Episode 8: Celebs Gone Wild & Friendsgiving

Happy Thanksgiving!!

In this episode we start with a celebrity recap. We shared our thoughts on DaniLeigh and DaBaby's Instagram fiasco, Stevie J and Faith Evans video diaries, ex-football player Zach Stacy being caught on camera abusing his child's mother, Erica Mena and Safaree possibly getting back together, Kim Kardashian and Pete Davidson's newfound romance and Tami Roman's stance on her husband, Reggie, having a child with another woman. 

Halfway through the episode, we exchanged gifts for Friendsgiving. We also played a game called "Skin Deep: Friends Edition," where we ask and answer questions about our friendship. 

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Transcript

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Speaker 1
*Music*

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Speaker 2
Guys. We are back. Yes. Did you miss us? I hope you did. Yes, that's OK. I hope you do. Uh-Huh. That's really what it did go.

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Speaker 3
So how's everyone?

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Speaker 2
Oh, Thanksgiving is coming up.

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Speaker 3
Oh my goodness. I feel like the holidays are just really creeping up on us.

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Speaker 4
It's just going super fast. I feel like it was just January.

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Speaker 2
Yeah.

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Speaker 3
Yeah. And Halloween just went right on back.

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Speaker 4
I know. Just go right on by.

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Speaker 3
If you haven't checked out that Halloween episode, go look at it.

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Speaker 4
Please, guys, watch all the other episodes that we watch them.

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Speaker 2
Yeah, watch them. Or we'll find you. And we dressed up. Yeah, we did. And I don't.

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Speaker 4
Even dress up. So I just that far.

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Speaker 3
Yeah, you got to see your tail.

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Speaker 4
I had a tail.

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Speaker 2
Yes.

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Speaker 4
And Dominique was a queen. I was like.

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Speaker 2
Going, going, going, Hey. So today.

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Speaker 3
Today, this week's with celebrity.

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Speaker 4
It was a bunch of craziness in the news. So we're like, we're going to start off.

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Speaker 3
With what the people act in a full.

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Speaker 4
Acting, a fool.

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Speaker 2
A whole fool.

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Speaker 4
They need to be chastised.

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Speaker 2
Okay.

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Speaker 4
We didn't like it.

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Speaker 3
That's a serious word.

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Speaker 2
It's a serious charge. She's well.

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Speaker 3
first on the list.

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Speaker 4
Yeah. DaBaby and Danny.

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Speaker 3
That was that whole situation. Hmm. Was just crazy to see. first of all, people. You guys got to get off of posting every single thing. Don't one on live and stuff like that, like because you can never take that back.

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Speaker 3
Everybody saw it. We all saw.

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Speaker 4
It. It was. It was embarrassing. But I wonder if it wasn't life. If the public scrutiny was not involved, would she have left?

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Speaker 2
Oh, that's a good question.

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Speaker 4
Sometimes you need that public scrutiny.

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Speaker 2
Mm hmm.

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Speaker 4
That additional pressure? Yeah. For you to feel as though, you know what? This really is crazy, because that could have been her life on a daily. You have no idea. She could have been going through that. Those type of things.

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Speaker 4
Yeah, every single day.

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Speaker 3
But I wonder which? I wouldn't be surprised.

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Speaker 4
I wouldn't be surprised. David. He seemed very comfortable and comfortable disrespecting her on the people's internet. Holding the baby on the internet. Shame on you.

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Speaker 3
Oh my goodness.

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Speaker 4
Shame.

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Speaker 3
I don't even know like what how it all jumped off. Like, he hopped on live saying, like, you wanted her to leave? Are you eating a.

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Speaker 4
Baby or something?

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Speaker 3
You're feeding the baby? And I don't think she's breastfeeding. I should've seen the baby. And that's like those moments like that when you have your child. I did not understand. Like, how could you be like that with her while she has your baby in her arms feeding your kid?

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Speaker 2
Like, that's so disrespectful.

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Speaker 4
Some people don't care at all.

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Speaker 3
It shows. It shows. I mean, you ain't got to tell me more than once to go anywhere.

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Speaker 4
I mean.

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Speaker 2
You know, like.

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Speaker 3
I'm not staying.

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Speaker 4
There, but I think we have to remember that she just had a baby. Yeah. And I think when you just have a baby, your mental state is completely just different than what you might regularly tolerate. It is. So maybe she would have not tolerated something like that, you know, if the hormones weren't just pumping through her body

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Speaker 4
? I don't know. Right? Oh.

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Speaker 3
I know. It makes me feel really sad for her because, you know, being a new mom, you know.

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Speaker 2
I remember being.

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Speaker 3
You know, in the trenches in the very beginning, just trying to find my footing, you know? I can imagine also having to deal with troubles with your.

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Speaker 4
You know, significant other. Yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 3
Yeah, like that just really broke my heart. And then, you know, so when they were getting into it and he was like, This is my side girl, my side, you know, I'm like, Why are you calling her aside?

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Speaker 3
You just had you, like, have a little bit of respect even for yourself. You sound crazy out here.

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Speaker 4
Like, why would you think that it makes her sound bad and you sound good back? Are you to be calling her a psychic? Tell me. So you just be having a bunch of baby girl sidekicks. What's wrong with you?

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Speaker 4
Yeah, yeah. It takes two to tango.

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Speaker 3
It really.

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Speaker 4
Does. So it really does. That was just disappointing altogether. It was terrible to watch. I really feel as though women should be completely protected after baby, before baby. Obviously always. But just those moments are extremely vulnerable and a man really shows you who they are if they treat you crazy while you're at your lowest point.

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Speaker 4
Yeah. Yes, it's a high point because you have a baby. It's a it's a joyful moment, but you're not sleeping. Yeah, you're healing. You know, you just went through a crazy ordeal of giving birth. You're breastfeeding, probably. Or whatever you're doing, however.

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Speaker 3
Is just, yeah.

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Speaker 4
It's all. It's all different. So it is somewhat, in my opinion, somewhat of a low as well, because you're just you're just trying to find your footing with everything in life. You really are. So if you. Treating you like that, then he's not going to treat you good.

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Speaker 3
And I am wondering when I was watching that, I'm like, Where's your family? You know, like, why don't? Why aren't you calling anybody to come in like lever, like having somebody to come and help you or whatever? But then I saw later, like dinner family kind of started to chime in.

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Speaker 3
You know, after she left, her brother got on and was like.

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Speaker 2
You better catch this face.

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Speaker 4
You know, I think, yes, we're seeing this all on Instagram wherever now, but we don't know how long these things are happening. We don't know if her family had told her before. Hey, you need to get out of this, and she might have been like, No, I'm good.

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Speaker 4
Yeah, we just never know the background story. And we don't know if maybe her family was telling her, like, Hey, I'm a pick you up or you just you just never know. We don't. We're not seeing the full picture.

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Speaker 3
Yeah, that's why you shouldn't do that, because now everybody's trying to, like, put together what they feel is going on. But we're only getting bits and pieces of the story, you know what I mean? But it was just hard to see, just based off of what he posted.

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Speaker 3
I was like.

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Speaker 4
He was just so disrespectful.

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Speaker 2
He was.

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Speaker 4
Like. And she just seemed really hooked on the fact that he wasn't claiming her girl. You don't want him to claim you.

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Speaker 3
Yeah. Yeah, she really like I said that I feel like she was doing the most with like, well, which side chick would you have done this if I was a side chick? It's like, Why are you don't? You don't need to justify the things that he's done for you to to make it so that you're not that

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Speaker 3
like. He just said that that's how he feels. If a man tells you something like that, believe him, that's how he's feeling.

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Speaker 4
And we all know that he's he's crazy. Yeah. You don't have to prove it to us, girl. Yeah, we know. And that's a good thing for women, too. You don't have to prove that you were with someone. You don't have to prove anything as someone's disrespect to you.

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Speaker 4
All of that stuff doesn't matter. Your image doesn't matter. Ghetto and save yourself and make sure that your baby are your kids. Whatever is in a position where they're loved and where they're seeing their mother. Happy kid.

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Speaker 3
Well, healthy. That was not a healthy situation at all.

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Speaker 4
At all. It was not as unfortunate. It really is.

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Speaker 3
These rappers, these people these days, I'm telling you, unless you're on a podcast.

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Speaker 2
You need to talk less like, just make music, make the music.

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Speaker 3
I remember one once upon a time, like we didn't even ever like this stuff. You know, none of this. And now we know, we know all about people's, you know?

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Speaker 4
But then again, I go back to what she have left. If if the public didn't know.

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Speaker 3
I wonder. I mean, who like who's to say she's not going to go back now? They could get back together. You know who's to say? I don't know. Now you have everybody on her side. The public is on her side.

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Speaker 3
But stuff happens and people like, What is it? Safari and Erica?

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Speaker 4
So that's a good question. Yeah. Are you going to go back with someone who disrespected you public that?

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Speaker 3
Yeah. I mean, Safari was out here acting a whole.

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Speaker 2
Full, OK?

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Speaker 4
Is the people something recently?

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Speaker 2
And did he.

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Speaker 4
About how the only person he wants to be tied to is his mother?

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Speaker 2
Oh.

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Speaker 4
I'm like, Sir, you were tied to Erica when you have kids. Yeah, you're already tight. I don't know what type of mindset you have, but just because your mother birthed you doesn't mean that's the only person that you're tied to.

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Speaker 3
Yeah, yeah. Yes. I had another rappers say something along those lines, like as long as your mother loves you, does it matter? I think that was while it was in a rap or something like that, but it was just kind of like.

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Speaker 3
I mean, yeah, but like, you can't base stuff like that off of just the love of your mom. Like, No, come on, you got to get right with your family. You were grown like, Let's just keep it.

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Speaker 2
Let's keep pushing.

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Speaker 4
And why would it? So my question is.

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Speaker 2
Men.

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Speaker 4
Yes. Who have this type of mindset? Hmm. Why wouldn't you want your family to be together? Why don't you think it will be nice for you to be a good person so your children have an amazing example? Yeah.

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Speaker 4
Like, I don't I don't get it.

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Speaker 3
Be the example.

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Speaker 4
Yeah, you just want to be here wilding. You think.

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Speaker 2
That's fun? Well, I'm sure.

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Speaker 3
You know, sometimes they probably think, Oh, the babies are so little, they're not paying. They're paying attention. OK? Trust me. It starts from very, very early. Like they see the dynamic.

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Speaker 4
And then why would you want someone who is taking care of your child to be going through something.

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Speaker 2
So.

