I would be.

00:41:55:21 - 00:41:58:03
Speaker 2
I would be I would be invisible.

00:41:59:10 - 00:41:59:24
Speaker 4
Oh.

00:42:00:02 - 00:42:02:11
Speaker 3
If I was invisible?

00:42:03:08 - 00:42:04:24
Speaker 5
Yeah. But really? Yeah.

00:42:05:02 - 00:42:08:23
Speaker 2
Why? Why? I don't even know, you know? I don't know.

00:42:09:23 - 00:42:13:14
Speaker 5
Something invisible that you might hear. Stuff that you don't like. You might see stuff you don't like.

00:42:13:14 - 00:42:16:14
Speaker 2
But then I can also travel and like, do whatever I want to do with.

00:42:16:18 - 00:42:17:08
Speaker 5
Other people seeing.

00:42:17:09 - 00:42:21:23
Speaker 2
Yeah, like out of my business. Oh, you know, like, I just do my thing.

00:42:21:24 - 00:42:23:22
Speaker 5
I like that. You know, I do.

00:42:23:22 - 00:42:30:25
Speaker 2
I do. That's a fun one. But I thought about that because you like, I can't read your mind. And that's kind of like, if you could, that would be a superpower.

00:42:31:03 - 00:42:34:08
Speaker 5
Yeah. So that's then I feel like that's just too much information I don't want to.

00:42:34:11 - 00:42:37:03
Speaker 2
Yeah, I don't. I don't need that. I know.

00:42:37:14 - 00:42:38:04
Speaker 5
Yeah, I mean.

00:42:40:14 - 00:42:41:04
Speaker 4
They were.

00:42:41:14 - 00:42:42:22
Speaker 5
Like, I don't even I.

00:42:42:23 - 00:42:43:08
Speaker 4
Can hear you.

00:42:45:02 - 00:42:49:05
Speaker 2
Oh, yeah. Yeah, yeah. Yes, folks. But we're coming back.

00:42:49:17 - 00:42:54:09
Speaker 5
Yeah, we're taking a little break. Just a two week break. I think it's two weeks for the holidays.

00:42:54:09 - 00:42:55:04
Speaker 2
Yeah, yeah.

00:42:55:17 - 00:42:57:02
Speaker 5
Spend some time with the family.

00:42:57:23 - 00:43:01:25
Speaker 2
And you can watch, ah ah, a little music video.

00:43:03:23 - 00:43:04:14
Speaker 4
Ah, Christmas.

00:43:04:25 - 00:43:05:28
Speaker 2
By Christmas VIDEO And.

00:43:05:29 - 00:43:09:14
Speaker 5
Watch it a couple of times and make sure you share everything that we do.

00:43:09:27 - 00:43:14:08
Speaker 2
Sing along, sing along. Yes, we should totally do that. Sing it.

00:43:15:18 - 00:43:17:08
Speaker 4
Thing thing that.

00:43:17:09 - 00:43:17:25
Speaker 2
Would be really.

00:43:17:28 - 00:43:21:22
Speaker 5
Doesn't matter how you sound. Singing just does something to the body.

00:43:22:08 - 00:43:23:01
Speaker 2
It does it.

00:43:23:01 - 00:43:28:15
Speaker 5
Like makes you just, I don't know. It just releases endorphins. It does something it does. Does something to.

00:43:28:15 - 00:43:30:10
Speaker 2
Them. Oh, you're right. You're totally right.

00:43:30:11 - 00:43:35:01
Speaker 5
So but we're going to take a little break. I think it's two weeks. So we'll be back on January six.

00:43:36:26 - 00:43:38:09
Speaker 2
And we have a lot of.

00:43:38:09 - 00:43:39:14
Speaker 5
Things planned.

00:43:39:15 - 00:43:42:15
Speaker 2
Yes. Oh, I'm so excited for sure.

00:43:42:16 - 00:43:47:21
Speaker 5
Like, we really want to even invite people on to the show.

00:43:47:26 - 00:43:49:04
Speaker 2
Yeah, we'll have guests.

00:43:49:04 - 00:43:53:04
Speaker 5
We're going to start having guests next year. I'm really excited for next year.

00:43:53:08 - 00:43:55:05
Speaker 2
We'll have more music for you guys.

00:43:55:07 - 00:43:55:16
Speaker 4
Yes.

00:43:56:00 - 00:43:57:12
Speaker 3
Music videos.

00:43:57:13 - 00:44:06:23
Speaker 2
More fun stuff, photoshoots. What is it? What did I say? We need to release a What Delanie Notebooks Delanie Coffee Mug.

00:44:07:01 - 00:44:07:16
Speaker 5
OK.

00:44:07:17 - 00:44:10:11
Speaker 2
Queens of a Feather podcast merchandise? Yes.

00:44:10:11 - 00:44:11:05
Speaker 5
Queens of a feather.

