Queens of a Feather

The core of any beautiful friendship derives from embracing differences and holding each other accountable, while uplifting your friend throughout the many struggles of life. Join Dela*Nique as they discuss life, sex, womanhood, relationships, motherhood, music, and Pop culture with a sprinkle of celebrity gossip in their new podcast called Queens of a Feather. To watch our episodes, search “Queens of a Feather” on YouTube! New episodes released on Thursdays, biweekly.

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Queens of a Feather

Episode 13: KanYE or NEY

March 03, 2022 • Dela*Nique

We share our thoughts on Kanye’s recent and frequent social media antics regarding him and Kim Kardashian’s divorce. Is it OK to express your rage on social media during a breakup? Is mental health a reason to give your partner a pass for bad behavior? We also touch on dating while being legally married.

Later in the episode, we delve into coparenting. Should you have a discussion with your coparent before introducing a new partner to your children? What are some boundaries when dating and children are involved?

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* MUSIC *

Hi. Welcome to Queens of a Feather. We together like. Butt cheeks. You know what it is. Okay. Welcome, welcome, welcome.

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Speaker 3
We hope you're.

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Speaker 2
Having a good day. Day marker. All that gets life. Yeah. Why not? How it goes at party people. Holiday party leaders in the United Everybody just have a good time. Let the illegal make it lose your life. We design at it. Yet don't. Don't shake that every day. Oh, shit.

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Speaker 3
I thought I was hustling. Yo, we.

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Speaker 2
Listen. We can say it at the same time. And it'll still work. Okay. I'm feeling a little better. I was a little claustrophobic. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Okay. Hey, look, a little claustrophobic. Yeah. Yeah. New words every day.

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Speaker 3
I don't know if.

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Speaker 2
It's a word it is now. So, folks.

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Speaker 3
Second podcast back.

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Speaker 2
Second season. Mm. Second episode two. Two.

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Speaker 3
I didn't realize that we were having seasons. But I like that.

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Speaker 2
Yeah. This is the second season. We are back. Absolutely.

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Speaker 3
As we we're going to. You know, because I want to travel.

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Speaker 2
Oh, yeah. You know what? And one of these seasons is going to be a traveling season. Okay, we're going to be all over the. All over the globe. I can't wait.

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Speaker 3
Okay.

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Speaker 2
Let's have a yummy things.

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Speaker 3
Where do you want to go?

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Speaker 2
Oh, man. Well, Hawaii.

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Speaker 3
I definitely need to go back to Hawaii. Yeah, Hawaii is calling my name Honolulu.

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Speaker 3
Yes, calling my name.

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Speaker 2
I think that'll be the first. The first stop shop.

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Speaker 3
You know, I want to go back. Why not? But I think I want to do Hawaii I've never been to Kawai. Yeah. I've gone to Maui and have gone to Big Island.

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Speaker 2
Okay. But I want to do Hawaii next thing. Yeah. What makes you feel like you wanted that one?

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Speaker 3
Because I heard it's like a very common place, and it has quite a bit of rain. I don't mind rain because I grew up in Barbados. And you don't like me? Oh, I do. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And I think it has a lot of mountains, but also. Yeah, of Hawaii Islands.

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Speaker 2
I was going to find out. Yes, it's going to vibe out.

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Speaker 3
Yeah. And I definitely want to go back to Maui. I want to do the road to Hana again. If anyone has done that. Let us know, because I thought it was cool. It was fun. Mhm. I mean, have you got family?

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Speaker 2
Yeah. That's what I go to.

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Speaker 3
World to Hana. No, you need to do the roads of Hana.

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Speaker 2
Have you been to Mama's Fish House?

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Speaker 3
Yes, I have. Would you get a fish sandwich?

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Speaker 2
At this sandwich? You know, she says sandwich along with you. I got this. We went for dinner. It was, I think it was my it was my mom's. I think it was for her birthday because my family and I, we would go every December to Maui. Mm hmm. And so this time we went there, and. Oh, my God, I got this fish dish.

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Speaker 2
It was the most delicious thing I've ever tasted. Ever. Like, it was so yummy. Yeah.

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Speaker 3
There are fish good in it.

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Speaker 2
Good. Very good in the cocktails.

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Speaker 3
And I remember, I, we we i, i brought back one on the airplane.

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Speaker 2
But it didn't.

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Speaker 3
Taste the same. I didn't know it was like I needed to bring it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It didn't taste the same. You got to eat it fresh.

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Speaker 2
You do? There's some things that you totally have to eat. Fish. I know you were trying to savor the moment.

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Speaker 3
I wanted to, but it didn't work. It wasn't? No, it didn't taste the same.

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Speaker 2
No.

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Speaker 3
But I love I do love Hawaii, and I do want to go back.

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Speaker 2
Yeah, we'll have a pot there. We should an episode to it. You know what I mean? Stood up. Yeah. So now we're not going to keep talking about calming, relaxing things this episode.

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Speaker 3
Oh.

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Speaker 2
Even though that topic is calming and relaxing, we're going to switch it up. Yes. We're going to get right to the antics. Yeah. Okay. A boy, Kai. Yay!

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Speaker 3
He's been doing a lot.

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Speaker 2
Oh, con. Yeah, yeah, he's.

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Speaker 3
Been doing too much. He reminds me of a narcissist. Sorry. Not sorry.

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Speaker 2
You know, I just. I wish sometimes that we were in in in in the days where people didn't know so much of your personal business. Yeah. Yeah, because we wouldn't be knowing these things about Kanye. We would just appreciate the music, you know, that he's that he supplies because he is a musical genius.

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Speaker 3
Absolutely. I mean, he's putting his stuff out there.

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Speaker 2
That's what. Yeah, he is.

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Speaker 3
He's actually. Yeah, he's. Yeah, it's not like people are.

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Speaker 2
You know, you know, but back then, it just wasn't trendy to even, you know what I mean? Like, they didn't do that. That just wasn't, like, the thing. Now it's so easy to be like, what is it? It. And people take full advantage of that. And I know he's the best thing.

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Speaker 3
I know, I know. You know. Yeah.

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Speaker 2
Are him they're not officially divorced yet.

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Speaker 3
They're not officially divorced yet, but he wants her back. And I get it. Kanye is the poster man for a man who treats their woman badly. And then when she's like, I'm going to leave, he now wants her back. Yeah, but he's doing it in the worst way possible, and it's unraveling in front of our eyes.

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Speaker 2
It's unraveling. So is it ever good to express your anger on social media? Um, your rage, your frustration, anything that's that's pertaining to your relationship? Do you ever think that that's okay, too?

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Speaker 3
It's not okay, but it's so easy to do it.

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Speaker 2
Have you have you ever.

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Speaker 3
Had a moment? Yeah. Yeah, I remember. I remember. Like, I don't know exactly what part of.

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Speaker 2
The.

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Speaker 3
Separation that I was in at that time, but I think I went on I went on Facebook or something, and I said, you know, that's why you're not supposed to kiss a lot of.

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Speaker 2
This or something.

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Speaker 3
Stupid like that. And then I just deleted it afterwards because I think some people started messaging me like.

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Speaker 2
I had lots going on.

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Speaker 3
Yeah. And I instantly changed my last name and everything, and they're like, Why did you change your last name?

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Speaker 2
Yeah, yeah. You know.

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Speaker 3
But I never said anything to the extreme yeah. Of what Kanye is doing. But it's very easy to because you're just so angry. I know. And then you got to kind of be like, okay, this is not for the world.

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Speaker 2
To see or to know. Yeah. I think a lot of times women in particular, I'm not even sure I was going to say this, but they people will post like quotes, you know, like little quotes, but it's like, directed at the passive.

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Speaker 3
Aggressive, you know what I.

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Speaker 2
Mean? Like, that type of stuff. Yeah, I've done that. Yeah, yeah, we've all done that before. Yeah, you've all we've all had our share of that one. You know, it's like I'm not saying any names, but you know who you are thinking. I'm bettering myself. I am better today, not because of you. It's like, okay.

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Speaker 3
It's f or we know. I've definitely like, you know, Derek. Derek Jackson, the man. Yeah. Derek Dixon. You don't know who that is. So who are you?

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Speaker 2
You know who?

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Speaker 3
The guy who? His wife. He's he was the he's the motivational speaker. Oh, yeah. And then then you cheated on his wife and then had his wife in the bonnet and stuff like that. Yes. So I remember posting a lot of his stuff when I was going through my thing. Because, you know, this was before he was outed as being the crazy guy.

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Speaker 2
Yeah.

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Speaker 3
But I remember posting a lot of those things and because he would, like, kind of tell men how to act like you need to you need to do better. You need to grow better. This is what you need to do. I remember posting quite a bit of his things all the while as as I was like a sign for you know, my ex and I read it and be like, okay, let me do, let me get better.

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Speaker 2
Yeah. Yeah. He read it though. No. And then that came out that he was the person delivering the person.

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Speaker 3
Doing the craziness.

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Speaker 2
Was sneaky.

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Speaker 3
I know.

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Speaker 2
Yeah. Yeah. No.

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Speaker 3
So it's not it's not good, but it's easy. I think it's easy to do. And I think that Kanye what's happening probably is that Kim is not giving him the time of day. So now he's deciding, well, I'm a publicly speak about it so you can read it somehow.

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Speaker 2
Maybe in in one of the text messages that they were exchanging, he released like a piece of that. And she was like, why do you have to like.

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Speaker 3
Tell the world?

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Speaker 2
Tell the world. It's just like we mean, you.

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Speaker 3
Know, because, you know, I'm your biggest fan.

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Speaker 2
It's like.

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Speaker 3
Kim. Kim is then she's over that.

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Speaker 2
I'm sure.

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Speaker 3
She's done.

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Speaker 2
It gets old, really fat.

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Speaker 3
Woman is done normally she's she's I should say all but.

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Speaker 2
The exchange gets less.

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Speaker 3
Of the time.

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Speaker 2
You literally, I'm sure, probably want to just say exactly what you need to say and then, like I said, the conversation plus anything I think she says can be used in court.