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Speaker 4
Traumatic? And the thing is with me and Erica is that Erica had a baby in the nick you. That's hard. You know, that's that's a hard journey to be on. Yeah. So for you to have a child in a nick, you and him to be wilding?

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Speaker 4
And I see you back together, really? I mean, he's still talking crazy.

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Speaker 3
She really wants to make it work, you know, and you do crazy things when you have when you have kids because you know, you don't want a broken home, but sometimes it's broken so that you can put the pieces back together without.

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Speaker 3
What made it break in the first place.

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Speaker 4
And her baby is less than a year, right? Yeah. So my my hormones, crazy hormones still pumping through her so she might not be thinking about it.

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Speaker 3
And I think he's taking advantage of that. Exactly, you know? Yeah.

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Speaker 4
You know, most people want their family to be together, but at what cost?

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Speaker 3
You can't be stepping in and out, in and out in analysis. It's going to work out. I hope that and then they figure it out and get some really help with that situation. Or she just says, Let me, let me.

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Speaker 3
Let me do me.

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Speaker 4
I, yeah.

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Speaker 3
I think she'll land on her feet either way, though.

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Speaker 4
Either way, you know? You know, another crazy story that took place was Stevie J. Yeah. And Faith Evans.

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Speaker 3
Yes, yes.

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Speaker 4
Faith, why? Why are you letting this man do.

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Speaker 2
This to you?

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Speaker 3
You know what? I would say, Sam, OK? When I saw the video, there was like a video of Stevie J recording face, like he's walking upon her in the bedroom and she goes into the bedroom and she kind of just gets in the bed and puts the covers over her, and he walks up recording and minced up

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Speaker 3
doing that woman. Anybody, some recording people like that. It's just so.

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Speaker 4
Very vulnerable moments.

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Speaker 2
Especially abuse is.

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Speaker 4
Abusive.

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Speaker 3
So he's like, You cheated on me, you cheated on me. And he's just saying all kind of stuff. And she's like, I heard you the first time like this? Leave me alone. Leave me alone.

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Speaker 2
And that's like, Yeah, but you cheated on me.

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Speaker 3
But it's like, Oh my goodness, faith girl, girl. I don't know if that's going to change.

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Speaker 4
But didn't they? So before that video came out, they said that he filed for divorce. Yeah. And then there was a picture of them back together. That came out and then the video popped up. So he sent a video to someone.

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Speaker 3
He did, he did.

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Speaker 4
He sent a video to someone. Oh my God. So they think about that. Who did he send a video to? And again, men, women stop recording people in those moments. That's that's just terrible. It really is like, why do you why do people do that?

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Speaker 4
I don't I don't I don't understand the.

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Speaker 3
Much time that I saw at work in someone's favor is when I think this one woman and I don't know her name, so I'm not going to go into heavy detail, but right? She was in a situation to where I think the key was going to, like, harm her or something like that.

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Speaker 3
Yeah, yeah. She went on live. That's there so that he wouldn't do anything. But even then, it sucks because when you turn the light off, I mean, yikes. But it's kind of like, be careful with.

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Speaker 2
That.

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Speaker 4
Just stop doing that is is in my opinion, it's abusive. Yeah. Because, you know, why would someone want a camera in their face when when you are having an argument? Yeah, you already know that no one is going to be looked at in a good way.

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Speaker 4
Y'all are in the heat of a moment. And then you went and you sent the video to someone.

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Speaker 3
Yeah, he did not even think about.

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Speaker 2
That, but he did send it to someone. So I mean, the thing.

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Speaker 4
Is, he wanted to humiliate her. Yeah, he should. When you have crossed into a space, when you're a couple where your man or woman wants to humiliate you.

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Speaker 3
That's a whole different ball.

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Speaker 4
That's contempt. It does. At that point, you might as well just end the relationship. There's not much turning around.

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Speaker 3
No, no. Yeah, that's a horrible thing to do.

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Speaker 4
Was a very horrible thing to you. Once they start to embarrass you and they, oh.

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Speaker 2
Look at her, look at what she did.

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Speaker 4
When you're not showing what you're doing, when you're angry, but you're trying to show what she's doing when she's angry. Because we know, Steve, you're not perfect.

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Speaker 2
OK.

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Speaker 4
So yeah, once once you've crossed into that realm of content, it doesn't make sense. Just just leave it.

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Speaker 3
Yeah. You know, what do you remember that one episode with Stevie J and Jocelyn and and Mimi?

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Speaker 2
And instead they were all sitting down on the couch? Yes. And Jocelyn was like.

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Speaker 3
Were you with? Were you with her the other night? And Mimi was like, Yeah, you know, he was at my house.

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Speaker 2
And then Jocelyn turned around and just punched. I remember.

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Speaker 3
You know, in his mind, he's probably like, I'm used to being humiliated.

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Speaker 2
Because he just then used to just drag me up and down, you.

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Speaker 4
Know? So he thinks it's OK to do it.

00:14:05:03 - 00:14:15:18
Speaker 3
He thinks that's OK, and that's healthy. Obviously, every time I would watch them that dynamic together, it would be crazy how nonchalant Stevie was about stuff like that getting smacked upside the head.

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Speaker 4
Some people are just addicted to toxicity.

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Speaker 2
Yeah, yeah. They're they're just addicted to their.

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Speaker 3
Yeah, they.

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Speaker 4
Thrive off of that. And he's happy that he's seeing women fighting for him. Does something for his ego now, huh?

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Speaker 3
Be careful with men like that.

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Speaker 4
I always, every time I think of cvg, always takes me back to Eve.

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Speaker 2
Just always, Oh my gosh, you remember that? Remember?

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Speaker 4
Yeah, that was about that was a crazy time, but I always it always takes me back to that, you know, the little sex tape?

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Speaker 2
Yeah, it.

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Speaker 4
Does all those things. But Eve, I'm happy that you.

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Speaker 3
Totally moved on. She has. She is no.

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Speaker 4
Good.

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Speaker 3
So he's the same. He's stayed the same. That is true. Seems like you.

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Speaker 4
Can see the evolution with some people that he's been with and he's.

00:15:03:08 - 00:15:04:26
Speaker 3
Made the scene. It totally has.

00:15:05:03 - 00:15:06:19
Speaker 4
Why would you want a man like that?

00:15:06:20 - 00:15:13:06
Speaker 3
I don't know. But speaking of use of abuse, that situation with the ex NFL.

00:15:14:15 - 00:15:16:08
Speaker 4
Player was another crazy story.

00:15:16:09 - 00:15:17:15
Speaker 3
His name next.

00:15:17:15 - 00:15:19:17
Speaker 4
Stacy Zak Stacy.

00:15:20:28 - 00:15:21:15
Speaker 2
I saw.

00:15:21:15 - 00:15:22:03
Speaker 3
The video.

00:15:22:16 - 00:15:23:17
Speaker 4
I can't watch the video.

00:15:23:17 - 00:15:24:13
Speaker 3
I did not watch the video.

00:15:24:13 - 00:15:25:01
Speaker 4
I can't watch it.

00:15:25:10 - 00:15:39:06
Speaker 3
And it was, and I usually don't, because it's very triggering. But to see something like that? So he's like in there in like the living room or something. Okay. And he comes in and I can barely hear there's audio to it, but you can barely hear it.

00:15:39:20 - 00:15:56:06
Speaker 3
She's just saying, like, I didn't do there or something. And he grabs her and rolls her in the TV and the TV falls on her. Yeah, and the baby their baby was, oh, maybe like maybe a few months is sitting on the couch and like a little, you know, like a little baby chair thing, you know?

00:15:56:19 - 00:16:13:27
Speaker 3
But the baby was on the couch watching this whole ordeal, babies to swaddle everything the baby can talk. But like, yeah, it just made my heart just sink because I'm like, Oh my goodness. When he threw her and the TV fell down, I was looking at his reaction to be like, Is he going to like because you

00:16:13:27 - 00:16:24:14
Speaker 3
could have killed her that way? You know, and he didn't really seem to be like, Oh my God, like, I can't believe I did that. No, he came back and still was like.

00:16:24:25 - 00:16:26:04
Speaker 4
He was still trying to do something.

00:16:26:06 - 00:16:27:27
Speaker 3
It was disgusting to see.

00:16:28:19 - 00:16:29:05
Speaker 2
Yeah.

00:16:29:27 - 00:16:38:21
Speaker 3
It's disgusting to see. I can't even believe that. That there are people out there that do stuff like that, like that's just mind blowing.

00:16:38:26 - 00:16:45:10
Speaker 4
Uh-Huh. Hmm. I believe that those types of people can change.

00:16:46:04 - 00:16:46:16
Speaker 2
Yeah.

00:16:46:25 - 00:16:53:24
Speaker 4
Like, I don't I don't really see any type of redeeming situations that will take place of him. Just what you described.

00:16:53:26 - 00:16:54:11
Speaker 3
Yeah, it was.

00:16:54:23 - 00:17:11:13
Speaker 4
Those people don't have any type of empathy for others. No, nothing. Because you would think to yourself that he would say, this woman just gave birth to my child and I should honor and respect this woman. And he chooses to do the opposite.

00:17:12:04 - 00:17:13:17
Speaker 4
So, yeah, no, no.

00:17:13:24 - 00:17:17:02
Speaker 3
I mean, the baby was literally in the room like it doesn't get any worse than that.

00:17:17:02 - 00:17:19:01
Speaker 4
And I'm sure that that's not the first time.

00:17:19:23 - 00:17:22:02
Speaker 3
Yes. Yeah, I think so. He's in jail. You got arrested.

00:17:22:02 - 00:17:28:21
Speaker 4
I think he got arrested. I don't know if he's out on bail. I don't know the details, but I'm happy that he got arrested because that's pure evil.

00:17:29:04 - 00:17:31:14
Speaker 3
It is evil. You know, men.

00:17:31:18 - 00:17:44:01
Speaker 4
Women keep your hands to yourself, especially men. You know why? Because women is never really ever going to win in that situation. You're much stronger. Hmm, OK. Is just biologically proven.

00:17:44:13 - 00:17:44:24
Speaker 3
Yeah.

00:17:45:04 - 00:17:46:19
Speaker 4
Keep your hands to yourself.

00:17:47:26 - 00:17:53:13
Speaker 3
Some else. So another story with that was a bronte's sister.

00:17:53:20 - 00:17:55:10
Speaker 4
Oh yeah, she went on Angie Martinez.

00:17:55:10 - 00:18:00:01
Speaker 3
She went on and she brought you to their sister and her mom. They were all on there talking about they.