00:44:11:05 - 00:44:13:23
Speaker 2
Coming to a store near you?

00:44:13:23 - 00:44:14:09
Speaker 5
Yeah, yeah.

00:44:14:13 - 00:44:17:04
Speaker 2
Just kidding. You have to order it from the internet, probably. But you know what?

00:44:17:23 - 00:44:19:19
Speaker 5
Still, you and I was like, Yeah, yeah, sure.

00:44:19:19 - 00:44:22:25
Speaker 4
Yeah, yeah, yeah. I just went along as well. And you know and. Mm hmm.

00:44:23:00 - 00:44:23:23
Speaker 2
Yeah, yeah.

00:44:23:28 - 00:44:26:06
Speaker 4
Mm hmm. So stay.

00:44:26:06 - 00:44:39:22
Speaker 2
Tuned. I want to thank everyone who has supported this first season of ours. Yeah, I think that it's been such a journey and I have loved every minute of this.

00:44:39:24 - 00:44:43:29
Speaker 5
I feel like we're learning more about ourselves, too. I know just so Adobe.

00:44:44:12 - 00:44:45:09
Speaker 2
It is.

00:44:45:19 - 00:44:49:24
Speaker 5
Definitely. And I think we're closer. Mm hmm. I don't know how how that was possible.

00:44:49:24 - 00:44:51:10
Speaker 2
I don't know, either. I really don't.

00:44:51:15 - 00:44:52:27
Speaker 5
Because I felt like we were really close.

00:44:52:28 - 00:45:00:24
Speaker 2
We were really close. Let me say this song we did earlier. It was fun. first of all, we sang like 50 songs before we even started recording.

00:45:01:15 - 00:45:01:25
Speaker 4
OK.

00:45:02:01 - 00:45:02:28
Speaker 5
Yeah, that's why it's late.

00:45:02:28 - 00:45:05:25
Speaker 4
I'm not going tell you what's wrong with this place. OK. Yes.

00:45:06:15 - 00:45:12:23
Speaker 2
But yeah, so sing some songs. Enjoy your holiday. You will be returning to you.

00:45:13:00 - 00:45:29:09
Speaker 5
And then we'll talk about like New Year resolutions. If you if you're even going to do that, we'll probably. Yeah, something about that. Yeah, yeah. But enjoy yourself. You survived a year. Yeah, another year of life. And I hope that you are more and more and more of yourself.

00:45:29:17 - 00:45:30:04
Speaker 4
Mm hmm.

00:45:30:05 - 00:45:33:17
Speaker 5
Because that's that's the goal. It is you completely.

00:45:33:26 - 00:45:36:03
Speaker 2
To be me. It is. It definitely.

00:45:36:03 - 00:45:37:03
Speaker 5
Is. We will miss.

00:45:37:03 - 00:45:46:25
Speaker 2
You will miss you and I miss you when I miss you. And I guess, yes, you know, it kind of went, but whatever. Thanks, everybody.

00:45:46:25 - 00:45:47:04
Speaker 4
Yes.

00:45:47:18 - 00:45:56:03
Speaker 5
Follow us on Queens of the Feather Dot podcast on Instagram. Go to our YouTube at Queens a little farther on YouTube, Facebook queens and other.

00:45:56:22 - 00:45:59:27
Speaker 2
Queens of a feather. Yes, like butt cheeks, we go together. We got, I got it.

00:46:01:07 - 00:46:03:06
Speaker 4
I don't listen to the song on me, so.

00:46:03:08 - 00:46:05:02
Speaker 5
That should be our tagline. That's so funny.

00:46:05:03 - 00:46:12:18
Speaker 4
There's a good reason for the light, but seems to be go together. Yeah, that is so funny. That's a good little thing to wrap.

00:46:12:18 - 00:46:15:06
Speaker 5
It up with, but I think people who don't know those will be like, what?

00:46:16:07 - 00:46:16:23
Speaker 4
No, it doesn't.

00:46:16:23 - 00:46:18:15
Speaker 2
Take a rocket science to figure it out, but cheeks.

00:46:18:21 - 00:46:19:09
Speaker 4
Together. Go.

00:46:20:01 - 00:46:21:08
Speaker 2
Do you know about chicks that don't?

00:46:21:09 - 00:46:21:22
Speaker 5
I know.

00:46:21:23 - 00:46:25:03
Speaker 2
I'm saying like my they come in a pair, you know?

00:46:25:04 - 00:46:25:20
Speaker 5
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:46:25:21 - 00:46:26:13
Speaker 2
They go together.

00:46:26:20 - 00:46:27:00
Speaker 5
Yeah.

00:46:27:11 - 00:46:29:05
Speaker 4
Say about that. All of that. Yeah, about that.

00:46:31:21 - 00:46:33:29
Speaker 2
OK, thanks, you guys.

00:46:58:12 - 00:47:02:26
Speaker 1
* Music*