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Speaker 3
I think that that's why she's probably being a little bit more strategic.

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Speaker 2
I'm sorry, but she said notice wink you got that, which is like.

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Speaker 3
So you have to be very strategic when you're dealing with those types of things.

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Speaker 2
Allegedly. Yeah.

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Speaker 2
I'm just gonna throw that in there sometimes. I mean, I don't care if has anything to do with anything like I like French fries, allegedly.

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Speaker 3
Yeah. Okay. Because if you're coming off crazy online, then, you know, you're already tainting the judges kind of. Yeah. You know, thoughts about you.

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Speaker 2
Oh, absolutely.

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Speaker 3
Hopefully they're able to resolve outside of court I love someone like that. I don't think you can.

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Speaker 2
I don't think so either. I think it'll have to.

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Speaker 3
Play itself out.

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Speaker 2
The judges word. You know, sometimes it has to come from higher up for people to get the message and really, like, comprehend, like, no, no, no, no, no, no. This is what we're doing.

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Speaker 3
I know, I know. But how do you feel about him? Like sharing her messages? I thought that was kind of.

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Speaker 2
I don't think that's okay.

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Speaker 3
No way. And then he shares everyone's text message. I would not text Kanye West at this point unless I was like a celebrity that wants it attention. Yeah. Then I'll be okay. Yeah. Let me let me send him something real cool. Yeah. So he can post so he can post it can go on my page.

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Speaker 2
Right, right. But only the the the opportunist will probably be chuckling. I'm like that because nobody wants to be. I guarantee you, he probably hasn't heard from Jay in a minute, you know what I mean? You separated himself.

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Speaker 3
You know, those those messages you sent and they instantly delete.

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Speaker 2
Yes. There you go.

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Speaker 3
He probably sends.

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Speaker 2
Those.

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Speaker 3
Messages.

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Speaker 2
Yeah, but you can't just kind of he would screenshot that in the second business.

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Speaker 3
It's too much, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2
So it's like, no, not no.

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Speaker 3
But I do think that something is going on mentally, which we all know, right? He has yeah. It has been stated that he does suffer from from being bipolar. Bipolar ism. Yeah. So that that is a thing.

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Speaker 2
But I don't know if that's an excuse to be a but.

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Speaker 3
But it's not an excuse. But if, if, if you're made up that way. Well, and maybe you're made up, too. I mean, I don't I don't know the INS and a lot of individuals who are bipolar. Yeah, of course, we know that they have. So he will have episodes, right? I don't I don't know how long episodes last from what I researched.

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Speaker 3
They have different lives. Depends on if you're on medication and that type of stuff. But I can see that this is a man that it's finally coming to the point where he's really in his family is not what he wants it to be. You know, he's he's now going to be a single father.

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Speaker 2
And you know what I felt like him was like so supportive she is Kim is awesome. Like when he was doing his Sunday service is all that kind of stuff, you know, that she was like right there.

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Speaker 3
And being in Wyoming.

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Speaker 2
Front and center, too.

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Speaker 3
And leaving her like what, you going to Wyoming? And then she has to.

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Speaker 2
Stay with the kids. I knew that it was downhill when they when they were at a basketball game one time, I think. And the camera they panned to them and they went like it was like a kiss cam or something like that. And she turned to like kiss him. And he was like.

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Speaker 3
Yeah, you just stay calm.

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Speaker 2
It's like you don't leave her hanging trying to give you a kiss out would like give me my kiss get that. You know, like it's this one time when they were in an elevator and she had a bag and he walked out and left her in the elevator with her back.

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Speaker 3
Yeah, I remember watching that. After you tell I think you mentioned it on the podcast.

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Speaker 2
Like.

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Speaker 3
Hello, I know.

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Speaker 2
You have been like, yeah.

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Speaker 3
But how but how do you deal with someone.

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Speaker 2
Who.

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Speaker 3
Is like all of them in the relationship?

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Speaker 2
You know, that's that's hard. That's that's a tough one. Ego is a big deal. And when it's being said the way that certain people like it to be said, it's very hard to detach from, you know, what you're what you're getting from the yes people and reality, you know, because I'm sure Kim probably felt like or feels like, you know, I loved you and everything like that, but I am not here to just serve you.

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Speaker 2
I am my own person within itself. And respect it. Or we can part ways. And I really think that that's what happened. You know, you get to a certain point to where it seems like Kourtney is at a certain point to where he's looking down on everybody else. Maybe he's not feeling like anyone's on his level. I could see him kind of being like, you know what, he's seeing me, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2
But it's like, well, everyone is unique in their own own right, on their own ways, you know? And it's important to appreciate that, especially your partner, you know, because that vibe, it can get old really, really quickly if you're just like thinking of yourself.

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Speaker 3
But again, do you take his health issues personally if if it really is because because imagine if he's completely different when he's on medication.

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Speaker 2
Well, that's that's another thing I am. So is is he taking it?

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Speaker 3
You know, I don't think.

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Speaker 2
It's and if you're not taking it if you're not taking it, that's a choice that you're making to not that's true. So then you're at fault either way because you're deciding not to do something that's going to help us. But you're not taking it. It's just too much. Yeah, I can I can I can guess that it's probably just too overwhelming.

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Speaker 2
You know, sometimes with like with a guy like that, especially with an ego like that.

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Speaker 3
Yeah. And then he has a lot of Yes. People, I'm sure, around him.

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Speaker 2
Yeah. So he probably expects that all the way around. He I can tell you right now and when someone tells him no it's he almost probably gets like obsessive with it. So you don't like to hear. No, he probably never hears no. Who's going to tell Kanye? No. Go tell him no. You know, I mean, so I tried to say something to him no one time.

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Speaker 2
And I know you ain't got the answer. Gates Oh, so funny. You I use that give every chance I get. How sway how everything.

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Speaker 3
It's like yes.

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Speaker 2
But I can just imagine in the home, Kim was like, well, I want to wear this. I don't want to wear this. It is. I like.

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Speaker 3
Sweat.

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Speaker 2
Why Kim it's like now, would you would.

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Speaker 3
You like change your whole wardrobe.

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Speaker 2
And my wardrobe for him? I would I would change my whole wardrobe if if it was like a designer that I loved, that I ended up marrying, that I loved his line and what he did then maybe. But Kanye isn't I would not change it for Kanye.

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Speaker 3
So would you have him or do you have a guy dictating what you wear? Because that's what it seemed like.

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Speaker 2
I wouldn't have someone dictating when to wear. But like, for me, for instance, I've had numerous occasions where my husbands bought dresses, things like that for me, you know what I mean? Like, Oh, come on, I got you, you know? And I loved everything that he picked. He's good taste. So I've worn a lot of the things that he's bought.

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Speaker 2
You know, it would suck if he didn't, though. And he came home and you had to be like, oh, you know, and then, like, when you guys go out he's like, Hey, why don't you wear that dress? I got you? Like, Yeah, I can imagine.

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Speaker 3
That happened to me. But with jewelry, jewelry really.

00:17:03:14 - 00:17:03:20
Speaker 2
Is.

00:17:04:07 - 00:17:04:12
Speaker 3
Nothing.

00:17:05:06 - 00:17:09:04
Speaker 2
So when you when you open the box, what did you say? You was like, Oh.

00:17:09:29 - 00:17:11:29
Speaker 3
I'll just say thank you. But I just never wore it.

00:17:12:06 - 00:17:15:28
Speaker 2
Know that even once. I know it was like a necklace.

00:17:16:05 - 00:17:19:16
Speaker 3
It was fake in. Well, I think it was.

00:17:20:03 - 00:17:25:18
Speaker 2
It looked it looked was it was it gaudy? Was it gaudy? It was just looks.

00:17:26:18 - 00:17:28:11
Speaker 3
Like forever 21.

00:17:30:02 - 00:17:30:17
Speaker 2
Play because he's.

00:17:30:17 - 00:17:32:06
Speaker 3
Never it pretty well like clears.

00:17:32:17 - 00:17:33:09
Speaker 2
Okay but.

00:17:33:09 - 00:17:34:21
Speaker 3
Not I'm a grown woman I you.

00:17:35:03 - 00:17:35:17
Speaker 2
Don't get me.

00:17:37:06 - 00:17:40:01
Speaker 3
Clears are you kidding me. Like we both have jobs.

00:17:42:13 - 00:17:45:17
Speaker 2
So don't do that none of that. Have you met Tiffany?

00:17:45:23 - 00:17:49:10
Speaker 3
Exactly. That's what I need to get.

00:17:49:10 - 00:17:50:24
Speaker 2
Yeah. But you know what?

00:17:51:17 - 00:17:53:19
Speaker 3
Sometimes I guess I don't buy that for myself.

00:17:53:27 - 00:18:05:08
Speaker 2
Right? But sometimes it just depends, because, listen, it's. It's the thought that counts. Yes. You know, but when they're trying to control it, that's a whole different ballgame. I appreciate anything.

00:18:05:08 - 00:18:08:02
Speaker 3
You're going to give me any gifts? The thought that counts.

00:18:08:04 - 00:18:20:11
Speaker 2
Well, yeah. I mean, I think that you're putting a thought into a gift for me is great. Now, if you're going to put thought into that gift and be, like, controlling, like, you need to be wearing this, then we're going to have a problem. But if you give me a gift, I could wear it. Don't wear.

00:18:20:11 - 00:18:23:09
Speaker 3
It. So you decide if I don't appreciate every gift that's on.

00:18:23:12 - 00:18:33:25
Speaker 2
I think it's not. I think that you have to be careful with that because then people might stop giving you gifts oh, no. You know, if you're going to not appreciate if okay.

00:18:34:05 - 00:18:50:13
Speaker 3
Say you're with someone for a while and they keep giving you a gift that you can tell that they're like, oh, it's someone's birthday. Let me just quickly go and get something. To me, that's not the thought was that you just quickly just got something for me because you didn't put much thought in into it.

00:18:50:16 - 00:18:52:14
Speaker 2
Yeah. Yeah. There's a situation.

00:18:52:16 - 00:18:56:23
Speaker 3
Think you have to appreciate every single thing that's presented to you.