00:18:00:01 - 00:18:00:20
Speaker 4
Going to watch that.

00:18:00:20 - 00:18:13:08
Speaker 3
Interview. Yeah, yeah. It was actually really touching to see what I got from it. The most is like how the family gets involved. When you're when you have a family member, that's going through something like that.

00:18:13:08 - 00:18:15:06
Speaker 4
Also, they explained, like, yeah, they got him.

00:18:15:07 - 00:18:15:27
Speaker 2
I don't.

00:18:15:27 - 00:18:16:13
Speaker 4
Have to watch.

00:18:16:13 - 00:18:28:02
Speaker 3
And it hurts. It affects everyone, you know, everyone. That's that's a tough situation. But if you guys haven't seen it, I would definitely check that one out because that was really heartfelt. And her story is is it's very interesting.

00:18:28:09 - 00:18:43:16
Speaker 4
Yeah, I remember I don't know how long ago it was, but I do follow Ashanti sister. And she posted like this video summarizing everything that took place, and it was just very heartbreaking, you know, to watch that she went through something like that.

00:18:43:16 - 00:18:58:21
Speaker 4
But I'm happy that she got out of it. Yeah, because a lot of women do not get all of it. I know. So for for her to get out of it, it's a great testimony for other women and I feel as though like once you get out of it, you'll realize that you're breathing so much better and

00:18:58:21 - 00:19:12:26
Speaker 4
your life, you know, you don't have that dead weight pulling on you. No one should be putting their hands on you at all, at all. You know, try to just just try. If it happens once, that's way too many.

00:19:12:26 - 00:19:17:03
Speaker 4
So definitely ghetto. Yeah, people say that they're going to change, and they don't.

00:19:17:17 - 00:19:19:29
Speaker 3
Remember that movie enough with Jennifer Lopez.

00:19:20:00 - 00:19:21:07
Speaker 4
I watched that so many times.

00:19:21:07 - 00:19:23:22
Speaker 2
I love them. That was a good man.

00:19:23:22 - 00:19:24:24
Speaker 4
That was such a good movie.

00:19:24:25 - 00:19:25:24
Speaker 3
We got to bring that back.

00:19:25:25 - 00:19:29:00
Speaker 2
I'm going to watch that again. The good one gives you the strength.

00:19:29:01 - 00:19:29:15
Speaker 4
I know.

00:19:29:16 - 00:19:32:04
Speaker 3
You know, I know she did. Good plan that out, boy.

00:19:32:17 - 00:19:34:19
Speaker 4
I'm going to watch that again. That was a good.

00:19:34:19 - 00:19:39:16
Speaker 3
Wasn't it a good one? I forgot about that one, but that's a that's a great one. That was a great movie. I would definitely watch it again.

00:19:39:16 - 00:19:49:14
Speaker 4
Yeah, but you know, once someone puts their hands on you, people there. No. And I mean, there's the cases like, you know, wasn't a fabulous and Emily. And they still together.

00:19:49:17 - 00:19:50:16
Speaker 2
Oh yes.

00:19:50:16 - 00:19:54:15
Speaker 4
And they seemed like they had some craziness. Something about her teeth got knocked out or whatever.

00:19:56:02 - 00:20:00:03
Speaker 3
I forgot about famine, Emily. And they, you know.

00:20:00:11 - 00:20:15:01
Speaker 4
He's he's seemingly changed based on what we're seeing online. But that's rare. I don't want to doubt that he's changed. I just personally don't think people change when they get to that point. No. So yeah.

00:20:16:01 - 00:20:21:03
Speaker 3
It's that one right out. Yeah. But good luck. You know, good luck, people out there. Stay safe.

00:20:21:17 - 00:20:24:14
Speaker 2
Watch enough what you watch that movie? Yeah.

00:20:24:24 - 00:20:25:25
Speaker 4
And get out the phones.

00:20:25:26 - 00:20:26:15
Speaker 3
Get out, get.

00:20:26:18 - 00:20:27:09
Speaker 4
Their hands on you.

00:20:27:10 - 00:20:29:18
Speaker 2
Absolutely. Well.

00:20:30:11 - 00:20:43:23
Speaker 3
I was wondering how. Yeah. And I did touched on this a little bit with the L.A. situation was just how family members. Like, what do you do? How do you handle that? You find out that somebody in your family is going through something like that.

00:20:44:16 - 00:20:50:26
Speaker 3
All you can do, I guess, is just be there for them, really, because it's like I try to convince them to leave. What else can you do?

00:20:51:11 - 00:20:53:15
Speaker 2
Um, you know.

00:20:54:05 - 00:20:59:22
Speaker 4
It. You just have to provide support. It's hard because I feel as though people are still going to do what they want to do.

00:20:59:23 - 00:21:00:05
Speaker 2
Yeah.

00:21:00:15 - 00:21:17:01
Speaker 4
So provide them support. Advise them that they you have resources to assist them. OK. Because I think sometimes people say, like, especially if they have kids, if they if they're not working, if they maybe think that they don't have somewhere to stay and just continue to encourage them and let them know, Hey, I can help you out

00:21:17:10 - 00:21:35:05
Speaker 4
. True. You know, but I think that. I think that what just helps is just a switch in the person's mind, OK, that he. I don't want to be doing this anymore, but I don't think that there's anyone who can convince someone to do something that they don't want, they want to do.

00:21:35:05 - 00:21:36:12
Speaker 3
Yeah, that's true.

00:21:36:19 - 00:21:38:01
Speaker 4
You can't physically remove them.

00:21:38:08 - 00:21:38:22
Speaker 3
I know.

00:21:39:21 - 00:21:48:26
Speaker 4
You know, I think it just is something that they're going to have to get to a point where they're like, I don't want to tolerate this therapy, I think helps a lot.

00:21:48:27 - 00:21:49:10
Speaker 2
True.

00:21:49:14 - 00:22:04:16
Speaker 4
I don't really like the whole couples therapy when there's abuse and stuff involved. No. Get therapy for yourself. Yeah. So that you can talk openly because when the abuser is there and you're doing therapy with that person, you're withholding.

00:22:05:19 - 00:22:19:10
Speaker 4
You're withholding. You're not telling the absolute truth because you are still in love if this person a you want this person to still be seen in a good light and you want the therapist to, you know? Yeah. So just try to figure out how she can fix both of you.

00:22:19:12 - 00:22:30:21
Speaker 4
But it's something that you have to deal with. And I think just finding that self-worth and understanding that you don't deserve to be treated poorly, no one deserves to be treated poorly. Yeah, right.

00:22:30:21 - 00:22:31:19
Speaker 2
So that's a.

00:22:31:19 - 00:22:33:09
Speaker 3
Great, great.

00:22:33:28 - 00:22:37:18
Speaker 4
Advice. But family, I just don't. I think it should be supportive.

00:22:37:20 - 00:22:41:06
Speaker 3
Just the support system, you know, you can do is just let them know that you're in their corner.

00:22:41:06 - 00:22:46:17
Speaker 4
I don't know what a Ashanti Sister's Family said that they did. I have to watch the interview.

00:22:46:18 - 00:22:47:24
Speaker 3
Yeah, we'll have to watch it again.

00:22:48:08 - 00:22:54:01
Speaker 4
Yeah, I don't know what they said, but I think that it just comes down to whether that person is ready to to do that, to do it.

00:22:54:02 - 00:23:06:11
Speaker 3
Do you think that? This upbringing matter, their upbringing matter in situations where it's the abuser or the person being abused, how they react to what's going on.

00:23:07:10 - 00:23:12:21
Speaker 4
I mean, I think upbringing factors into everything in life, right? Because we all come from somewhere.

00:23:12:24 - 00:23:13:05
Speaker 2
Yeah.

00:23:14:11 - 00:23:29:04
Speaker 4
But I don't necessarily believe that people who watched their parents abuse or be abused or whatever are going to abuse because I've seen it happen where they don't, right? But then there are some situations where they do.

00:23:29:23 - 00:23:30:29
Speaker 3
So it's tricky.

00:23:31:22 - 00:23:43:04
Speaker 4
I think it just comes down to you, actually. Not allowing your childhood experiences to take over as an adult and when we are adults, we really are responsible for our own actions.

00:23:43:05 - 00:23:43:24
Speaker 3
Yes, we are.

00:23:43:25 - 00:23:53:17
Speaker 4
We need to be accountable for what we do. You know, there are some men that I hear all, you know, you talk too much. So that's why I did that. You know, you talk too much. You got it.

00:23:53:18 - 00:24:03:28
Speaker 4
You got a reckless mouth. Oh, that's why I had a huh, you know, so-and-so and blah blah blah blah. My mouth has nothing to do with what you put in your hands. Yeah. I mean, what?

00:24:03:28 - 00:24:04:25
Speaker 3
That cost don't.

00:24:04:25 - 00:24:05:10
Speaker 2
Yeah.

00:24:05:12 - 00:24:07:15
Speaker 4
What did my mother come by?

00:24:07:15 - 00:24:08:17
Speaker 3
Try to try to make it work?

00:24:08:17 - 00:24:10:27
Speaker 2
No. My mouth because my my shoe and.

00:24:10:27 - 00:24:16:21
Speaker 4
Pick up your hands. What your hands are. Your hands. Be accountable for what.

00:24:16:29 - 00:24:22:28
Speaker 2
I just pictured. You like grabbing somebody and I mean grabbing somebody handling it. No, that's not how that works.

00:24:22:29 - 00:24:34:27
Speaker 4
That's not how it works. So in regards to family, I don't know. I I don't think it's it's a good excuse. I think it ties in, but I don't think it's a good excuse because we all have resources to to change childhood traumas.

00:24:35:10 - 00:24:45:16
Speaker 4
And some of us, you know, obviously have more resources than some. But I mean, most of us have phones. Most of us can go and follow self-help stuff on Instagram. If you don't have money to pay for therapists.

00:24:45:28 - 00:24:52:11
Speaker 4
You know there's resources that you can utilize these days. Like, I don't know medical. I don't know what any.

00:24:52:15 - 00:24:54:21
Speaker 3
Yeah, you have resources. They're there. Yeah.

00:24:55:09 - 00:25:00:19
Speaker 4
So and it all starts with the mind. If you want to be better, you just have to flip that switch. Yeah.

00:25:00:27 - 00:25:01:25
Speaker 2
Yeah, a bit.

00:25:02:08 - 00:25:04:16
Speaker 4
And and you can figure out how to be better.

00:25:04:17 - 00:25:08:00
Speaker 3
Absolutely. Yeah, I think some people can change. Some people cannot.

00:25:08:04 - 00:25:21:16
Speaker 4
And try not to get into relationships when you're not healed. Yeah, that's that's the issue. It's like you pass on your traumas to other people because you just want to get into a relationship just to see you in a relationship.

00:25:21:17 - 00:25:22:05
Speaker 2
Don't do that.

00:25:22:07 - 00:25:22:28
Speaker 4
Don't way.

00:25:22:29 - 00:25:24:13
Speaker 3
Don't do it. Be healed.

00:25:24:26 - 00:25:30:06
Speaker 4
And then get into relationships so you don't pass on all that bad energy, that bad juju to other people.

00:25:30:09 - 00:25:36:02
Speaker 2
That toxicity and word of the day toxicity. I get it.

00:25:36:22 - 00:25:38:07
Speaker 4
Yes. Yes. Yeah.

00:25:38:08 - 00:25:40:21
Speaker 3
So no, I think that.

00:25:40:21 - 00:25:46:05
Speaker 4
We I think we covered, you know, the craziness. But there were some other things that happened in celebrity land.

00:25:46:06 - 00:25:47:19
Speaker 3
Yes. Yes.

00:25:47:19 - 00:25:48:29
Speaker 2
So yeah.

00:25:49:05 - 00:25:50:21
Speaker 3
first up is.

00:25:50:26 - 00:25:51:16
Speaker 4
What Kim and.

00:25:51:17 - 00:25:51:27
Speaker 3
Kim.

00:25:52:03 - 00:25:54:20
Speaker 4
Compete. They need to be official.

00:25:55:15 - 00:25:58:27
Speaker 3
Did you see that interview with Kanye before you were?

00:25:59:12 - 00:26:01:27
Speaker 4
Yeah. Yeah, before they were official before. Yeah.

00:26:02:09 - 00:26:07:29
Speaker 3
And Kim and Kanye came out. Yeah. Sorry. Yeah. They came out and said, like.

00:26:08:23 - 00:26:10:21
Speaker 2
We just don't call you regarding his mom's.

00:26:10:21 - 00:26:11:11
Speaker 3
Name, Kowanyama.

00:26:11:12 - 00:26:12:04
Speaker 2
Amikam Kanye.

00:26:13:05 - 00:26:24:15
Speaker 3
But he said that like, we're still married. Like, they're still, you know, we're still married. Like, but still it's like, OK, but she can still move on from you. That doesn't mean isn't there.

00:26:24:24 - 00:26:25:23
Speaker 4
Kim has moved on.

00:26:25:24 - 00:26:27:20
Speaker 2
She has moved on. She has.

00:26:27:20 - 00:26:28:24
Speaker 3
Moved on. You know, Kim.

00:26:28:24 - 00:26:32:20
Speaker 4
Is Kim is no longer wants in you. Yes. Yeah, no.

00:26:32:28 - 00:26:33:19
Speaker 2
That's she.

00:26:33:22 - 00:26:47:18
Speaker 4
She was a very good wife in my eyes. I thought so too for a very long time. And he disrespected the heck out of her. I have not recalled a time that Kim has disrespected Kanye publicly, and I don't know what happens behind doors.

00:26:48:01 - 00:26:49:15
Speaker 4
But I cannot recall a time.

00:26:49:15 - 00:26:51:08
Speaker 3
She's very supportive, very supportive.

00:26:51:09 - 00:26:56:20
Speaker 4
Even now, she's still supportive, I feel. So, yeah, I think that ship has sailed.

00:26:56:21 - 00:26:58:08
Speaker 2
Q Do you do you remember.

00:26:58:08 - 00:27:04:23
Speaker 3
That one clip when she was like, going to kiss them and she was like giving a kissy face and he was just smiling at the camera and like.

00:27:05:05 - 00:27:07:01
Speaker 2
She kind of had to like, go up to him and like, give.

00:27:07:01 - 00:27:09:00
Speaker 3
Them a kiss on the cheek, like, hello, like.

00:27:09:04 - 00:27:14:25
Speaker 2
Give me a kiss. Oh, that's terrible. He spoke this on the camera focused on himself. Yes.

00:27:14:25 - 00:27:15:18
Speaker 4
Yeah, no.

00:27:15:19 - 00:27:16:18
Speaker 3
I'm like, Oh.

00:27:16:18 - 00:27:17:02
Speaker 2
Man.

00:27:17:02 - 00:27:21:26
Speaker 4
I'm happy that she's moved on. I kind of think this thing is a little toy boy situation.

00:27:21:26 - 00:27:23:00
Speaker 3
Yeah, yeah.

00:27:23:00 - 00:27:26:17
Speaker 4
He's 28 and she's 41. That's a large gap.

00:27:27:21 - 00:27:28:16
Speaker 2
That is a large.

00:27:28:24 - 00:27:36:19
Speaker 4
Large gap. I think that this is a rebound. OK. And Pete, I want you to really caution yourself because you were hurt when Ariana Grande they broke up with you.

00:27:36:25 - 00:27:39:03
Speaker 2
Yeah, he was. You were very hurt.

00:27:39:12 - 00:27:44:17
Speaker 4
You have seem to be very sensitive. And I know you're probably feeling yourself like I got kicked.

00:27:45:13 - 00:27:46:04
Speaker 2
You know, but I.

00:27:46:04 - 00:27:49:26
Speaker 4
Want you that cost to yourself. For that heartbreak, for that heart was.

00:27:49:26 - 00:27:50:08
Speaker 3
Coming.

00:27:50:09 - 00:28:00:13
Speaker 2
But sorry to see, you know. You know, and I'm like, what?

00:28:00:13 - 00:28:01:26
Speaker 3
What does she want with?

00:28:01:26 - 00:28:02:21
Speaker 4
It's a toyboy.

00:28:02:22 - 00:28:03:12
Speaker 2
With him, got.

00:28:03:13 - 00:28:05:01
Speaker 4
The energy, I'm sure.

00:28:05:01 - 00:28:05:23
Speaker 3
Know what he got.

00:28:05:28 - 00:28:07:02
Speaker 2
He got, you know.

00:28:07:28 - 00:28:10:27
Speaker 4
So that young boy situation.

00:28:11:05 - 00:28:11:22
Speaker 2
Yeah.

00:28:12:17 - 00:28:13:25
Speaker 3
We'll see how that turns.

00:28:13:25 - 00:28:14:06
Speaker 2
Out.

00:28:14:10 - 00:28:16:22
Speaker 4
Because because you might not have had as much stamina.

00:28:17:12 - 00:28:19:25
Speaker 3
I feel like he probably would be all over the place.

00:28:19:25 - 00:28:22:02
Speaker 2
With that sloppy, selfish.

00:28:24:04 - 00:28:27:18
Speaker 4
Selfish but you know, pity ego.

00:28:27:29 - 00:28:28:21
Speaker 2
You know, look up.

00:28:28:21 - 00:28:30:08
Speaker 4
On all her body, I can tell. Do you.

00:28:30:08 - 00:28:31:17
Speaker 2
Ever remember that story with.

00:28:31:17 - 00:28:45:18
Speaker 3
Kenya seeing how she went to Connie's house once for a date like years ago? Vaguely. She went to the house and like he had like corn playing on like the scales and stuff like that. Like, ever since then, I was like.

00:28:45:18 - 00:28:49:09
Speaker 2
He seems odd. I'm an odd duck.

00:28:49:23 - 00:28:51:02
Speaker 4
Put on porn when I come.

00:28:51:02 - 00:28:53:14
Speaker 2
Over. I know what is wrong with, you know.

00:28:53:23 - 00:28:54:14
Speaker 3
Thinking I.

00:28:54:14 - 00:28:55:03
Speaker 2
Am.

00:28:55:03 - 00:28:56:09
Speaker 4
So disgusting.

00:28:57:00 - 00:29:02:23
Speaker 3
No, I would have ran out of there. I would have ran out of there and I would have felt so disrespected. Like, What do you think I am?

00:29:03:08 - 00:29:08:28
Speaker 4
That is weird. He's he probably think he was set in the mood. I don't know. I don't watch porn anyways.

00:29:08:28 - 00:29:11:01
Speaker 2
So it's not a it's not, you know.

00:29:11:01 - 00:29:15:00
Speaker 4
I used to, but I don't. You don't do it. Now it makes me feel funny.

00:29:16:06 - 00:29:24:11
Speaker 2
This makes me feel gross. We don't want to go gross. Yeah, I put a stop to this. I want nothing.

00:29:24:11 - 00:29:25:13
Speaker 4
That makes me feel.

00:29:25:21 - 00:29:28:01
Speaker 2
Growers. Yes. So totally.

00:29:28:01 - 00:29:38:19
Speaker 4
Get it. And then when you look at the behind the scenes stuff, like when you research some of these people and they don't want to be doing, some of them don't want to do that. And it makes me weird watching them.

00:29:38:19 - 00:29:49:19
Speaker 4
Some of them, like, you know, are doing it for four reasons because they can't, you know, they can't maybe get another job or they're for, Oh, yeah, yeah. And I just I just don't want to be part of it.

00:29:49:19 - 00:29:54:06
Speaker 4
The the unknown of way that person is doing that, I just don't want to be.

00:29:54:11 - 00:29:55:13
Speaker 3
That is so true.

00:29:55:17 - 00:29:58:06
Speaker 4
It's so, so true. Yeah. But yeah, Kanye, stop that.

00:29:58:29 - 00:30:04:17
Speaker 2
That's gross. That's nasty. Next on our.

00:30:04:17 - 00:30:05:01
Speaker 4
List.

00:30:05:01 - 00:30:06:13
Speaker 2
Is Tammy.

00:30:07:03 - 00:30:08:28
Speaker 4
Oh, Tammy, maybe Ramone.

00:30:08:28 - 00:30:13:05
Speaker 3
Yeah, Roman. Tammy. Yeah, Tammy Tammy in Tammy.

00:30:13:05 - 00:30:20:25
Speaker 4
And she was on basketball. What was she on basketball? Stephanie, she's on basketball. And Reggie Reggie is a basketball player.

00:30:21:04 - 00:30:29:16
Speaker 2
Mm hmm. Is he? Well, he's an athlete. He is an athlete. He is an athlete as an athlete.

00:30:29:25 - 00:30:31:08
Speaker 4
And she went on.

00:30:31:09 - 00:30:33:28
Speaker 3
She went on and said, Oh no, no.