00:18:57:06 - 00:19:11:15
Speaker 2
I think you have to just be very careful with that because sometimes you have to know who you're with. If you're not if you're with the person, that's not a really big gift. Her versus you are with somebody who's a big gift or people can give you the world. They can give you a lot of things, they can give you simple things.

00:19:11:24 - 00:19:12:16
Speaker 3
Depends on the type.

00:19:12:16 - 00:19:12:27
Speaker 2
Of person.

00:19:12:27 - 00:19:29:19
Speaker 3
You're with. Well, I don't think it needs to be lavish, but if you're giving me something that you can see that is not something that I'm going to utilize, I can tell when someone gives me a gift, like if if I'm in a relationship, I can tell if they just quickly went out and just bought something true. And that doesn't make me feel good.

00:19:29:19 - 00:19:42:26
Speaker 3
Yeah. Like, I, I, if I'm putting thought into your stuff and you, you have seen that I've put thought into your stuff if you're just going out and just buying whatever you see. Yeah, that's not a good feeling. Yeah, you might as well don't give me anything.

00:19:43:03 - 00:19:43:17
Speaker 2
Yeah.

00:19:43:23 - 00:19:47:04
Speaker 3
And you know, I'm at a stage in my life where I'm gonna just tell.

00:19:47:04 - 00:20:07:03
Speaker 2
You and you should, you should. You know what I mean? That, that, that communication part, that's a thing. Now, I don't me personally, I'm with gifts in that whole kind of deal, you know, it's cool, you know, but. Yeah, I don't know, I, I don't mind any of that stuff. As long as you're not trying to control me with what you give me.

00:20:07:06 - 00:20:07:20
Speaker 3
I don't like.

00:20:07:20 - 00:20:11:13
Speaker 2
That. That's where my line is drawn, you know?

00:20:11:15 - 00:20:11:21
Speaker 3
Yeah.

00:20:11:21 - 00:20:15:29
Speaker 2
Yeah, but, yeah, I mean, it's absolutely, though I see where you're coming.

00:20:15:29 - 00:20:22:21
Speaker 3
I just, I. I just feel like if you're going to do something for someone, you want to know about it and do it well.

00:20:22:21 - 00:20:26:03
Speaker 2
Yeah. Yeah. Like, do you know who I am? Do you know me?

00:20:26:23 - 00:20:29:27
Speaker 3
Okay, if you're going to do something for me, just do it. Nice.

00:20:30:10 - 00:20:32:16
Speaker 2
You better do it. Do it. Do do.

00:20:32:16 - 00:20:35:09
Speaker 3
It. Yes. We used to say make it nice.

00:20:36:03 - 00:20:37:01
Speaker 2
Who?

00:20:38:00 - 00:20:43:24
Speaker 3
Real Housewives of New York was her name. She say, make it nice.

00:20:43:24 - 00:20:45:13
Speaker 2
Oh, my gosh. Oh, New York.

00:20:45:20 - 00:20:49:29
Speaker 3
Yeah. Housewives of New York. The one that has the shot here, and her husband passed away.

00:20:51:01 - 00:20:51:28
Speaker 2
Oh.

00:20:54:00 - 00:20:57:08
Speaker 3
She has a daughter. I know. I can't remember her name, but she'll say, make it nice.

00:20:57:08 - 00:21:14:12
Speaker 2
We'll get back to that one. Yeah, because I feel like it's obscene. They mind not not. No, not. No, not her. No, I don't think about it. I don't think about it. That's a shame. But yes, make it nice. So I do feel, though, that gifts from and also I don't like when people let me just say one more thing about the whole gift thing.

00:21:14:12 - 00:21:15:06
Speaker 3
Okay. Okay. Yeah.

00:21:15:21 - 00:21:20:16
Speaker 2
I don't like when people get you gifts only to hang over your head later. So you got to do.

00:21:20:16 - 00:21:20:26
Speaker 3
Oh, yeah.

00:21:20:28 - 00:21:32:02
Speaker 2
You got to be mindful about that too. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't want you get me something real nice and then be like, well, I got, I got I mean, you know, I don't need that either. Yeah, yeah. You know, so it really depends. That's why I say Marinda.

00:21:32:02 - 00:21:33:10
Speaker 3
Sorry. Yes, our name there.

00:21:33:10 - 00:21:34:24
Speaker 2
Oh. Oh, Dorinda.

00:21:34:24 - 00:21:36:13
Speaker 3
There we go. Yeah, she's. They make it.

00:21:36:13 - 00:21:45:24
Speaker 2
Nice. So it it just it depends. You know, I'm not I you know, it's cool if you get you just get me. You play to some food. We can't go wrong.

00:21:45:24 - 00:22:12:07
Speaker 3
You can't go wrong. Yeah, I feel like he mentioned a court that he bought for her. Kanye in one of his posts, she was out with pete, and he said, I got her this. Oh, she oh. He's just. I feel like. Didn't Kim see that? She's had a life where she's pretty much had everything. Yeah. Luxury. Yeah. But now she wants someone to do the simple things, like watch a movie with her and just.

00:22:12:07 - 00:22:14:02
Speaker 2
Yeah, the little things.

00:22:14:02 - 00:22:15:25
Speaker 3
Little things definitely go along.

00:22:15:25 - 00:22:35:20
Speaker 2
Where they really do. And I and I get that. I mean, Kim comes from funny. Yeah. You know, so to me, I kind of feel like once you're a millionaire, there's kind of nothing that you guys can't buy. And so that stuff's kind of like, you know, it's nice, but there's really nothing that she can't get for herself.

00:22:35:24 - 00:22:38:02
Speaker 3
Yeah. It's about how you how you treat someone.

00:22:38:05 - 00:22:56:01
Speaker 2
It really is. Well, it really is. Yeah. So, um, yeah, I mean, with with the whole Kanye thing, I kind of feel like people would say, well, you know, you, you know who you were marrying, you know what you got into. But I kind of feel like he kind of got a little bit more, you know.

00:22:56:26 - 00:22:58:07
Speaker 3
That's. I hate that line.

00:22:58:16 - 00:22:59:02
Speaker 2
You know?

00:22:59:10 - 00:23:02:18
Speaker 3
What do you mean? What do people mean by, you know, what you were getting?

00:23:02:21 - 00:23:04:19
Speaker 2
That's what I'm saying. People change.

00:23:04:19 - 00:23:09:02
Speaker 3
People change. And so you change. Something could work for you ten years ago, and it.

00:23:09:02 - 00:23:10:07
Speaker 2
Doesn't work and it doesn't work for you.

00:23:10:13 - 00:23:12:07
Speaker 3
That's okay. So, you know.

00:23:12:07 - 00:23:32:28
Speaker 2
You can stop taking your medication. Thank you so you know, I don't know about the argument of, you know, who you're marrying. He's he's always been a hothead type deal. But, yes, the stuff gets old real quick. It gets old real quick. And maybe he has always been that guy. I don't know that she saw that, but I'm sure she never thought that it would turn the way that it did.

00:23:33:06 - 00:23:36:19
Speaker 2
You know, I'm not sure she'd never marry Kanye thinking she was get a divorce.

00:23:36:20 - 00:23:54:19
Speaker 3
Well, yeah, no one gets married to think that they're going to get divorced. Yeah. And I you know, I love it. I think, you know, everyone says, you know, marriage should be for a lifetime. It is. Sometimes it's not okay. You know, I am. And I really caution myself and I think I told you this earlier, I am an advocate for divorce.

00:23:55:00 - 00:24:03:07
Speaker 3
I am an advocate for getting out of situations that do not make sense to you. People who are Christians might be like what.

00:24:03:28 - 00:24:05:11
Speaker 2
God doesn't like divorce.

00:24:05:23 - 00:24:14:18
Speaker 3
God don't like me being unhappy either. So I don't think God wants me or anyone.

00:24:15:02 - 00:24:16:05
Speaker 2
In a crappy.

00:24:16:15 - 00:24:35:07
Speaker 3
Toxic light. Why? Yeah, I was pretty. Yeah. And I am sorry, but I couldn't be with someone like Kanye. Do you feel like she was subservience when she when she got with him? Yeah. I feel like she toned herself down a lot when she got with him. And I think that when you're in a relationship, it should amplify who you are.

00:24:35:23 - 00:24:45:05
Speaker 3
Both of you guys should be able to be your best selves and you shouldn't have to tone yourself down to fit into someone's box of how they think this relationship should be.

00:24:46:05 - 00:24:51:09
Speaker 2
Well, especially with when you're dealing with egos as big as case.

00:24:51:21 - 00:24:53:05
Speaker 3
And she should have a big ego, too.

00:24:54:00 - 00:25:02:03
Speaker 2
Yeah. I mean, first, I absolutely think that yeah, I absolutely think that she does need somebody to find somebody who just adores and appreciate.

00:25:02:11 - 00:25:07:15
Speaker 3
Well, you know, I thought the Pete thing was a fling. I still kind of think it is.

00:25:07:17 - 00:25:09:00
Speaker 2
That's new. It's been.

00:25:09:00 - 00:25:12:06
Speaker 3
In years. Yeah. I still think it is, but she seems very happy.

00:25:12:06 - 00:25:17:17
Speaker 2
Yeah. And this might be just what she needs right now. Just normal. Yeah. Not the antics.

00:25:17:17 - 00:25:18:03
Speaker 3
Yes.

00:25:18:23 - 00:25:19:17
Speaker 2
Well, how often.

00:25:19:19 - 00:25:22:28
Speaker 3
Well, okay, so Kanye was dating the woman.

00:25:23:10 - 00:25:24:16
Speaker 2
I don't know her. I don't know her name.

00:25:24:22 - 00:25:32:20
Speaker 3
I don't care to research it. And Kim is dating Pete, and they're not legally divorced yet. How do you feel about dating.

00:25:34:22 - 00:26:02:19
Speaker 2
Dating when you're not divorced? Yes. Yes. Legally divorced. Yes. I think that if you have come to an understanding and, you know, like, I'm not going back, there's no going back then unless you happen to meet someone, you know, you got to do what you want to do. You got to do what you got to do. Because if you stop and say, oh, I'm not going to do that, just your luck, he's going to be like, well, I'm about to date.