00:30:34:19 - 00:30:40:16
Speaker 2
You see what? The real, the real, the real. And said, How, how old?

00:30:41:07 - 00:30:44:02
Speaker 3
How, what is there? There's an age difference with them, too.

00:30:44:02 - 00:30:46:04
Speaker 4
There is an age difference, I don't know. So I don't.

00:30:46:04 - 00:31:02:10
Speaker 3
Know. I don't know the age difference with them yet. But she basically told him, like, if you want to have a baby, you can find somebody to to do that with. And then after you have the baby, you can come back to me and we will be together and I'm like, Wait, no.

00:31:02:25 - 00:31:06:10
Speaker 3
So but she didn't mean it like a surrogate. She meant, like.

00:31:06:16 - 00:31:06:28
Speaker 2
You could say.

00:31:07:06 - 00:31:17:25
Speaker 4
She doesn't want a surrogate. It seems as though she doesn't want to be. Like a mother? Yeah, any more so she says she's focused on her career and things are happening in her career, that's like.

00:31:18:06 - 00:31:23:25
Speaker 3
How's that going to work, though? It's like, How are you going to have a baby with somebody but then not want to play that role if he has a baby?

00:31:24:06 - 00:31:25:22
Speaker 4
She probably just wants to be like stepmom.

00:31:27:09 - 00:31:36:02
Speaker 3
That is insane. But even a step mom, you have a lot of response. That's why I'm like Tammy, you still have a lot of responsibilities if you're going to let him go, have a baby.

00:31:36:27 - 00:31:46:15
Speaker 4
She has to be real secure in that relationship to let him go. And even considered to do that, yeah, it would not work for me.

00:31:46:16 - 00:31:47:21
Speaker 3
It would not work for me either.

00:31:47:22 - 00:31:51:12
Speaker 4
I feel as though there's another alternative. Yeah.

00:31:51:13 - 00:31:53:15
Speaker 2
Besides that, Matt.

00:31:53:18 - 00:31:54:14
Speaker 4
You got the ages.

00:31:56:24 - 00:32:01:27
Speaker 3
17 year gap between those two. Oh, and if.

00:32:02:05 - 00:32:07:02
Speaker 4
He's still in, he's the limit. OK, well, that's fine, but so that's what is that? Is that football?

00:32:07:11 - 00:32:13:26
Speaker 2
Yeah, yeah. I don't know. I'm like, You know it, those are the basics, and I got it. Listen to New Orleans Saints.

00:32:13:26 - 00:32:15:17
Speaker 3
I got to. I got to both of them up.

00:32:15:26 - 00:32:16:19
Speaker 4
OK. Okay.

00:32:16:19 - 00:32:18:15
Speaker 3
That's where my my, you know.

00:32:18:23 - 00:32:21:24
Speaker 2
Mine is from. So there we go.

00:32:22:07 - 00:32:25:24
Speaker 3
But yeah, I just kind of feel like that's a really weird situation.

00:32:25:25 - 00:32:39:17
Speaker 4
That's a large social. So I think that what she's probably doing is that he's probably he she probably recognizes that he wants a child of his own. And she has been honest with herself that she's not willing to put in the work as a mother.

00:32:39:26 - 00:32:43:02
Speaker 3
But I don't know what worse she's thinking. She's not going to have to put in if he has a baby.

00:32:43:10 - 00:32:47:00
Speaker 4
A step mother don't have to do as much work as a full time mother.

00:32:47:11 - 00:32:49:21
Speaker 3
So it's like, where's the baby going to stay with him, with the mom?

00:32:50:05 - 00:32:56:14
Speaker 4
The baby's going to stay probably with the mother and then come over, you know, they're probably going to work out some type of arrangement before.

00:32:56:22 - 00:32:57:07
Speaker 2
So like, you're.

00:32:57:07 - 00:32:58:24
Speaker 3
Willingly creating a broken home.

00:33:01:05 - 00:33:02:02
Speaker 2
Let's do this.

00:33:04:20 - 00:33:05:29
Speaker 4
You know, it could work, though.

00:33:06:13 - 00:33:07:13
Speaker 3
No, it can't.

00:33:07:29 - 00:33:10:08
Speaker 4
The more I talk about it, I'm kind of thinking it might.

00:33:10:08 - 00:33:11:01
Speaker 2
It could work.

00:33:11:24 - 00:33:13:00
Speaker 3
Oh my goodness. Think about it.

00:33:13:05 - 00:33:29:05
Speaker 4
But there are some people who like, for instance. So women who don't have a man, yeah, and they have like a gay friend or a friend that is like, yeah, you know, he might not be gay, but we just we just friends, okay?

00:33:29:12 - 00:33:44:26
Speaker 4
And they have worked out deals where they have babies. True. And they have gone and had relationships with other people. But because there's not that emotional tie. Right? Of, yeah, we've been together before, and it might actually work out.

00:33:45:14 - 00:33:48:13
Speaker 4
We're going to see there's multiple types of families that are.

00:33:48:13 - 00:33:54:20
Speaker 3
There are there are. I just feel like that's that one's just a little bit interesting because I know she still loves him and he still loves her.

00:33:54:20 - 00:34:04:07
Speaker 4
I think what's where she went wrong as she said, You can have two years or something. There are some weird something like that. There was something about two years that made it seem as if he would be in a relationship with the person.

00:34:04:23 - 00:34:17:12
Speaker 4
But no, I think that if they came to some type of agreement where, you know, this person, this we want to create a life. I don't have any type of emotional ties to you. I don't want to be with you.

00:34:18:00 - 00:34:36:09
Speaker 4
And here's the kind of schedule we can do a graduate in schedule where when the baby's less than a year, you know, the baby will obviously primarily would be with the mother, OK, because, you know, maybe breastfeeding and that type of stuff is happening, and then we can talk about when we'll like to move on to overnights

00:34:36:16 - 00:34:37:07
Speaker 2
. I think I.

00:34:37:07 - 00:34:38:15
Speaker 4
Actually think it could work.

00:34:39:03 - 00:34:41:25
Speaker 3
We'll see. We'll see. Time will tell.

00:34:41:26 - 00:34:43:15
Speaker 4
At first, I was like, No, it can't work.

00:34:43:16 - 00:34:58:07
Speaker 3
And people, people change up like, OK, here's the thing when you are with your man, right? OK, you guys trust each other. You guys have your own dynamic going on when you bring in a third party. You have a miracle with that person that long.

00:34:58:15 - 00:35:16:19
Speaker 4
That's why I think that they. The the whole talking about two years, she's given him two years to go find someone, that part threw me off. If it was more of like a kind of a I don't want to say business transaction, but similar to that, I think it would work where you know, that person has their

00:35:16:19 - 00:35:22:20
Speaker 4
own life, they have their own life. You know, there are some surrogates and stuff that stay in the lives of.

00:35:23:15 - 00:35:24:24
Speaker 3
Remember, Candy wanted.

00:35:24:24 - 00:35:26:11
Speaker 2
To keep remember.

00:35:26:11 - 00:35:29:02
Speaker 4
Yeah, there are some people who stay in the, Yeah, I'm at work.

00:35:29:02 - 00:35:30:20
Speaker 3
And it works. But the way.

00:35:30:22 - 00:35:40:06
Speaker 4
Option to, you know, some some Adobe, some some individuals who give up their baby for adoption is open adoption. Yep, and there. But you have to set those parameters before the child is born.

00:35:40:07 - 00:35:45:02
Speaker 3
Right? And if you're going to allow him to have sex with somebody else like that.

00:35:45:20 - 00:35:52:26
Speaker 4
That's where I left. That was the confusing part. No, you ain't having sex. You don't go and you going do the whole thingy thing.

00:35:53:09 - 00:35:56:20
Speaker 3
I'm saying like, they should it. Suited and booted.

00:35:56:26 - 00:36:04:29
Speaker 4
It looks like a like a turkey, the you know? Yeah, well, yeah, that's that's the best way.

00:36:05:00 - 00:36:08:00
Speaker 3
That's the best way. But you know, I could see her being like, Go ahead.

00:36:08:04 - 00:36:15:25
Speaker 2
Go ahead. There were there. No. We'll see. No, no, no. No. Let's see how that works out. Yes.

00:36:16:04 - 00:36:17:14
Speaker 4
So I think we've talked we talked.

00:36:17:17 - 00:36:17:29
Speaker 2
A lot.

00:36:17:29 - 00:36:19:06
Speaker 4
About our celebrity.

00:36:19:07 - 00:36:20:01
Speaker 2
Yes.

00:36:20:05 - 00:36:21:00
Speaker 4
So we can move on.

00:36:21:13 - 00:36:22:20
Speaker 3
We did. We did.

00:36:23:01 - 00:36:27:25
Speaker 2
Now go it enough and we have our.

00:36:28:28 - 00:36:38:01
Speaker 4
Friendsgiving, yes, so Thanksgiving is coming up, and we wanted to do a Friendsgiving activity. Yes, to support.

00:36:38:20 - 00:36:40:21
Speaker 3
Yes and celebrate and celebrate.

00:36:41:09 - 00:36:43:10
Speaker 4
But as a friend, as friends.

00:36:44:05 - 00:36:44:23
Speaker 2
All of us.

00:36:45:01 - 00:36:58:20
Speaker 4
And we just, you know, we just thought it will be kind of thoughtful to just get something for everyone. And I have known Stephanie. Also, Stephanie? Guys, you've heard her name? Yes. Stephanie and Dominique around the same time, I think I met.

00:36:59:07 - 00:37:01:08
Speaker 4
Mm-Hmm. No. I think I met Stephanie first.

00:37:01:09 - 00:37:02:04
Speaker 3
I think you did, too.

00:37:02:08 - 00:37:06:17
Speaker 4
I think I met Stephanie first. I was 16, but I still met you when I was 16, too.

00:37:06:18 - 00:37:07:10
Speaker 3
OK, well, yes.

00:37:07:15 - 00:37:16:18
Speaker 4
But I think that it was just a couple of months after I met Stephanie. Yeah. And you know, they both have been in my life for a very, very long time and have supported me in very trained situations, and.

00:37:17:14 - 00:37:17:25
Speaker 2
It's just.

00:37:17:25 - 00:37:18:24
Speaker 4
Been very lovely.

00:37:18:25 - 00:37:19:28
Speaker 3
It's been so lovely.

00:37:19:28 - 00:37:33:25
Speaker 4
To have to have you both, honestly in my life. Oh wow, you guys. No, no. Seriously, you guys know like my ex, especially Dominique, a moment in my life, like my deepest secrets and stuff, Stephanie now knows. Yeah, most of them.

00:37:34:02 - 00:37:37:17
Speaker 2
Absolutely, absolutely. But I didn't. You know, I didn't share some things.

00:37:37:17 - 00:37:42:03
Speaker 4
With Stephanie at the time, but I shared with Dominique. But now Stephanie knows. Yeah, but you know.

00:37:42:07 - 00:37:42:18
Speaker 3
Come full.

00:37:42:18 - 00:37:45:00
Speaker 4
Circle, full circle. But definitely, have.

00:37:45:28 - 00:37:48:03
Speaker 3
You got in their system over here? For me.

00:37:49:20 - 00:37:51:29
Speaker 2
The gap's yummy as her friends are for.

00:37:51:29 - 00:38:02:07
Speaker 4
Exactly so who? Who wants to go first? Want to give Stephanie her gift first? Yeah, that's her gift. Yeah, we're open it on camera. We are.

00:38:02:14 - 00:38:04:00
Speaker 2
Yeah, why not? She can open.

00:38:04:00 - 00:38:05:08
Speaker 3
It. She can open her gift.

00:38:05:16 - 00:38:10:24
Speaker 4
She wants to open it. How she can see it. No one going to see it. Oh yeah, you open.

00:38:10:24 - 00:38:16:24
Speaker 2
It for her. OK, OK. 00, it's heavy. Yes.

00:38:17:05 - 00:38:21:16
Speaker 4
I guess you guys will hear there's probably going to hear about how eye is open again.

00:38:21:25 - 00:38:23:19
Speaker 2
Who? I love opening here.

00:38:26:18 - 00:38:28:25
Speaker 4
I love you. So this is Stephanie.

00:38:28:27 - 00:38:37:00
Speaker 2
Oh girl. And she likes it. So can they see it? Yes.

00:38:38:03 - 00:38:59:01
Speaker 4
Zip it like this that way. This. Is the. Well, it is a light, luxury led makeup kit being nice. So one time when Stephanie came over, I have one and she used it to put on makeup and Stephanie was like, Where did you get this from?

00:38:59:11 - 00:39:04:04
Speaker 4
And I couldn't find the one that I got. So I. So Dominique and I got a better one.

00:39:05:28 - 00:39:06:17
Speaker 2
Oh, is.

00:39:06:22 - 00:39:08:00
Speaker 4
Nice. Yes.

00:39:08:06 - 00:39:13:09
Speaker 2
Oh, yay. Yeah. Yeah, absolutely.

00:39:13:10 - 00:39:14:01
Speaker 4
Thank you for.

00:39:14:03 - 00:39:38:11
Speaker 2
Thank you for being free. Travel by road and back again. Hey, hey. It's true you're repelling a copperhead on travel. You do it through a pot. It and everybody. Everyone you knew. Hey, hey, hey, look, you will be the.

00:39:38:11 - 00:39:40:02
Speaker 4
Biggest thing for.

00:39:40:02 - 00:39:50:09
Speaker 2
Me. For me. That's a remix. Yeah, I love it. Thank you for being a friend, but Iranian here and there.

00:39:51:04 - 00:39:53:04
Speaker 3
All right. What? I don't know the lyrics. I'm her backup.

00:39:53:04 - 00:39:57:21
Speaker 2
Dancer and is effects. Yes. OK, Golden Girls. Yes.

00:39:58:01 - 00:40:02:20
Speaker 4
So who wants to go next? Do you want to go next? You when you go here?

00:40:02:22 - 00:40:03:18
Speaker 3
Let me give you yours.

00:40:03:21 - 00:40:04:21
Speaker 4
Oh, OK, yes, yes, I'm.

00:40:04:21 - 00:40:26:22
Speaker 2
Going to give you yours. I'm nervous about anything. Yay. Yes. What do you mean, why? Why did I think that said Christmas? Yes. But when you buy stuff now, when you buy things now, it's already says Christmas. It already says it so that it's a Christmas.

00:40:27:00 - 00:40:27:24
Speaker 3
Wrapping gifts and.

00:40:28:21 - 00:40:42:24
Speaker 2
That's how I do. That's how I do that. Did you write this, though? Yes. I mean, yes, sure did. Wait, how do I so excited? Wow.

00:40:43:08 - 00:40:44:27
Speaker 4
And Dominique also gave us these.

00:40:45:27 - 00:41:10:23
Speaker 2
Oh yeah, these little mugs. These all. Yes, thank you. The water is still cold, honey. That's right. It's Christmastime. No, no, no. Open it. It's Christmas. I'm happy to tell you I'll be nervous about anything because it says Christmas will open it.

00:41:11:14 - 00:41:34:23
Speaker 2
I got to open the box. Oh, my God. Hello. Well, what is? Oh, they're bombs for my bathtub, yes, girl. They smell so.

00:41:34:23 - 00:41:36:06
Speaker 4
Laughter, but I'll take.

00:41:37:02 - 00:41:37:15
Speaker 2
You in.

00:41:37:15 - 00:41:39:17
Speaker 3
There. Thank you. Don't know if you want a soft landing.

00:41:39:28 - 00:41:49:28
Speaker 4
I have. What I have, what kind of I have that would be blowing the bubbles. Jet, I have a jet, OK.

00:41:50:08 - 00:41:53:05
Speaker 2
She's a really, really nice type of a jet. And that's what.

00:41:53:07 - 00:41:55:29
Speaker 3
I think of you because I was like, I know she's probably going to use this. Yes.

00:41:55:29 - 00:41:57:16
Speaker 4
Oh, I will use it for Christmas.

00:41:57:20 - 00:42:26:02
Speaker 2
There you go. It's allowed either as long as, oh, black. Okay, let's see, what does it say at the top? Fit for the Greens. Greens. OK, let's see. Just for you. Long live the Queen. Oh, can I read.

00:42:26:02 - 00:42:26:10
Speaker 3
This or.

00:42:26:10 - 00:42:28:17
Speaker 2
No, it's up to you. I don't know whether I can remember what.

00:42:28:17 - 00:42:32:04
Speaker 3
My fellow queen of a feather like, but cheeks.

00:42:32:04 - 00:42:49:19
Speaker 2
Forever. I said, What what? Thank you for being an amazing friend and confidant. Love you long time. That was like a song. It totally was. Read like a song, boy. Oh, look, OK. I like the little stuff. Oh, this is cute.

00:42:50:18 - 00:42:50:25
Speaker 2
This is.

00:42:50:25 - 00:42:51:14
Speaker 3
Just all kind of.

00:42:51:14 - 00:42:53:15
Speaker 2
Goofy. Has like a little. I don't know if.

00:42:53:26 - 00:42:55:15
Speaker 4
I was like this little bag.

00:42:55:16 - 00:42:57:10
Speaker 3
And a candle. You know, I love a good candle.

00:42:57:10 - 00:43:00:17
Speaker 4
Boy has a little character. I love a good candle.

00:43:00:20 - 00:43:06:16
Speaker 2
Make-A-Wish mega rich Coney Island counts five.

00:43:07:15 - 00:43:08:25
Speaker 4
That's the one we sang last time.

00:43:09:06 - 00:43:25:28
Speaker 2
Oh, that's our song. No. Oh, oh no. That's take me there. I want to go there. Oh, this is cute. It's a fall queen bee. You get the adoring DeAndre. I almost got you something like that. I really did, too.

00:43:26:15 - 00:43:27:09
Speaker 2
Oh, and I got.

00:43:27:10 - 00:43:29:11
Speaker 3
Listen, I got her something else.

00:43:29:11 - 00:43:30:02
Speaker 4
Some earrings.

00:43:30:17 - 00:43:33:29
Speaker 2
Their feathers get in the feathers.

00:43:33:29 - 00:43:35:03
Speaker 3
Yeah, she got their eggs.

00:43:35:05 - 00:43:36:08
Speaker 4
Yeah. What is this?

00:43:36:09 - 00:43:47:27
Speaker 2
If you want to, you could just say what it is. Oh, it's about bumps to tell you. We literally almost have the same gift for each other. And this is a present a mug. Oh, it's a mug. OK.

00:43:48:29 - 00:43:54:02
Speaker 4
There's a there's a bunch of other stuff under there, so yeah, so you'll have to look at it. You know, when you get.

00:43:54:07 - 00:43:55:27
Speaker 3
I'm a look at it. But I love.

00:43:56:03 - 00:43:58:13
Speaker 4
Has like this thing that you can put on the top. It's like a.

00:43:58:13 - 00:44:13:12
Speaker 2
Crown. Oh, that's cute. Yes. Yo, I I literally almost got the same. Yes, because I saw I was looking at clean stuff, feathers stuff, and I saw that. Oh yeah, that's so funny.

00:44:13:18 - 00:44:14:25
Speaker 3
That's but I love it. Thank you so.

00:44:14:25 - 00:44:17:01
Speaker 2
Much. I adore.

00:44:17:02 - 00:44:20:03
Speaker 3
It. I adore it so much. So yes.

00:44:20:04 - 00:44:22:29
Speaker 4
Oh, we have. We have some more stuff. Stephanie got us some stuff.

00:44:22:29 - 00:44:24:08
Speaker 2
Yeah, yeah.

00:44:24:08 - 00:44:26:23
Speaker 4
Thank you, Stephanie. So Stephanie gave.

00:44:26:23 - 00:44:54:29
Speaker 2
Us. Is Alan, don't being nervous five, six, 78. Oh, sweet love, that sounds so sweet, love. Oh, it's cute. Oh. This is my baby. I know she might not want to. You might know on this show, oh my goodness, I love it so much.

00:44:54:29 - 00:45:00:28
Speaker 2
She might not want to show the let me say some 70. Give the best customized.

00:45:01:06 - 00:45:09:04
Speaker 3
Everything you saw books you saw. Look, I don't want to. You saw this. You know what it is. This came from somebody that's new.

00:45:09:04 - 00:45:18:15
Speaker 2
It was like, Send me pictures. Oh my God, it's so cute. I went on, you know, who was yeah, page, I thought the picture, you got the pictures from there. Oh, Stephanie, this is Sophia.

00:45:19:03 - 00:45:24:11
Speaker 4
Can I read it? I love this. We got to get it. We need to take some more pictures together.

00:45:24:11 - 00:45:24:29
Speaker 2
Yeah, we do.

00:45:25:14 - 00:45:27:28
Speaker 4
The pictures we have are very explicit.

00:45:27:29 - 00:45:29:04
Speaker 2
Oh, this is beautiful.