00:26:02:21 - 00:26:19:05
Speaker 2
I got a girlfriend. You know what I mean? So I think when you guys both come to the understanding, like, this isn't going to work, we know this isn't going to work. You decided, you know what I mean? Test the waters, then I think people should be free to do what they want to do. Yeah.

00:26:20:20 - 00:26:36:05
Speaker 3
I do think you have to be mindful with dating someone who's still legally married, because I've had instances like when I was separated where my ex tried to get back with me, and I'm sure he was dealing with with women.

00:26:36:17 - 00:26:36:28
Speaker 2
Really?

00:26:37:05 - 00:26:47:12
Speaker 3
Yeah. I mean, if you're separated for some, especially a few men, they're going to be dealing with someone I don't think a man is just going to be laying up, be, like.

00:26:48:01 - 00:26:49:21
Speaker 2
So heartbroken. Oh, my.

00:26:49:23 - 00:26:53:08
Speaker 3
All these months. And I'm not going to I'm sure that he was, you know. Yeah.

00:26:53:09 - 00:26:54:03
Speaker 2
Dipping and doing well.

00:26:54:04 - 00:26:55:18
Speaker 3
It was a spread in their wives.

00:26:55:20 - 00:26:57:26
Speaker 2
Oh. Oh, well.

00:26:58:10 - 00:26:59:25
Speaker 3
That's saying. I don't know.

00:27:00:03 - 00:27:01:10
Speaker 2
Yeah, definitely.

00:27:01:12 - 00:27:03:26
Speaker 3
And spreading their way. I don't know. Some weird truth.

00:27:05:29 - 00:27:07:06
Speaker 2
Yeah. I don't know.

00:27:07:14 - 00:27:31:11
Speaker 3
But but I know that he probably was potential may be telling whoever he was talking to. Oh, yeah, I'm done. Done with, with, with. Yeah, yeah. Okay. With my wife, but he was still trying to get by with me. So I think that you have to be mindful when people are still legally married because.

00:27:31:17 - 00:27:32:27
Speaker 2
You never know. You just never.

00:27:32:27 - 00:27:45:18
Speaker 3
Know. And that time that married individuals have some is very, very strong. And anyone who's like, oh, they're going to choose me over their wife. Yeah. Or over their husband.

00:27:47:24 - 00:27:52:05
Speaker 3
When does that happen? When when does that happen?

00:27:53:27 - 00:27:54:02
Speaker 2
Hm?

00:27:56:02 - 00:27:57:02
Speaker 2
Nope. Can't think about it.

00:27:57:02 - 00:28:07:06
Speaker 3
I guess that that that rarely happens. If I'm telling you, if they could work it out. People don't want to get divorced. If they could work it out among them, they're going to work it out.

00:28:07:13 - 00:28:09:14
Speaker 2
Mhm. So that's true.

00:28:09:17 - 00:28:12:14
Speaker 3
So just be mindful of my divorce. Took a very long time.

00:28:12:27 - 00:28:21:17
Speaker 2
Yeah. Some take, some take a while. Mhm. Yeah. It's not just okay we're done signing papers and you know those are not, you know. Yeah.

00:28:21:18 - 00:28:42:02
Speaker 3
Mine took a very long time and I still and I talked to people while I was still going through my divorce because I wasn't living with that person. I was really done. You weren't talking at all. Right. But I think I've said previously that I made a conscious effort to sit with myself and not date for at least some I think like two years.

00:28:42:03 - 00:28:48:01
Speaker 2
Yeah. So yeah, but yeah, it's, it's a good amount of time and it's, I think so. Yeah.

00:28:48:08 - 00:28:50:25
Speaker 3
You know, but I'm ready. I said I'm ready, but whoever's out there.

00:28:50:25 - 00:29:02:08
Speaker 2
Hehe, do you do you have. I'm ready. Do you think what are your boundaries when it comes to dating and there are kids involved.

00:29:04:21 - 00:29:21:16
Speaker 3
I have a lot of boundaries. Yeah. When it comes to my son as absolutely. But it, it's, it's kind of like does the other person abide by those boundaries. So you may have boundaries, but it's really not a boundary because it doesn't apply because that other person is not trying to play along.

00:29:23:08 - 00:29:24:02
Speaker 2
Which is tough.

00:29:24:03 - 00:29:28:29
Speaker 3
It is tough. But I guess hypothetically for me, I would want to know who that person.

00:29:28:29 - 00:29:29:11
Speaker 2
Is.

00:29:29:20 - 00:29:59:00
Speaker 3
That's going to be around my child and I would like to have a conversation with them, um, see who, see what that person is like. And I know usually that doesn't happen. I think when I was married, I used to take care of his his son that he had in a relationship before where we were in a relationship and I think for me, I made it a point to at least give that individual my contact information.

00:29:59:04 - 00:29:59:16
Speaker 2
Yeah.

00:29:59:25 - 00:30:12:25
Speaker 3
You know, we didn't have like full long conversations or anything like that. But, you know, if I needed to reach out to her in regards to what was going on with their, their son I would reach out, you know.

00:30:12:27 - 00:30:14:09
Speaker 2
Okay. But yeah.

00:30:14:13 - 00:30:23:25
Speaker 3
Just being invisible and trying to take care of people's kids and, you know, not, not even talking to the mother is disgusted to me.

00:30:24:02 - 00:30:24:21
Speaker 2
Yeah.

00:30:24:26 - 00:30:27:21
Speaker 3
Yeah, it's disgusting. But but I don't know, I again.

00:30:27:24 - 00:30:32:28
Speaker 2
It's just disgusting. Do you know she said, I'm going to say that word one more time is disgusting to me.

00:30:32:28 - 00:30:35:27
Speaker 3
I just thought is I think is do you do you.

00:30:36:00 - 00:30:38:29
Speaker 2
Recall we just bring it back for a minute.

00:30:38:29 - 00:30:39:08
Speaker 3
Yeah.

00:30:39:11 - 00:30:48:14
Speaker 2
Do you recall experiencing co-parenting, seeing it even like answer uncles or anything like that when you were younger?

00:30:50:19 - 00:30:51:15
Speaker 2
Um.

00:30:52:11 - 00:30:56:26
Speaker 3
I feel like I saw it. Yeah, I think I did. Yeah. Austin okay.

00:30:57:23 - 00:30:58:19
Speaker 2
Was a good.

00:30:58:19 - 00:31:21:09
Speaker 3
But I feel like it was mainly where they were married. Okay. Before, okay. And I felt like, you know, from what I can see, it seemed fine. Um, I mean, my mother, my father got to a point where they were co-parenting because they weren't together. Um, I guess in the later parts of when I was a child and they, they did did find my, my dad was pretty much like, you know, do you do it?

00:31:21:09 - 00:31:22:17
Speaker 3
Your mother says, yes.

00:31:23:05 - 00:31:23:20
Speaker 2
They go.

00:31:24:02 - 00:31:47:17
Speaker 3
You know, but I think when, when, when someone's I don't know, I don't know if when they're married, if it becomes different. I think because you're going through a divorce, usually a divorces can be very chaotic. Yeah. But I feel like with co-parenting, if you're going to be with someone else, you need to have a discussion. I just think you just need to not if you're dating, if you're going to have that person around your child hmm.

00:31:48:02 - 00:31:49:06
Speaker 2
Mm hmm. I agree.

00:31:49:06 - 00:31:52:22
Speaker 3
Yeah. You should have a discussion. I agree with your co-parent.

00:31:52:23 - 00:31:56:20
Speaker 2
Yes, that's that's yes, you definitely you.

00:31:56:20 - 00:31:59:14
Speaker 3
Remember like seeing any people co-parenting as a kid.

00:32:00:29 - 00:32:07:26
Speaker 2
Looking back I really I want to say, like, no, I want to say no.

00:32:07:26 - 00:32:10:03
Speaker 3
So is it mainly one parent taking care of the child?

00:32:10:05 - 00:32:21:07
Speaker 2
Yeah. Like, for me personally, it was just my mom and I really I mean, no, no, no. Okay. It's my stepdad came into the picture later on, you know, in life, but he wouldn't.

00:32:21:07 - 00:32:22:10
Speaker 3
Be seen as a co-parent.

00:32:23:03 - 00:32:44:04
Speaker 2
No, but I mean, like that relationship with my biological dad and now my stepdad. Oh, I don't think that there was ever any, like, discussion. Not even like a discussion. It didn't seem like there was ever any tension, though, or anything like that. Among the among anybody.

00:32:44:04 - 00:32:45:21
Speaker 3
Like, that's good. That's good.

00:32:45:21 - 00:33:04:05
Speaker 2
I never witnessed anything that was, like, unhealthy or like, they weren't talking or speaking, you know? And I got along with my stepdad from the from the beginning so, you know, I it never was like a like a bad thing for me or a bad feeling or a bad vibe that I got and I.

00:33:04:05 - 00:33:24:17
Speaker 3
Think that that's that's good. So going back to my past situation, you know, if if that person would like complain if the the child would like complain about their mom or, you know, I would always say, well, you know, your mom or your dad, they're trying to do the best. You know, I think that that's good to try to put up a supportive front.

00:33:24:17 - 00:33:26:27
Speaker 3
Yeah. You're not trying to get in-between.

00:33:26:27 - 00:33:29:02
Speaker 2
Yes. Their the their.

00:33:29:02 - 00:33:51:00
Speaker 3
Relationship. Yes. It's your stepmother. Stepfather. I think that letting them know, hey, if this is what your mother says, this is what your father says. This is for a reason. Yeah. And if there was a decision that needed to be made, if the parents, the biological parents weren't there, I would reach out to the biological parents, say, hey, he wants to do this.

00:33:51:19 - 00:33:52:19
Speaker 3
Is this okay?

00:33:52:26 - 00:33:53:08
Speaker 2
Okay.

00:33:53:08 - 00:34:02:27
Speaker 3
You know, so I think that that I think that that's good. Like showing the biological parents that you're not trying to get in the way of being like yes. Their mother.