00:45:29:17 - 00:45:40:08
Speaker 4
Thank you for the laughter, for all the fun we shared. Thanks are always caring and knowing what to say. Thanks for being a friend in such a special. This is to remind you, I am here for you always.

00:45:40:12 - 00:45:41:29
Speaker 4
We will face life together. We are best.

00:45:41:29 - 00:45:44:03
Speaker 2
Friends. Oh, I.

00:45:44:03 - 00:45:45:07
Speaker 3
Love that so.

00:45:45:07 - 00:45:49:01
Speaker 2
Much. Thank you so much. I love this.

00:45:49:01 - 00:45:49:16
Speaker 3
City.

00:45:50:07 - 00:45:52:05
Speaker 4
This is we need to do this often.

00:45:54:01 - 00:45:58:09
Speaker 2
This is so much fun this every time. And I got a candle. I love my.

00:45:58:10 - 00:46:01:29
Speaker 3
Kid. I love it. I love a good candle. Well, I do.

00:46:02:23 - 00:46:14:07
Speaker 2
Oh, and open it, but. Oh, open it, open it. Oh, you. I thought you're going to put the one who first.

00:46:14:07 - 00:46:15:06
Speaker 4
Put the middle finger.

00:46:15:25 - 00:46:19:01
Speaker 2
At. We read it that way.

00:46:19:17 - 00:46:22:17
Speaker 4
My friendship is like a candle. Forget me and I'll burn down.

00:46:22:17 - 00:46:23:22
Speaker 2
Your damn house. Yo.

00:46:26:19 - 00:46:29:21
Speaker 3
If that ain't the realest thing I've ever read, though.

00:46:30:12 - 00:46:33:25
Speaker 2
Yo, that's kind of scary, go from Stephanie. Yes, I would believe it.

00:46:33:26 - 00:46:34:24
Speaker 3
Yeah, she means that.

00:46:35:00 - 00:46:51:24
Speaker 2
She means that I actually think, you know, yeah, it gets real. Stop talking. That's real. Yeah, that's a real quote. That's kind of scary, Stephanie, you know? So try it because I believe it. Don't doubt. Don't doubt. Yes.

00:46:52:00 - 00:46:54:00
Speaker 2
Oh, I love it. Wow.

00:46:54:17 - 00:46:57:14
Speaker 4
My mom is going to hear it. And she was like, That's definitely Stephanie.

00:46:57:15 - 00:47:00:21
Speaker 2
Yeah. You did good. We are all stuck.

00:47:00:21 - 00:47:02:00
Speaker 4
Together for life. You did.

00:47:02:00 - 00:47:06:21
Speaker 2
So good. She did. I loved both of you guys will house.

00:47:07:12 - 00:47:11:21
Speaker 3
But I love the house they have.

00:47:11:21 - 00:47:17:18
Speaker 4
They have like furniture and stuff. I think I got some of my outside stuff from Open House.

00:47:17:19 - 00:47:20:07
Speaker 3
OK, well, well, hey, open house.

00:47:20:08 - 00:47:22:11
Speaker 4
Give me some stuff. Yeah, I love it.

00:47:22:12 - 00:47:23:08
Speaker 3
We will review it on the.

00:47:23:08 - 00:47:27:21
Speaker 2
Podcast once you send it. Yeah, so send it tonight. Oh.

00:47:28:01 - 00:47:30:14
Speaker 3
I love it. I love. Oh, so much fun.

00:47:30:15 - 00:47:32:17
Speaker 2
Thank you, guys. So.

00:47:33:00 - 00:47:34:17
Speaker 4
We also wanted to do.

00:47:36:22 - 00:47:36:26
Speaker 2
Yeah.

00:47:37:08 - 00:47:53:11
Speaker 4
A little. OK, let me show them the box first. This is a friend's edition. I don't know if they can see it, but this is a frenzied action from the skinny, and it's a game that I thought will be kind of cool for us to do and we can shuffle.

00:47:53:12 - 00:48:06:20
Speaker 4
Let me read it first. It says, sit facing one another. We don't have to fit with a foot of distance between you and choose twelve random cards. We don't have to do twelve from the deck. Take 30 seconds to relax and look at one another.

00:48:11:11 - 00:48:26:12
Speaker 4
Person one begins by asking person to answers their question, person one begins by asking, and then you answer the question. OK, continue back and forth. OK, so I'm going to just shuffle. And just to give you an example of one, what is it about me that makes you think I understand you?

00:48:27:00 - 00:48:27:27
Speaker 4
So these are deep.

00:48:27:29 - 00:48:29:06
Speaker 3
These are cute. Yeah, I like these.

00:48:30:04 - 00:48:35:03
Speaker 2
OK. Yes. Oh, daddy, skin deep.

00:48:35:11 - 00:48:36:01
Speaker 3
Collodion.

00:48:36:13 - 00:48:39:06
Speaker 4
I've never. I made that up. So, Nick, give me my money.

00:48:40:26 - 00:48:47:14
Speaker 2
And that's. Nick, give me my money. Oh, my goodness. Okay.

00:48:47:24 - 00:48:49:17
Speaker 4
I don't know. I'm not good at shoveling.

00:48:50:10 - 00:48:53:20
Speaker 2
You look like you. Yeah, girl. All right.

00:48:54:02 - 00:48:55:12
Speaker 4
So you want to just pick?

00:48:55:17 - 00:49:00:23
Speaker 2
Yeah. Oh, OK. Now you know what? You fallen off now. I don't know what happened with bubble boom.

00:49:01:11 - 00:49:06:19
Speaker 3
Here she go. OK. What drives our relationship?

00:49:07:00 - 00:49:09:20
Speaker 4
I think what drives our relationship is.

00:49:11:17 - 00:49:12:09
Speaker 2
It's a good question.

00:49:12:10 - 00:49:12:29
Speaker 4
Music.

00:49:13:11 - 00:49:14:10
Speaker 2
Yes.

00:49:14:23 - 00:49:19:06
Speaker 4
Creativity being funny and just genuinely being loyal to each other.

00:49:19:07 - 00:49:21:20
Speaker 2
Hmm. Mm hmm. And you.

00:49:21:20 - 00:49:23:02
Speaker 4
Pretty much know everything about.

00:49:23:03 - 00:49:24:09
Speaker 3
Yeah, pretty much, yeah.

00:49:24:09 - 00:49:25:23
Speaker 4
And for a long time, you know.

00:49:26:02 - 00:49:27:00
Speaker 3
It's longevity.

00:49:27:01 - 00:49:27:26
Speaker 4
Longevity.

00:49:28:06 - 00:49:32:25
Speaker 2
That helps. Well, tell me.

00:49:33:07 - 00:49:37:15
Speaker 4
When was the last time you considered ending this relationship and why didn't you?

00:49:38:11 - 00:49:53:02
Speaker 3
When was the last time I considered ending our relationship? Yes. I don't think I've ever considered ending it. I think that we've had open and closed doors. Yes, but it's proven to be like one of those doors that sway back and forth.

00:49:53:09 - 00:49:55:28
Speaker 2
It never really closes, you know what I mean, back and.

00:49:55:28 - 00:50:07:06
Speaker 3
Forth because I knew and I know that I'll know Jen forever. You know, there are some people that you know that you'll have around forever. You go through stages in a friendship. But there was never a time when I wanted.

00:50:07:06 - 00:50:14:11
Speaker 2
To close the door. Yes, it's been my turn. Yes. You can't shake this.

00:50:14:13 - 00:50:17:25
Speaker 3
What in our relationship are you most grateful for?

00:50:18:00 - 00:50:19:12
Speaker 4
Hmm. There's a lot.

00:50:20:03 - 00:50:21:15
Speaker 3
Actually. I don't know. I just think.

00:50:21:15 - 00:50:33:07
Speaker 4
That you love me all all. Like my entire being and I feel like I can just be myself completely around you. Yeah, I feel like you don't take me like all the way seriously. Yeah.

00:50:33:10 - 00:50:39:06
Speaker 2
I don't know. But in a good way. I don't know what parts to take serious. Yes, we can.

00:50:39:07 - 00:50:39:24
Speaker 3
You know what I mean?

00:50:39:25 - 00:50:45:28
Speaker 4
Yes, I'm most grateful for, I guess, just the honesty that we have.

00:50:46:07 - 00:50:46:14
Speaker 3
With.

00:50:46:14 - 00:50:47:23
Speaker 4
Each other like this.

00:50:47:24 - 00:50:48:14
Speaker 3
That's a good one.

00:50:48:15 - 00:50:56:19
Speaker 2
Yeah, that's a great one. That's a good thing. Oh, no, this is weird, is it? You're not going to do it is.

00:50:56:19 - 00:50:59:00
Speaker 4
I look into my eyes and tell me something in silence. No.

00:51:00:08 - 00:51:17:20
Speaker 2
No. Doesn't even make any sense if I said what way? I would have got that. I'd play with them. No, you didn't whisper, I said yes. But, but but but she OK.

00:51:19:18 - 00:51:22:17
Speaker 4
What can I do to be a better friend and be honest?

00:51:24:22 - 00:51:25:15
Speaker 3
What you can.

00:51:25:15 - 00:51:34:09
Speaker 2
Do is what you can do is you can give me dates on when we can go eat.

00:51:34:12 - 00:51:35:29
Speaker 4
I knew it was going to be something about eating.

00:51:36:00 - 00:51:36:19
Speaker 3
Absolutely.

00:51:37:00 - 00:51:40:13
Speaker 4
I was. I thought you were going to say, you can buy me tacos. I thought, That's what you don't.

00:51:40:13 - 00:51:42:21
Speaker 3
Have to buy for me. You just meet me at the spot and we'll go.

00:51:42:22 - 00:51:44:27
Speaker 4
OK, OK, we'll have. I'll give you something.

00:51:44:27 - 00:51:47:21
Speaker 2
You can give me some dates. Yes, you could do. OK.

00:51:48:13 - 00:51:56:27
Speaker 3
If there's one thing I still don't understand about you, what is it? I don't think I feel like it doesn't apply.

00:51:56:28 - 00:51:58:18
Speaker 4
Yeah, no, I feel like you understand pretty much.

00:51:58:18 - 00:52:03:06
Speaker 3
You do another one. Describe one experience you wish will have in the future.

00:52:04:00 - 00:52:13:00
Speaker 2
Oh, good one. Perform at a huge low and you. Delaney developing.

00:52:13:00 - 00:52:14:16
Speaker 4
Just as does one experience.

00:52:14:16 - 00:52:16:23
Speaker 3
Yes. Yes, totally.