00:34:02:27 - 00:34:03:14
Speaker 2
Yes.

00:34:04:03 - 00:34:05:08
Speaker 3
I think that that's important.

00:34:05:11 - 00:34:07:12
Speaker 2
It is. It is it is important.

00:34:07:12 - 00:34:18:16
Speaker 3
When you just insert yourself in a situation without actually having a conversation with the other person that, again, it's disgusting to me.

00:34:19:29 - 00:34:21:23
Speaker 2
And it's kind of like, where's your head at? Yeah.

00:34:21:23 - 00:34:23:06
Speaker 3
Like, what kind of adult are you?

00:34:23:29 - 00:34:26:25
Speaker 2
That's just oh, yeah. It's yeah.

00:34:27:09 - 00:34:34:14
Speaker 3
It's odd. Yeah. You know, and it's confusing to me. The, the, the the focus should be on the child is confusing to the child, you know.

00:34:35:19 - 00:34:42:29
Speaker 2
So speaking of for any situation I guess Pete St Connor text.

00:34:43:09 - 00:34:59:20
Speaker 3
Oh yeah. So Pete, I know, yeah. He sent Kanye a text and was like, you know, I'll never get get in the way of you and Kim. And, and he basically said that he would love to meet the kids one day.

00:35:00:07 - 00:35:02:26
Speaker 2
And then Kanye said something like, you never meet my never.

00:35:02:26 - 00:35:03:22
Speaker 3
Meeting my kids.

00:35:04:02 - 00:35:12:04
Speaker 2
And it's like okay. I mean, okay, but how okay.

00:35:12:28 - 00:35:18:20
Speaker 3
If this was you, you're like, this person's never meet him. Like, would you do you think you would say that?

00:35:19:11 - 00:35:19:24
Speaker 2
No.

00:35:20:02 - 00:35:21:08
Speaker 3
Yeah, it's not possible.

00:35:21:08 - 00:35:47:13
Speaker 2
No, no, no, no. I would never say that, you know, but but again, you know, and this is why you have to be just mindful because when you are in the middle of process of a divorce, you have to go do stuff like this. Yes. If you weren't dating anybody, you know, it wouldn't be probably an issue but since she is dating someone, you know, now, he has to deal with the husband who still very much in the picture and in love with her.

00:35:47:22 - 00:35:54:21
Speaker 2
You know, it's it's hard. And if he doesn't want you meeting his kids, it's kind of like, do you really want those problems, Pete? No, you don't. You know, so it's like.

00:35:55:21 - 00:35:57:16
Speaker 3
Yeah, but that's impossible. He's going to meet them.

00:35:57:28 - 00:35:59:27
Speaker 2
He's going to eventually meet them, but.

00:36:00:03 - 00:36:20:02
Speaker 3
Either you're going to be on board or you're not. And that's and that's that's the thing for me I get. That is it's it's such like watching someone move on. Yeah. After you are with them. Yeah, that sucks. But what confuses me is that Kanye was gallivanting with that woman.

00:36:20:02 - 00:36:23:08
Speaker 2
That trollop that is something.

00:36:24:03 - 00:36:29:23
Speaker 3
It's he was gallivanting with.

00:36:29:23 - 00:36:30:05
Speaker 2
Her.

00:36:30:29 - 00:36:39:01
Speaker 3
And then have the audacity to be upset at Kim for having a boyfriend when he was the one that was doing it.

00:36:40:24 - 00:36:45:11
Speaker 2
He can't win somebody like that. Yeah, no, you can't. You know, you got to just move in silence.

00:36:46:04 - 00:36:50:24
Speaker 3
Yeah. But again, you know, the kids that they're going to meet, Pete, I mean.

00:36:50:26 - 00:36:53:29
Speaker 2
Eventually they are they have they have social. Yes.

00:36:53:29 - 00:37:06:26
Speaker 3
They're going to they probably already have. They're going and either you're going to be on board if it are you or not. But I think they're respectful. Thing is that Pete reached out. Yeah. I think that that that's shows maturity.

00:37:06:26 - 00:37:07:11
Speaker 2
It does.

00:37:07:11 - 00:37:11:02
Speaker 3
And I think that that's that's that's that's what I would do right now.

00:37:11:02 - 00:37:27:03
Speaker 2
I'm seeing a lot of clips of Pete talking about Connor. And I think that people aren't it's I think it's being taken out of out of out of context because those were those were year ago for. Yeah. And you know what I mean? People are making it like, oh, he's doing it's like, no, no, no, no, that's old.

00:37:27:04 - 00:37:28:23
Speaker 2
That was old stuff.

00:37:28:28 - 00:37:29:25
Speaker 3
You know, comedian.

00:37:29:26 - 00:37:40:15
Speaker 2
He's not going to be gunning for Kanye like that right now. No, come on. You know, no, I think he's probably pretty chill. He's probably going to lay low. He's probably not trying to cause any more problems than what Kim already has to deal with.

00:37:40:16 - 00:37:51:06
Speaker 3
I mean, he's like, honestly, I think he's a cool person. I've seen interviews with him and stuff. I just don't know. I just think the age difference is is vast. Maybe not that.

00:37:51:16 - 00:37:55:24
Speaker 2
Jay's my chuckling to this one and.

00:37:55:24 - 00:38:01:12
Speaker 3
Hearing. So I hope I remember when I looked it up, I, I feel like it's kind of a bit he's like, in his toes, I think.

00:38:01:13 - 00:38:07:26
Speaker 2
Is he? Yeah. Maybe like 27. Maybe, maybe like 25.

00:38:08:22 - 00:38:16:27
Speaker 3
His father passed away in 09 11 so that might kind of give us an idea. Let me see.

00:38:17:15 - 00:38:17:25
Speaker 2
Him.

00:38:18:03 - 00:38:22:20
Speaker 3
Pete Davidson is 28. Okay. So you were close.

00:38:22:21 - 00:38:23:18
Speaker 2
Okay. Okay.

00:38:23:29 - 00:38:26:24
Speaker 3
Yeah. And Kim Kardashian shows me like 40 something. No.

00:38:27:13 - 00:38:28:01
Speaker 2
No.

00:38:28:02 - 00:38:28:21
Speaker 3
41.

00:38:28:24 - 00:38:31:25
Speaker 2
She's 41. That's not so bad.

00:38:32:12 - 00:38:50:14
Speaker 3
No, but I just feel like that's, that's like different parts of life. Is she willing to have more kids? Does he want kids? I just think that those are just. But I think it's, it's, I think it's nice that she's dating I think it's good sometimes to date. Yeah. Get your mind off of things. Yes. And she's always been a relationship girl.

00:38:50:14 - 00:38:51:01
Speaker 2
Absolutely.

00:38:51:01 - 00:38:53:11
Speaker 3
I don't think we've really known a single Kim.

00:38:53:11 - 00:38:54:11
Speaker 2
Not really.

00:38:54:19 - 00:38:58:29
Speaker 3
I don't know if it's a good thing, Ashley now thinking about it, maybe she needs to kind of take some moment to.

00:38:58:29 - 00:39:11:17
Speaker 2
Take a little break. I was surprised. I got to be honest, knowing how Kanye is, I was surprised that she started dating anybody because I knew it was going to come with drama.

00:39:11:17 - 00:39:12:05
Speaker 3
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:39:12:06 - 00:39:18:21
Speaker 2
You know, and I would have chosen my peace over trying to date somebody right now. Like, I don't even want to deal with that.

00:39:18:28 - 00:39:20:11
Speaker 3
Okay? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:39:20:11 - 00:39:33:28
Speaker 2
With somebody like that, I would have been like, I'm just gonna be by myself. Like you. You can be with the whatevers, you know? I'm just going to do my thing and, like, less in this, and then, yeah, you know, because this is going to make it hard for her. And I don't like that.

00:39:34:02 - 00:39:47:20
Speaker 3
I don't like that either. Don't make it harder for me. So. Okay, so say if you were in a co-parenting relationship, what kind of like full pause would you have in regards to someone else potentially coming into your child's life?

00:39:49:22 - 00:39:50:13
Speaker 2
Oh, gee.

00:39:50:15 - 00:39:57:22
Speaker 3
Are with your cool parents like do they have to run everything by you still.

00:39:59:20 - 00:40:19:07
Speaker 2
And know that they're not going to run everything by me? They're not, you know, so if you're being realistic, you know, that's not that's not going to be the case. All you can do is just respect hopefully you each respect each other enough to where nothing comes up to where you can't discuss it with the other person.

00:40:19:16 - 00:40:20:13
Speaker 3
Just have to be open.

00:40:20:27 - 00:40:21:10
Speaker 2
Yeah.

00:40:21:29 - 00:40:26:02
Speaker 3
Yeah. How would you feel if someone else be like a step parent?

00:40:28:19 - 00:40:29:10
Speaker 3
I know a.

00:40:29:11 - 00:40:56:11
Speaker 2
Man. Oh, my goodness. Somebody being a step parent to my baby. Oh, I don't know. I mean, if the relationship was over, I could I could just hope that that person that was coming into that role was good. It was a good person, respectful person, a kind hearted person. You know, you're kind of giving it up to, like, hoping and praying.

00:40:56:11 - 00:41:10:16
Speaker 2
That's you know, your partner chooses somebody to be a good influence, you know, or is just just a positive person to be around. You know, you just hope for the best and that would be a hard pill to swallow, though, I got to be honest.

00:41:10:26 - 00:41:37:05
Speaker 3
Yeah. I mean, for for me, when my son was around someone else, I wasn't aware of that until after the fact. And it was it was very difficult for me because I wasn't told about it. And I had noticed changes within my son. That's what I think. Bothered. Yes. Because I had noticed changes and I was like, why is he acting like that?

00:41:37:05 - 00:41:37:15
Speaker 3
And I would.

00:41:37:15 - 00:41:38:08
Speaker 2
Ask.

00:41:38:25 - 00:41:41:01
Speaker 3
And then they would be like, oh, I don't I don't know.

00:41:41:07 - 00:41:42:17
Speaker 2
I don't know. Which took about.