00:52:16:25 - 00:52:17:03
Speaker 2
OK.

00:52:17:11 - 00:52:21:18
Speaker 4
Oh, what is the strongest common value of ours that connects us?

00:52:22:24 - 00:52:26:29
Speaker 3
I think we're very we're very driven and optimistic. Yes. You know.

00:52:26:29 - 00:52:27:20
Speaker 4
Positivity.

00:52:27:28 - 00:52:40:24
Speaker 3
That's so important. I feel like with Jen, you know, there are certain people that you're around that drain your energy. And there are certain people that recharge your battery. They meet you where you're at as far as energy goes.

00:52:41:02 - 00:52:44:13
Speaker 3
And she's always met me right there. I never feel drained.

00:52:44:13 - 00:52:50:03
Speaker 2
With this one. Oh, yeah, yeah, absolutely. OK, thank you.

00:52:50:04 - 00:52:52:06
Speaker 3
How do you think I want to be perceived?

00:52:54:27 - 00:53:10:07
Speaker 4
I feel as though you are your authentic self, always. So I feel as though you pretty much bring yourself to the table in any situation. I would say that you want to be perceived as super positive, loving a great mother, which you are.

00:53:11:28 - 00:53:15:02
Speaker 4
You know, yeah. Like just an awesome person to be around you.

00:53:15:02 - 00:53:16:26
Speaker 2
You, you bring great energy.

00:53:16:28 - 00:53:19:20
Speaker 3
Yes. The energy. Yeah.

00:53:20:01 - 00:53:22:10
Speaker 4
Who takes more responsibility and our friendship?

00:53:24:07 - 00:53:26:06
Speaker 2
Hmm. Who takes.

00:53:26:06 - 00:53:27:22
Speaker 3
More responsibility?

00:53:28:26 - 00:53:30:09
Speaker 2
That's a that's tough.

00:53:30:09 - 00:53:47:01
Speaker 3
Because I feel like we both do. Uh-Huh. I don't think that you could ever come up with a topic that we both wouldn't be able to take accountability for or or just responsibility for anything that we've done, you know, with each other.

00:53:48:02 - 00:53:50:11
Speaker 3
Because I think we're good at explaining how we feel.

00:53:50:20 - 00:53:52:02
Speaker 4
Yes, you know, I agree.

00:53:52:02 - 00:53:54:12
Speaker 3
So yeah, I don't know.

00:53:54:13 - 00:53:55:02
Speaker 4
I don't know, either.

00:53:55:13 - 00:53:58:12
Speaker 2
That's an interesting one. Go go, boom, boom.

00:53:58:19 - 00:54:01:12
Speaker 3
When have you seen me as my best self?

00:54:02:06 - 00:54:04:17
Speaker 4
I feel like that's that's multiple times.

00:54:05:02 - 00:54:05:20
Speaker 3
Bingo.

00:54:08:20 - 00:54:11:20
Speaker 2
I that's that that I was looking for.

00:54:13:01 - 00:54:29:26
Speaker 4
Yeah, I think that you're your best self. Definitely. Motherhood, I think has. Has grounded you more? Yeah. So I will say that that probably is when I've seen you. Your best, yeah, self man, but also creativity like crazy creative.

00:54:30:04 - 00:54:42:11
Speaker 4
Yeah. If you like watch Dominique, like write a song or something, you're like amazed of how quick she can get it done and how creative it is and the melodies and that type of stuff.

00:54:42:12 - 00:54:47:08
Speaker 3
Oh my God, that's when we're really in the zone. Yeah, yeah. You know, it's really in the zone.

00:54:47:12 - 00:54:48:29
Speaker 4
How honest are you with me?

00:54:49:29 - 00:55:05:17
Speaker 3
I am 1,000,000,000 trillion. Now I'm honest. I'm very honest. Yeah, I feel like, yeah, there's really nothing that that I would hide from hide from her. There's really nothing I would hide, you know? Yeah, the type of person to hide stuff.

00:55:05:17 - 00:55:10:03
Speaker 4
But I feel like she's very honest, like, I'm pretty honest with you. I think so, too.

00:55:10:03 - 00:55:11:13
Speaker 3
I keep it 100.

00:55:11:14 - 00:55:13:02
Speaker 4
I think so. That was.

00:55:13:02 - 00:55:14:18
Speaker 3
Fun. I loved it.

00:55:14:21 - 00:55:15:18
Speaker 2
It was like, You know what?

00:55:15:18 - 00:55:17:06
Speaker 3
What? Like, we should totally do that like.

00:55:17:07 - 00:55:21:02
Speaker 2
All the time, OK? You know? Yeah. Because like, look at all these cards.

00:55:22:21 - 00:55:25:01
Speaker 4
You know, they have something like relationships.

00:55:25:01 - 00:55:26:14
Speaker 3
And I like that, you know.

00:55:26:23 - 00:55:30:28
Speaker 4
Women boo-boo. Whenever you come around, we're going to do this.

00:55:30:28 - 00:55:32:24
Speaker 3
Oh, I'm here for it to.

00:55:32:25 - 00:55:34:10
Speaker 4
Know each other skin deep.

00:55:34:24 - 00:55:36:01
Speaker 2
Yeah, I'm here for it.

00:55:36:05 - 00:55:39:26
Speaker 4
Okay. So yeah, we should do this. Maybe like once, once, once a month.

00:55:39:26 - 00:55:43:26
Speaker 3
And these are good. I'm just looking at some of the I.

00:55:43:26 - 00:55:44:18
Speaker 2
Know.

00:55:44:22 - 00:55:46:19
Speaker 3
I'm looking at some of these questions now. We got to.

00:55:46:19 - 00:55:50:22
Speaker 4
Oh, what's the pain in me? You'll like to heal. You don't have to answer that. No. That's a that's.

00:55:51:13 - 00:55:51:18
Speaker 2
The.

00:55:51:18 - 00:55:53:26
Speaker 3
Pain in you. I'd like to heal it.

00:55:54:04 - 00:56:14:03
Speaker 2
Any, any type of heartbreak, any type of heartbreak. You know what it is. So you love me and Ken who goes with you. But oh, come on, Tony.

00:56:15:13 - 00:56:18:25
Speaker 3
Tony will be joining us next week, actually. And I want to tell you guys.

00:56:18:25 - 00:56:23:22
Speaker 2
But surprise my mother because you know you were talking about, you got to feed your giraffe. Yeah.

00:56:24:12 - 00:56:25:20
Speaker 4
I got a few my alligator.

00:56:25:21 - 00:56:27:23
Speaker 3
Yeah, it's a thing. Yeah, and I know she got one.

00:56:27:23 - 00:56:31:29
Speaker 4
I was like, Are you got that from Dominique? She's like, Whatever.

00:56:32:18 - 00:56:34:14
Speaker 2
It's true. It's true.

00:56:34:15 - 00:56:37:00
Speaker 4
Yes. OK, please follow us.

00:56:37:09 - 00:56:38:10
Speaker 3
Yeah, follow us on.

00:56:38:10 - 00:56:43:24
Speaker 4
Instagram at Queens of a Feather Dot Podcasts. Search us on YouTube.

00:56:44:19 - 00:56:46:15
Speaker 3
Share the bloopers.

00:56:46:15 - 00:56:48:10
Speaker 4
Kids. Share the bloopers.

00:56:48:10 - 00:56:50:07
Speaker 2
Share the share.

00:56:50:07 - 00:56:51:24
Speaker 3
The the reels.

00:56:51:24 - 00:56:54:16
Speaker 2
The the all that. What do you call them?

00:56:54:16 - 00:56:55:16
Speaker 4
Share everything we.

00:56:55:16 - 00:56:57:07
Speaker 2
Post. Sure. Sure.

00:56:57:10 - 00:56:58:13
Speaker 3
Because y'all make me wonder.

00:56:58:13 - 00:57:03:14
Speaker 2
Some of y'all like, I know you saw it and you are.

00:57:03:15 - 00:57:05:24
Speaker 4
You'll be liking it to me.

00:57:05:25 - 00:57:06:01
Speaker 3
Like you.

00:57:06:02 - 00:57:07:19
Speaker 4
Do. Yeah, yeah, sure.

00:57:07:21 - 00:57:13:17
Speaker 3
But yeah, tell a friend. I've gotten some great feedback, though, from the podcast, and I love to hear it. We'd love to hear you guys this feedback.

00:57:13:17 - 00:57:14:23
Speaker 4
So yes.

00:57:14:26 - 00:57:16:13
Speaker 3
Yes, if it's good, if it's bad.

00:57:17:02 - 00:57:18:10
Speaker 2
I'm just kidding. Just kidding.

00:57:18:19 - 00:57:20:03
Speaker 4
All feedback is good feedback.

00:57:20:05 - 00:57:22:23
Speaker 2
Kind of. Watch it? No. Just kidding.

00:57:23:01 - 00:57:31:01
Speaker 4
No. Your real feedback is not good feedback. I don't know why I just said that because I'm just too excited. I'm still I'm still in the positivity.

00:57:31:01 - 00:57:33:10
Speaker 2
I know right glow. I know, I know.

00:57:33:10 - 00:57:34:26
Speaker 4
So I'm just like, Yeah, you know anything.

00:57:34:26 - 00:57:38:10
Speaker 2
You have to say, you just say, but no, you're.

00:57:38:10 - 00:57:39:10
Speaker 4
Right, it's bad.

00:57:39:11 - 00:57:42:14
Speaker 2
Keep it. You'll get your you'll be put in a headlock. So watch as.

00:57:43:06 - 00:57:50:23
Speaker 4
She is not violent. I don't know why everything she has to bring something is some type of form of violence. Yeah, she's not violent at all. She cannot flee.

00:57:50:23 - 00:57:56:23
Speaker 2
She will run. I will take off. But while I'm.

00:57:56:23 - 00:58:01:25
Speaker 3
Doing it, I'll look back and give you an evil look. You know, I'm that girl with me.

00:58:02:02 - 00:58:04:15
Speaker 2
Well, thank you, guys. Thank you, guys.

00:58:05:19 - 00:58:10:11
Speaker 1
It's just it's under the age of 60 to get it done.

00:58:11:07 - 00:58:25:28
Speaker 2
You know, it's against what is against it. I know you. Yeah, I like it. If you think it was so fantastic, step back.

00:58:26:02 - 00:58:27:14
Speaker 3
You can go ahead and play the game.

00:58:29:02 - 00:58:30:07
Speaker 1
Easy to maintain.