00:41:43:17 - 00:41:45:03
Speaker 3
Like something is different.

00:41:45:09 - 00:41:48:20
Speaker 2
Yeah. And a mom. So you will tune in.

00:41:48:20 - 00:42:17:12
Speaker 3
Yes. And yeah. And that's what I think really, like, bothered me if I hadn't noticed any differences, then it wouldn't been an issue. But I noticed differences and it made me question, is he happy being around this person? And I'm not going to lie to you like when when I found out for sure what was going on, even though because it was it told to me by my parents I wanted to die, I swear to goodness.

00:42:17:12 - 00:42:43:01
Speaker 3
Like I was like, oh my goodness. I felt sick to my stomach. Yeah. Like, I just wanted to I was like, I brought this kid into the world and you can't even have a conversation with me about who he's going to be around. Like, I remember I just literally like, I, I think I had like a little bit of a little suicidal thoughts in my head because, like, how I kept thinking, how am I going to protect my child?

00:42:43:01 - 00:43:00:16
Speaker 3
Yeah, when the father is not even, like, telling me things. And I'm noticing and I was noticing differences in his behavior and he wasn't even, like, being forthright. And I was like, okay, I can't even have a conversation with you. I feel sick.

00:43:00:23 - 00:43:01:05
Speaker 2
I can't.

00:43:01:10 - 00:43:18:25
Speaker 3
Yeah, that's a I was I because then you you know, when you're so used to having your child around you and then your child is is somewhere else, you don't know where your child is. You don't know who your child is with. It was the most one of the most painful feelings that I've ever experienced in my life.

00:43:18:26 - 00:43:27:03
Speaker 2
One of the biggest the biggest thing for me is knowing that my child is safe.

00:43:27:03 - 00:43:27:28
Speaker 3
Exactly.

00:43:28:04 - 00:44:00:01
Speaker 2
His safety comes above any any one thing any any thing. So I can't imagine if I didn't have control over how even to control. But just you know what I mean? Like overt oversight of of a situation that involves my baby, huh? You know, that would absolutely put me in a space, because if I'm noticing behavior is different in a way that's not progressive, then it's it's a whole.

00:44:00:07 - 00:44:21:09
Speaker 3
It's like alerts, like red flag. Red flag went off in my mind. I remember, like, when I like, for sure it was confirmed with me, and I won't go into how it was confirmed, but when it was confirmed to me, like, what was going on, like, I remember sitting in my car and I was like, crying. I was like, I don't, I cannot even imagine that this person I was asking this person, what is going on?

00:44:21:26 - 00:44:32:28
Speaker 3
Is my son really with you? I've noticed changes and I asked a multiple times and then they, they, they they'll be like, Yeah, no, he's fine. I couldn't I couldn't face like my son.

00:44:34:08 - 00:44:34:26
Speaker 2
Which is.

00:44:35:01 - 00:44:58:03
Speaker 3
Just crazy. Like, I was like, okay, can I, can I face time with, with him? No, he's sleeping. Again. Why the hell you going lie to me? My kid in sleeping at that time, you know, so basically, you know, it was follow that he actually wasn't with him, that my son was with you know, his girlfriend, which again, I know it happens because I was the I was that person.

00:44:58:03 - 00:45:17:25
Speaker 3
Right. You know, when I was younger where you know, he would leave his son with me, but at least I would communicate well with the child's mother. So it was it was there was a difference. You know, I even when his son would be going back home, I would coordinate with his mother like, I can meet you at this place.

00:45:17:25 - 00:45:22:11
Speaker 3
Whatever. I had no idea. I didn't even know this person existed.

00:45:23:23 - 00:45:24:26
Speaker 2
I had no.

00:45:25:06 - 00:45:30:17
Speaker 3
Knowledge of who this person was. And, you know, so I just think that was cool. Parents and.

00:45:30:29 - 00:45:32:21
Speaker 2
It just.

00:45:32:21 - 00:45:50:13
Speaker 3
Be intentional. I think when you're intentionally, you think about other people's feelings in the situation. I feel like you get you get better results. Yeah, absolutely. And then the child, you know, they they can feed off of everyone's feelings. Yeah. You know, and.

00:45:51:07 - 00:45:52:25
Speaker 2
I don't it if everyone.

00:45:53:01 - 00:45:59:23
Speaker 3
And you know, you don't I don't think that you should want someone to be in an unhappy space. Yeah.

00:45:59:23 - 00:46:23:16
Speaker 2
Yeah, yeah. To me, I feel like if I was in a situation where I was dating someone that had a baby and I noticed just because I. I notice that I'm very observant. Yes. That, you know, maybe he wasn't based timing with the mom or talking to the mom or someone anything like that with the mother, like, because I'd be looking to see, like, well, what is a relationship there?

00:46:23:16 - 00:46:32:28
Speaker 2
You know, it's kind of like you would hope that the girlfriend would be like, Hey, do you want to call your mom? I don't know. I don't know why you would think that.

00:46:33:01 - 00:46:37:11
Speaker 3
But suppose they're saying, oh, she's crazy. You got to keep it a secret.

00:46:38:00 - 00:46:38:10
Speaker 2
Right?

00:46:38:10 - 00:47:09:14
Speaker 3
This person is this and this person, is that supposed that they're saying that to you? But what do you do? Yeah. Do you do you say to yourself, huh? Maybe I shouldn't be in a situation that is this unsettled, especially when a child is involved? Or do you ignore the child's needs and pursue yours only, huh? A lot of people a lot of people ignore those child needs and they don't give they don't say you know what I mean?

00:47:09:14 - 00:47:16:15
Speaker 3
Remove myself from the situation because it's not healthy and clearly it's not settled. Right. And they insert themselves.

00:47:17:23 - 00:47:21:24
Speaker 2
But it's no nothing and never.

00:47:21:24 - 00:47:24:06
Speaker 3
You never win in life when you do bad things.

00:47:24:10 - 00:47:28:20
Speaker 2
No, no. And, you know, kids get older.

00:47:29:05 - 00:47:30:02
Speaker 3
And they remember.

00:47:30:02 - 00:47:32:08
Speaker 2
They remember just mean they remember.

00:47:32:10 - 00:47:36:08
Speaker 3
And they're so vulnerable. I know. You got to protect them. You do better protect.

00:47:36:09 - 00:47:37:17
Speaker 2
That's the most important thing, boy.

00:47:37:22 - 00:47:38:04
Speaker 3
Yes.

00:47:38:14 - 00:47:40:16
Speaker 2
Get in between my baby and me.

00:47:41:21 - 00:47:59:05
Speaker 3
So I think, you know, even though you may not see it as a good thing, I think it's a dope thing that Pete reached out I do, too. He will later. That's when I think he's going to know. You know, I think that that's a respectable thing. It's I know it's hard. Like, I can imagine Kanye being like, man, I had Kim.

00:47:59:05 - 00:48:01:14
Speaker 3
You know, I don't mess it up with someone else.

00:48:01:19 - 00:48:02:07
Speaker 2
I mess it up.

00:48:02:07 - 00:48:11:26
Speaker 3
I get it. But having someone else to one who wants Ashley, take care and meet your kids and be nice to your kids. And that's a dope thing. That's a really.

00:48:11:26 - 00:48:27:01
Speaker 2
Dope with an ego like Kanye is, though. I'm wondering, like, when he does settle on someone, who will it be because who's gonna top Kim and he's probably thinking like that, you know, I wouldn't you I would just be with who, you know, works best for me.

00:48:27:01 - 00:48:29:21
Speaker 3
But a lot of men have that issue.

00:48:29:23 - 00:48:31:07
Speaker 2
Or who's going to hurt?

00:48:31:14 - 00:48:39:01
Speaker 3
Who's going to make, you know, watch celebrity big brother you. So Lamar's on there. I saw every episode. Lamar says something about, you know, I.

00:48:39:01 - 00:48:45:04
Speaker 2
Ruined Khloe so. So she was the love of my life and I ruined it.

00:48:45:04 - 00:48:56:11
Speaker 3
And her family, they took care of me every time he talks about her family like I just imagine, like a lost puppy that they took it because he, like, makes it seem like, you know, they took me in and they just take care of me.

00:48:56:11 - 00:49:00:08
Speaker 2
Oh, sure they did. Yeah. You know, I'm sure they did.

00:49:00:11 - 00:49:03:18
Speaker 3
A lot of people don't notice what they have until he's gone.

00:49:03:26 - 00:49:13:20
Speaker 2
To this gown. Somebody snatches it right up. So who as far as celebrities go, yeah, it's good. In the co-parenting world.

00:49:15:16 - 00:49:16:14
Speaker 3
Co-Parenting.

00:49:16:15 - 00:49:21:12
Speaker 2
I want to say Diddy is one. Yes, he has a few.

00:49:21:14 - 00:49:26:21
Speaker 3
He has a lot. Yes. He seems like a very good, supportive co-parent yeah. That's nice. Yeah.

00:49:27:04 - 00:49:34:05
Speaker 2
Oh, Alicia Keys. And and, you know, Swizz Beats. That was a Rocky in the beginning, though. Yes, I know that.

00:49:34:05 - 00:49:36:10
Speaker 3
Yeah, yeah, yeah. But they definitely come around. They've come.

00:49:36:10 - 00:49:37:13
Speaker 2
Around. They've definitely come.

00:49:37:13 - 00:49:49:11
Speaker 3
Around. This one is not a good one. You can tell that Sierra in future, they don't do that. Well, did you see when she went out of the club, when they when she was there, I would have left to I would love to protect your peace at any cost. Okay. Like what?

00:49:49:21 - 00:49:53:29
Speaker 2
Who's here? Who goes, yeah. Oh, yeah. Going on. I got.

00:49:54:06 - 00:49:55:10
Speaker 3
To go yeah, yeah.

00:49:55:14 - 00:49:58:09
Speaker 2
Yeah. But another good one, I think is Jennifer Lopez.

00:49:59:09 - 00:50:01:18
Speaker 3
Oh, yeah. And Marc. Marc Anthony. Anthony.

00:50:01:18 - 00:50:02:20
Speaker 2
I love Marc Anthony.

00:50:02:25 - 00:50:03:27
Speaker 3
He seems very sweet.

00:50:04:13 - 00:50:05:13
Speaker 2
Marc Anthony.

00:50:06:08 - 00:50:06:19
Speaker 3
Yeah.

00:50:07:21 - 00:50:08:19
Speaker 2
Invite us somewhere.

00:50:11:01 - 00:50:14:05
Speaker 2
I don't know. I really. No, I was.

00:50:14:05 - 00:50:18:14
Speaker 3
Just thinking of even Nick Cannon. I think he would be seen as a good co-parents. Yeah, actually.

00:50:18:14 - 00:50:18:21
Speaker 2
I do.

00:50:18:21 - 00:50:20:12
Speaker 3
Too. Yeah, I think that he yeah.

00:50:20:21 - 00:50:24:08
Speaker 2
You know, he's not about the the drama. Yes. He likes having babies with multiple women, but.

00:50:24:08 - 00:50:25:09
Speaker 3
He seems like. He seems like.

00:50:25:09 - 00:50:25:25
Speaker 2
Yeah, yeah.

00:50:25:26 - 00:50:27:12
Speaker 3
I think all around, he's a nice guy.

00:50:27:17 - 00:50:30:28
Speaker 2
I've never seen him badmouth any one of them.

00:50:31:00 - 00:50:32:04
Speaker 3
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:50:32:06 - 00:50:37:10
Speaker 2
Don't even like exes or anything like that. Especially now. Mariah. Oh, talks highly of Mariah.

00:50:37:10 - 00:50:38:27
Speaker 3
Yes, he's. He wants her.

00:50:38:29 - 00:50:40:05
Speaker 2
I love some Mariah, honey.

00:50:40:06 - 00:50:41:07
Speaker 3
Yeah, he wants. But his to.

00:50:41:07 - 00:50:45:20
Speaker 2
Me, he said we belong together. This is like. Oh.

00:50:46:15 - 00:50:56:01
Speaker 3
Van Jones. I don't know if you guys saw, but Van Jones actually has a baby now with he said a long time or a lifelong friend.

00:50:56:02 - 00:50:56:14
Speaker 2
Yeah.

00:50:57:08 - 00:51:18:20
Speaker 3
So how do you feel about that? We're you're because they say they're conscious co-parents. How do you feel about maybe you're getting older? Yeah. You know, you're not in a relationship with someone and you have this friend and maybe she wants to have a baby, too. And you guys work out an agreement to have to have a.

00:51:18:25 - 00:51:33:19
Speaker 2
Have a baby. Yeah. I mean, you know, those things can work. They can absolutely work as long as you guys have the same goal and a mutual understanding of of exactly what it is you want when in terms of raising the child, then, you know, I don't see why I wouldn't.

00:51:33:29 - 00:51:54:17
Speaker 3
Why do I think that that might work out better? It probably. You know why? Because they're conscious about it. Yeah. They're actually sitting down and they're probably thinking, okay, if this happens, then we do this. If this happens, then we would do this. Yeah. And I feel like you know, in just regular, everyday relationships, you don't really sit and be like, okay, if this happens, you wish we should.

00:51:55:07 - 00:52:05:01
Speaker 3
But I don't think that people really do that. You know, they just kind of like, okay, it's just going to happen. It's going to happen. Whatever happens, we'll deal with it. Right. But I, I actually like that idea. Yeah.

00:52:05:09 - 00:52:13:23
Speaker 2
Yeah, I think we'll probably start seeing that more, to be honest. Yeah, you know, it's kind of a new, new, maybe not new, but it's, it's, you know, brought to the forefront.

00:52:13:26 - 00:52:32:23
Speaker 3
There was someone, um, I don't really like him, but there was someone who. It's a, it was a is an ex friend, I should say, where I don't I didn't really understand the situation, but they kind of said it was like that where she wanted as a child.

00:52:33:04 - 00:52:33:10
Speaker 2
Because.

00:52:33:10 - 00:52:47:27
Speaker 3
He was in a relationship with someone else and they had a child together. I guess she wanted a child. Oh, and so I don't really I don't know the specifics. I don't know if they had sex or if they use IVF, but it was like a weird like like it was like, oh, he, he now has a daughter.

00:52:47:29 - 00:53:07:05
Speaker 3
I was like, I don't understand, but no one ever explained it to me, but they weren't together. So I don't know if he had a child unconsciously or but they pitched it to me as though she wanted a child and he was able to provide a sperm, some sperm for her. Interesting.

00:53:07:15 - 00:53:08:06
Speaker 2
Yeah. Yeah.

00:53:08:08 - 00:53:11:04
Speaker 3
I thought it was interesting, too. I think they were just I don't know.

00:53:11:12 - 00:53:13:07
Speaker 2
We and that is something I don't know. But.

00:53:14:08 - 00:53:17:02
Speaker 3
You know, I think I think that people have been doing that for her.

00:53:17:10 - 00:53:17:22
Speaker 2
Yeah.

00:53:17:25 - 00:53:18:27
Speaker 3
For a while. I'm sure.

00:53:19:04 - 00:53:21:10
Speaker 2
Yeah, I'm sure. I'm sure they have.

00:53:21:21 - 00:53:37:07
Speaker 3
And same sex couples sometimes if. Well, they sometimes they might. Well, yeah. Same sex couples, you know, maybe they have a friend who you know, if it's a if a female couple and they have a friend who wants a child, you know, they. Yep. They partner and they do that.

00:53:37:07 - 00:53:41:18
Speaker 2
Yep. That's true. Yeah, that's true. I'm sure it's more popular than that.

00:53:41:18 - 00:53:50:25
Speaker 3
We really think. Yeah, I think it's I remember the girl the woman is older and she said that she wants her boyfriend or her husband to go.

00:53:50:26 - 00:53:52:01
Speaker 2
Yes. Name Tammy.

00:53:52:06 - 00:53:55:28
Speaker 3
Tammy. Yeah. And you were like, well, I don't think that's going to work. I think it would work.

00:53:57:02 - 00:54:04:29
Speaker 2
I don't know, under those circumstances because they still want to be together and. But you can be together. Yes. I think we're blurry with the facts.

00:54:05:05 - 00:54:08:11
Speaker 3
Yeah. How she was she said went off for a year. That was confusing.

00:54:08:11 - 00:54:09:21
Speaker 2
Yeah. That part. I'm like.

00:54:10:04 - 00:54:10:26
Speaker 3
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:54:11:04 - 00:54:16:09
Speaker 2
So I don't know. Good luck with that, though. Tammy yes.

00:54:16:28 - 00:54:17:06
Speaker 3
Yes.

00:54:17:10 - 00:54:26:18
Speaker 2
You know. Yeah, I don't I don't. Yeah. I'm not sure how that one would work. But listen, if two people are dedicated to making it work, then there's nothing that can stop it from working.

00:54:26:21 - 00:54:31:26
Speaker 3
Yeah. Okay. I think I think is dope just kind of writing it all out and. Yeah.

00:54:32:07 - 00:54:37:21
Speaker 2
Thinking about things before it actually happened, I think. So to do that more often with everything, really.

00:54:37:23 - 00:54:40:05
Speaker 3
We really should just be intentional.

00:54:40:06 - 00:54:43:14
Speaker 2
Folks. Yeah, I like that. We're intentional.

00:54:43:14 - 00:54:53:25
Speaker 3
Yes. I want an intentional man. He if you were a friend to Kanye.

00:54:53:29 - 00:54:54:12
Speaker 2
Yeah.

00:54:54:23 - 00:54:56:23
Speaker 3
And you know, he wants his family back.

00:54:57:06 - 00:54:57:13
Speaker 2
Huh?

00:54:58:11 - 00:55:02:28
Speaker 3
Would you encourage him to work to continue to get his family or would you encourage him to.

00:55:02:28 - 00:55:30:09
Speaker 2
Let it go I would encourage him to just have a real conversation with with Kim, try to first try to get along because it seems like they're not getting along right now. He's talking, she's listening, which I'm sure is the dynamic all the time. I'm sure she wants to be heard, you know, and I'm not sure if he's he's he's giving her that right now.

00:55:30:09 - 00:55:46:25
Speaker 2
But first, I would say you guys need to be getting along first. Get on the same page and then you can really figure out what you want to do because you can get on the same page and then be like, this is him for us. And, you know, then getting your family back isn't really up for debate, but you guys can still be friends like you can still be cordial.

00:55:47:07 - 00:55:53:03
Speaker 2
You know, right now it's just too hot. It's everything's so hot. I don't think either one of them should be dating. I think they need to just.

00:55:53:03 - 00:55:54:17
Speaker 3
Yeah, I think so. You're right. Chill.

00:55:54:17 - 00:56:15:21
Speaker 2
And finalize a divorce and then move on. It's just too hot. Everything is in the news. Every move that they make, that has to be just, like, so stressful. If I was this friend, I'd be like, back up, back up. Let the process happen. If she wants to move forward to the divorce and let it be, you know, if you have something that you want to say to her, be genuine how you're saying it.

00:56:15:21 - 00:56:19:20
Speaker 2
Because he's not being very genuine with his messages to her or his delivery.

00:56:19:29 - 00:56:20:29
Speaker 3
You know, gaslighting her.

00:56:21:03 - 00:56:22:02
Speaker 2
Hmm mm.

00:56:22:25 - 00:56:24:08
Speaker 3
Yeah. He's gaslighting her. Yeah.

00:56:24:08 - 00:56:25:12
Speaker 2
So on that note.

00:56:25:12 - 00:56:36:17
Speaker 3
And then I like one point, he said she's a she's he's his biggest he is her biggest w like her biggest win, huh? Really? What what does that mean?

00:56:37:00 - 00:56:38:06
Speaker 2
Because, like, my kids are my biggest one.

00:56:38:06 - 00:56:46:14
Speaker 3
Yeah. I feel like he doesn't realize that she was Kim Kardashian before him. I feel like he thinks he elevated her.

00:56:47:13 - 00:56:50:02
Speaker 2
But I don't know how she was even.

00:56:50:06 - 00:57:01:11
Speaker 3
Always liked Kim Kardashian. You know, I understand that. You know, there's some individuals who feel negative about her. I've always liked her. To me, she seems like a genuinely nice person.

00:57:01:11 - 00:57:06:07
Speaker 2
Yeah. I mean, she's. Yeah, she's been in the in the in the spotlight for quite some time.

00:57:06:16 - 00:57:27:08
Speaker 3
Yeah. If I was Connie's friend, I would say, like, what you said, have a conversation with her, but you need to accept her. Know, if if it's a no, we're no longer together. You got to accept it. You just got to move on. Yeah. Trying to, like, talk badly about who she's with now and stuff. It just it you just seem like a sore loser.

00:57:27:17 - 00:57:32:20
Speaker 2
And it's a little bit of fuel to the fire. You know, I'm sure it's going to make her want to continue with the divorce.

00:57:32:23 - 00:57:36:13
Speaker 3
It doesn't make her want to back off. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:57:36:26 - 00:57:39:18
Speaker 2
No, Kanye not going in.

00:57:39:20 - 00:57:41:02
Speaker 3
Not dying. Yes.

00:57:41:18 - 00:57:45:12
Speaker 2
Before we wrap this up. Oh, yeah. We got a little.

00:57:46:11 - 00:57:47:11
Speaker 3
Going to do. Get a.

00:57:47:21 - 00:57:48:10
Speaker 2
Yes. Get a.

00:57:48:10 - 00:57:51:09
Speaker 3
Song. You got to think of a name, guys. Yes. Should we name it?

00:57:51:09 - 00:57:52:12
Speaker 2
Yeah. Yeah, just we.

00:57:52:12 - 00:57:53:14
Speaker 3
Just think it's cool.

00:57:53:18 - 00:58:00:25
Speaker 2
It is just these few this line of summer song. Okay, ready? It did it.

00:58:00:25 - 00:58:05:28
Speaker 3
It it did. It had a and then in it, and it does this.

00:58:06:01 - 00:58:22:06
Speaker 2
And then whenever, like on Thursday and I've been about hot, I don't know what I got last year. I like. I mean, I can if it wasn't me. Yeah, yeah, it was me. Yeah. Like, that's like Shaggy. I feel I get that.

00:58:22:06 - 00:58:23:13
Speaker 3
I give it all right.

00:58:23:13 - 00:58:24:07
Speaker 2
As Shaggy.

00:58:25:07 - 00:58:29:00
Speaker 3
And she was then and she never talked about me.

00:58:29:11 - 00:58:40:14
Speaker 2
The one never know. Okay. So look. Oh, that was a go on. I like Shaggy very much. Yeah, yeah, yeah. His one of his favorite song for me was They call me Mister Boom Bust and Fantastic.

00:58:40:25 - 00:58:43:13
Speaker 3
The guy by the body back home.

00:58:45:04 - 00:58:52:02
Speaker 2
Just like it. Well, no know you know it. Y'all know it. Okay.

00:58:52:16 - 00:58:53:25
Speaker 3
Mine is. Okay.

00:58:54:06 - 00:58:56:09
Speaker 2
You gonna get this one, like, 2 seconds, okay?

00:58:56:09 - 00:58:56:19
Speaker 3
Okay.

00:58:57:03 - 00:58:58:15
Speaker 2
I love bone it.

00:58:59:11 - 00:59:00:10
Speaker 3
You know, on a front.

00:59:01:16 - 00:59:04:09
Speaker 2
We we we saw that one before. I know.

00:59:04:09 - 00:59:05:20
Speaker 3
And I beat that.

00:59:05:27 - 00:59:07:07
Speaker 2
To the right.

00:59:07:07 - 00:59:10:04
Speaker 3
There's a big a all right. Near the.

00:59:10:04 - 00:59:11:27
Speaker 2
Bet. Get a load.

00:59:12:22 - 00:59:14:16
Speaker 3
I thought she stole this test.

00:59:14:16 - 00:59:19:19
Speaker 2
And now to get ten, I shut it. The old brilliant.

00:59:19:29 - 00:59:20:25
Speaker 3
Resilient.

00:59:21:03 - 00:59:26:10
Speaker 2
Thing there some 27 million. 01 and. Oh, come on, Rihanna.

00:59:26:29 - 00:59:30:10
Speaker 3
I love Rihanna. I'm actually loving her. I think more and more as I get older.

00:59:30:10 - 00:59:33:11
Speaker 2
You. Me, too. I love her more and more.

00:59:33:18 - 00:59:35:21
Speaker 3
I love her personality. I love her humor.

00:59:36:07 - 00:59:41:04
Speaker 2
Rihanna, send us a gift basket of your skin. Caroline I already purchased it, but.

00:59:41:17 - 00:59:43:21
Speaker 3
That would be great. I told you I bought some last night.

00:59:43:21 - 00:59:45:06
Speaker 2
Yes, I love I.

00:59:45:06 - 00:59:46:03
Speaker 3
Bought some of the.

00:59:47:11 - 00:59:49:24
Speaker 2
Foundation. No makeup that the skin care stuff.

00:59:50:18 - 00:59:51:26
Speaker 3
Moisturizer blush.

00:59:52:03 - 00:59:53:20
Speaker 2
Oh, yeah, yeah.

00:59:53:20 - 00:59:56:21
Speaker 3
Because she has the blush that you can put. Yeah. There.

00:59:56:21 - 00:59:57:28
Speaker 2
And yeah.

00:59:58:12 - 01:00:00:11
Speaker 3
So I don't think it's called blush. And I bought some.

01:00:00:21 - 01:00:02:02
Speaker 2
Lip gloss and look glass.

01:00:02:17 - 01:00:03:24
Speaker 3
And I think that that's all I bought.

01:00:03:27 - 01:00:08:08
Speaker 2
Yeah, I like. I definitely like the brand. Yeah. She's doing very well.

01:00:08:21 - 01:00:11:01
Speaker 3
Yeah. I don't really wear foundation, so I didn't buy any.

01:00:12:00 - 01:00:12:05
Speaker 2
I.

01:00:12:05 - 01:00:22:23
Speaker 3
Mainly wear tinted moisturizers. I don't like my face to feel heavy and I didn't see any tinted moisturizers. From her. And I don't change up what I put on my face too often. Yeah.

01:00:22:29 - 01:00:25:14
Speaker 2
So yeah. Yes. All of a sudden.

01:00:25:14 - 01:00:26:06
Speaker 3
Exactly.

01:00:26:06 - 01:00:34:23
Speaker 2
You looking like empty you know, I think missing here, pizza face.

01:00:36:13 - 01:00:38:01
Speaker 3
I got no time for that. Where?

01:00:39:10 - 01:00:39:22
Speaker 2
Oh.

01:00:40:03 - 01:00:41:06
Speaker 3
No disrespect to anyone.

01:00:41:06 - 01:00:42:22
Speaker 2
Who has a bit of a yeah.

01:00:42:22 - 01:00:43:19
Speaker 3
No disrespect.

01:00:44:17 - 01:00:44:20
Speaker 2
An.

01:00:45:03 - 01:00:49:00
Speaker 3
I don't want I don't you know, that's what happens when you change it up sometimes.

01:00:49:00 - 01:00:55:24
Speaker 2
Listen, here, you pesto pizza base go fast. Yeah, I'm going to take that.

01:00:56:18 - 01:00:57:09
Speaker 3
Take that, take that.

01:00:57:09 - 01:00:58:06
Speaker 2
I'ma call somebody.

01:00:58:07 - 01:00:58:17
Speaker 3
Yeah.

01:00:58:25 - 01:01:05:26
Speaker 2
I'm calling that. Later on the end, I got to figure out who am I call. Yeah. Yes. So thank you for tuning in. Yes.

01:01:06:00 - 01:01:09:27
Speaker 3
And please follow us on Instagram at Queens of the Saturday Night Podcasts.

01:01:10:05 - 01:01:17:05
Speaker 2
Please. But if we work hard or what, five or five, you almost got it. Four or five or whatever.

01:01:17:23 - 01:01:19:13
Speaker 3
Okay, well, I can't roll my.

01:01:19:19 - 01:01:20:21
Speaker 2
You can't roll your eyes.

01:01:20:21 - 01:01:21:29
Speaker 3
I can't roll. Can't do that.

01:01:22:16 - 01:01:22:23
Speaker 2
No.

01:01:23:11 - 01:01:24:14
Speaker 3
I can't. And I'm not going to tell.

01:01:24:14 - 01:01:25:21
Speaker 2
Me you just did.

01:01:25:21 - 01:01:26:08
Speaker 3
No, I did it.

01:01:26:23 - 01:01:28:03
Speaker 2
I know you.

01:01:28:10 - 01:01:31:15
Speaker 3
Okay. All right. Okay. I can say if I were rolling.

01:01:31:21 - 01:01:32:10
Speaker 2
You know what?

01:01:32:12 - 01:01:33:15
Speaker 3
Roll it, guy.

01:01:33:16 - 01:01:35:01
Speaker 2
Literally go.

01:01:36:27 - 01:01:38:07
Speaker 3
Roll. You know, not so.

01:01:38:08 - 01:01:38:17
Speaker 2
Nope.

01:01:39:00 - 01:01:44:11
Speaker 3
Darn sure. Gal, roll it. Gal is Allison Haynes's Barbadian.

01:01:44:15 - 01:01:51:18
Speaker 2
I'm to tell you right now, I'm to be a dancing in the back. If I don't know the jam, I don't know the lyrics, so don't get down. Yeah, I.

01:01:51:18 - 01:02:02:01
Speaker 3
Mean, but yes. So follow up on Facebook. On Instagram, I think YouTube, we need to just record an ending. Yeah, I'm not saying that all the time.

01:02:02:02 - 01:02:03:10
Speaker 2
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:02:03:10 - 01:02:05:05
Speaker 3
We'll do one. Yes, yes.

01:02:05:06 - 01:02:08:21
Speaker 2
Thank you guys for tuning in. We will see you next week.

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